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Advice Wanted Mod please close the thread, I got enough advice., Thank you every1 for your advice.

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cfa28
post Feb 2 2024, 09:16 AM

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QUOTE(Life_House @ Feb 2 2024, 12:21 AM)
TS, I'm same gender as you, about your age.
I believe you must be very confident and successful in your career.

There are still lots of high value guys who look for genuine long term  relationship and don't mind ladies past the mid 30s range.

Try expand your thinking horizon in terms of relationship,  because the reality could be much wonderful than what you might had assumed.

If you don't mind guys with younger age, or had divorced before,  or even a bit far in distance, you have really large pool of choices to pick from.

Sometimes guys with a few years younger could turn out a low profile but a high value successful  man with integrity, sincerely and loyalty.

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Look wise, as long as the lady take effort to maintain a relatively good health and skin, at very basic level, not necessarily need a lot of money to achieve it.

High value guys don't just look for good looking ladies. In fact a lot of guys appreciate the values their significant other bring to them.

They value their significant other who are emotionally stable with least drama as possible, who know her worth, who love herself, who don't put all emotional reliance on the guy, who can constantly provide emotional values to the guy.

You attract what you are, not what you are after.

While trying your luck in the relationship game field,  you may want to as well to learn about how to up your game in the inner values of what genuine guys are looking for.

Relationship or even marriage is the exchange of values. It's a life long learning process. And learning never end.

It's about what values of the guy match yours, what you can and cannot tolerate.

At times you might want consider to look at big picture, that is, to celebrate the strengths of the guy while embrace his small small weaknesses.

There are really tonnes of ladies in the world get married at later age, even at 50s or 60s.

So rest assured good luck find your ways, and you are the luckiest lady that you know.
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As a married man who has almost served prison life sentence, i agree with your assessment.

matured men are not looking for drop dead beauty, so long as presentable (meaning not fat), it's the emotional connection that is important.

my advice for TS is to join some higher end dating sites like Coffee Meets Bagel. sites like these at least have some pre-screenig like age and income requirements that TS may have.


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post Feb 5 2024, 11:02 PM

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QUOTE(Takudan @ Feb 5 2024, 10:08 PM)

For example, I used to think "looks doesn't matter, as long as the guy is nice." Then I matched with a guy with really bad quality photo and he didn't look good there. We chatted quite well and met up. Guess what, my first impression when I met him was, "oh damn, he looks worse than in the photos". It was around pandemic so we were masked, so guess what when we say down and took off our masks?
I am a bit confused, always thought you were a dude from the language of your posts.

you're a woman or are you ghey??


cfa28
post Feb 6 2024, 08:17 AM

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QUOTE(Takudan @ Feb 6 2024, 12:33 AM)

Ehh... well I'm not really hiding anything with that pink tag
Apologies if I sounded rude or intrusive and i surf using my phone on mobile view. so can't see the tag.

wish you congrats on your current committed relationship

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