oh no problem for me
coz for me as long as partner are financially independent or not in bad debt, they are all good

U Ada read the previous comments or not, a guy on behalf of all ladies and hamtam a lady.

Oohh sorry I thought you were a male.
So for a man looking to start a family, I'd say no I won't marry a late 30s-mid 40s lady.
For companionship with no plan to have a child, absolutely I'd marry a lady late 30s-mid 40s.
I find ladies in this age group the most attractive.

Yes there are men who are looking at 30-40 year old lady. But that's not me. But you need to understand that you need to compete with younger girls. How? Be mature, nice. Guys don't want drama in relationship. They want stability, person who support them and not going to find fault with them.

So you need to up your game and not compete in looks alone. You need to show the guy that you have something that a 2x lady does not have.

Anyways it's a number game. You need to meet with as many guys as possible. Daring app, event, volunteering etc.

I got no life so dating app is my only way.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 1 2024, 09:30 AM

That's why, let them. Ignore those. Focus on the messages that help you. No need to take offense at everything ppl say. It's really OK. Some of the forummers here who are already senior to us got some precious gems to share. Try to identify those. And focus on those helpful comments.

With IVF process it helps couple to choose the healthy eggs and sperms to get women pregnant, that’s only part of it. U are right women’s fertility ability plays important role too to carry and grow babies, normal women should be able to get pregnant by 45 unless they are unhealthy according Fertility doctor.

not to pour cold water, but those that already wants to marry has gotten marry and carry on with their lives


Basically, what you are left are 'leftovers' either LGBT , picky, high expectation,not normal person or mainly missed the boat etc
@ this age, presumably guy is normal, either ex divorcee/ spouse that has passed away

company i'm working with has a lot of single n unmarried, guys n ladies included, so i can roughly deduce what i'm seeing
I can see the difference in mindset and thinking amongst us

Even then, let's say, there's a genuine available guy, probably ladies are still highly suspicious, well it works both ways.. n so it goes on

Having said that, if I were a late 30-40s person, if i DO really wan to have family, i would probably gone for a mid 20s-early 30s

This post has been edited by kucingfight: Feb 1 2024, 09:55 AM

u born in 1988? 36 this year is not that old only

have you ever dated before or is single whole life?

I am not sure the doctor told you everything or not. Once you cross 35, you are counted as advance maternal age. Just Google and read it. Need to be prepared. Not necessarily will happen to everyone.

That's why I stick to only below 30 years old.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 1 2024, 09:35 AM

Ya so many single and unmarried working adults end up never marrying. Lotsa a ppl who are career driven with initial intention to provide stability and security in the hopes of marriage one day end up being married to their jobs. Ppl are creatures of habit. And old habits die hard.

Just sharing..

https://www.health.com/condition/pregnancy/...-life-pregnancy

well, that's what they think 10-15yrs ago, time is aplenty, only to realized it suddenly

Nope 1988 older than that.

Yes in my 20s till 30s, I have a chance getting marry in my early 30s but we split out because of difference life values.

you can use the same way of how you know guys from before to find new one. not that hard.. unless you're still picky la

This post has been edited by Chaud: Feb 1 2024, 10:14 AM

My friends ask me to look for white guys and move to western countries they are not stringent to partners’ age like oriental guys see what comments I got from them here.

Sound like a plan, > 88 am really late 30s haha
There are few guys trying to approach me as they toted am around their age or younger than them in fact am older than them 3- 4 years after disclosing my age well they haven’t ran away yet. Haha

This post has been edited by moon88: Feb 1 2024, 10:27 AM

white guys think its easier to get asian women
relatively because white women have high standard as well
go anywhere also the same

I like cooking but can't meet a girl who likes to cook...

Too bad I am too young for you... just 25 this year...

To TS & the young generation out there, successful marriage, building family & raising next generation is not about 2 ppl alone. 50% Weightage are from the 2 person, another 50% weightage is from the family.

The age of 40s will face strong resistance from the family.

with online dating, there's no way a girl cannot meet a guy and get married within 2 years, its mostly high expectations. As a woman age is increasing, she becomes an easier target for casual hookups