ive read some of your comments, and they seem quite extreme. theres no right and wrong here. im just sharing my experience.

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Can you guys stop giving unsolicited advices? TS got what he wanted and has thanked you all. So stop prolonging this discussion. 20+ pages of discussion who has got time to read all that? Further, those who reply don't reply with TS's full story in mind and just making uneducated assumptions which is downright disrespectful to him.

If there is any unresolved issue, I am sure he will open another serious thread.

Stop looking for TS's attention. You all are not gonna get it. Your stranger advices only worth SALT to him. Get a life.

Do you think feminists are extreme too?

This is TS last reply.

Can you guys stop giving unsolicited advices? TS got what he wanted and has thanked you all. So stop prolonging this discussion. 20+ pages of discussion who has got time to read all that? Further, those who reply don't reply with TS's full story in mind and just making uneducated assumptions which is downright disrespectful to him. That is also not to mention that some just creating issues to spark secondary discussion unrelated to TS's objectives.

If there is any unresolved issue, I am sure he will open another serious thread.

Stop looking for TS's attention. You all are not gonna get it. Your stranger advices only worth SALT to him. Get a life.

This is TS last reply.

Can you guys stop giving unsolicited advices? TS got what he wanted and has thanked you all. So stop prolonging this discussion. 20+ pages of discussion who has got time to read all that? Further, those who reply don't reply with TS's full story in mind and just making uneducated assumptions which is downright disrespectful to him. That is also not to mention that some just creating issues to spark secondary discussion unrelated to TS's objectives.

If there is any unresolved issue, I am sure he will open another serious thread.

Stop looking for TS's attention. You all are not gonna get it. Your stranger advices only worth SALT to him. Get a life.

Some girls will wait until they have kids to demand such allowances. Because if this happens before having kids, the husband can just divorce easily. After having kids, it's harder and costly.

And they will not abandon the kids during the divorce because kids can be used as their leverage.

ive read some of your comments, and they seem quite extreme. theres no right and wrong here. im just sharing my experience.

Make sense too. They can use kids to demand montly payment from ex husband.

My case luckily i knew earlier. No kids at all. All safe my asset too. Kick this scammer out. Court order said i dont need pay this person any single sen. Maybe because just few months of married. If already married for many years.. that could be more harder to settle.

Stop looking for TS's attention. You all are not gonna get it. Your stranger advices only worth SALT to him. Get a life.

you're lucky msia law is more loose
if you're in US you will definitely get fcuked.

Hello everyone,

Just a gist of it, I am paying for the house loan, the utilities & groceries (milk & diaper for my baby) and my bring home pay is around 30k per month & the Mrs is bringing home around 5k a month.

We had a fight this month and she exploded saying she doesn't get any money from me & her colleagues husbands all "put money in their purses when they see its empty".

I am reluctant to give because majority of the money I make goes to my son's education via investments & I do not expect her to chip in at all for the maintainance of the family well being.

Am I the asshole?

if you deal with high value guy, its my way or the highway aka goodbye
compromising has its limit, if it touches your boundaries then its not good.

Yes. Agreed with you. At last this scammer send msg to my mother. She want money for few month of married. Lousy shitt person. Luckily my mum straight call me. I forward that msg to court officer. And they said she wanna scam your monther. The officer said never ever paid anything without court order from the judge.

not even RM100 "spare change" when her wallet is empty? in her mind she is worth nothing to you

Sometimes when women act like children you have to treat them like one.

If you pamper them too much they will be spoiled. Have to let them learn how to save money. Some lessons are painful.
This lesson apply to your own kids too. Do not pamper them. It will spoil them.

Hello everyone,

Just a gist of it, I am paying for the house loan, the utilities & groceries (milk & diaper for my baby) and my bring home pay is around 30k per month & the Mrs is bringing home around 5k a month.

We had a fight this month and she exploded saying she doesn't get any money from me & her colleagues husbands all "put money in their purses when they see its empty".

I am reluctant to give because majority of the money I make goes to my son's education via investments & I do not expect her to chip in at all for the maintainance of the family well being.

Am I the asshole?

what is mom favourite thing to do when baby cries?
she feeds them goodies, so the baby stopped crying, when she also stopped, the devil-may-cry came back

if mom failed to educate offspring, why would you certain an adult female are capable on her own device?

Happy spouse, happy house

Has to be both spouse

So many people always say happy wife happy life

WTF happen to the HB, its like they never existed