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Need a little marriage advice, Wife is asking for monthly allowance
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ukauka2020
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Jun 12 2021, 03:35 PM
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theres no need to give allowance when both is working. whats more, she doesnt contribute to the household. if she needs more than 5k spending solely on herself every month. sth if very wrong. you can always buy gifts, but dont commit to monthly allowance.
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ukauka2020
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Jun 13 2021, 06:06 PM
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to be fair. its common for the female side to ask for money when the guy is earning a lot. its kind of like backup plan if anything goes wrong, she still has some savings. since its a common conception that guys tend to "cheat" when they have money. if youre the brother or friend of the girl, i believe youll advise the same too.
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ukauka2020
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Jun 13 2021, 08:40 PM
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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Jun 13 2021, 06:27 PM) if you've money and still bring money back family, how many girls you slept outside, your wife will close one eye only so your statements are not legit if she wants to control his money, that means she has motive she also earn for herself, why cant she make savings? that means her spending habit got problem la why would you complain you dont get enough money from husband after you got your ''strong and independent title'' ive read some of your comments, and they seem quite extreme. theres no right and wrong here. im just sharing my experience.
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ukauka2020
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Jun 13 2021, 08:54 PM
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QUOTE(duplicated @ Jun 13 2021, 08:49 PM) Do you think feminists are extreme too? i think there are exteme feminists and milder ones too.
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