She doesn't do my laundry or cook FYI. I do those things at home

Basically if u plan to be calculative, the wife may opt for a divorce or worse, cheat behind your back.

Seen this happening among friends before.

Marriage is all about cooperation and learn to do everything together.

Otherwise, why bother to marry for? Might as well have some one night stands instead.

Also, if you are born a male, you are already oppressing woman. You have more chance to get a job than another woman, you have more chance to get your parents love, you eat more food, you are smarter, even sex position you are on top of her. That is why we must give them much more power to compensate for an inherent disadvantage.

The question TS should ask from his wife is:

What's your plan to become a more valuable and skilled person to earn more than 5k?

Stop being stunned about the fact he earns 30k, the problem here is based on what she's demanding? Read back TS comments in this topic. TS puts all the effort, and the wife doesn't. How is TS the cheap skate for calling out her bullsh*t?

Wake up guys 

Nobody is addressing the elephant in the room.

NO SEX!

Regardless of after pregnancy or whatever excuses. How is that even normal? Is that normal and that's why you all overlook it?
*Refer to post #93

Thanks for all the replies all.

I know everyone is divided on how I should deal with this. Anyways had a chat with her after I came back from work yesterday and she just brush the topic away and said its not discussable as the dye has been cast.

Oh well...

if you pay attention to his post, he claimed that his wife doesnt have patience for raising a kid also
its multiple red flags shown already, and TS still want to step into it
with his income he has no problem attracting new ladies if he wants to, its just regarding his son mental development only

What does she mean by the die has been cast?

If she is dead set on getting RM5K a month or walking out, tell her to hit the road.

Marriage is a compromise between couples. Both must be willing to compromise. If one party is dead set on not giving way the marriage is doomed to fail.

This is TS last reply.

Can you guys stop giving unsolicited advices? TS got what he wanted and has thanked you all. So stop prolonging this discussion. 20+ pages of discussion who has got time to read all that? Further, those who reply don't reply with TS's full story in mind and just making uneducated assumptions which is downright disrespectful to him. That is also not to mention that some just creating issues to spark secondary discussion unrelated to TS's objectives.

If there is any unresolved issue, I am sure he will open another serious thread.

Stop looking for TS's attention. You all are not gonna get it. Your stranger advices only worth SALT to him. Get a life.