yeap ...like chinese say ...women can never be "siu sa" 1...all po po ma ma..zzzzzz sorry girls .. guys still need girls to survive anyway ....why God made it this way ...no idea

huhu dont worry , next time perhaps i can run some business like love consultant and that kinda thing....wan a share ? lol

Well, aft yr frens asked for yr advice for kao lui, did they succeed??
If yes, then yr advice should be really "geng".......haha
Jz added u into MSN.....hoping for some useful advice

If guy n gal very good frens then can become bf n gf onot? any chances?

haha... maybe we were match-makers in our previous life... can consider...

most basic advice is patience... like fishing... haha...

haha oh well i must say many made it many dint...
well sometimes there are many things u cant teach 1...sometimes need to have the feeling...and analyze small small details like when she looks at u , what kind of espression all these..i can only hear from ppl , but i cant teach u guys how to analyze well its jz naturally will have the feeling...and my brain works lidat i duno why can analyze...lol....

zz i duno i think to b v good frens...1st thing in both the gal n guy mind also memang want to be frens only...or else impossible be real good fren lo..but of course sure it is possible....hehe when u understand each other that much and spend alot of time together , that feeling will come sometimes..
and 1 more thing i have seen quite often is , bf always v close with gf's best frens...ya and then sth happen between the bf and the gf's best frens.hehe girls out there becareful ya...

u notice tat huh... most of the cases starts when gals brag bout their bf to their close frenz... then her frenz will start some moves due to other frenz encouragements... so... better keep the good stuff to ourselves....

Her frenz will start some moves towards who??
Dat gal's bf or other guy available??

Hahahh... i think its real hard for us to be good friends with frens with the opposite sex here. dats y i prefer to befriend gays

Back to the first question..

Of course girls and guys can be good friends. There's no line placed inbetween a male and a female in the term of friendship. Genders doesn't matter.

As for me, I've got best friends consist of both genders. And no, I don't have any special feelings towards my guy best friend, and vice versa.

gays are known to change their perception for certain reasons... watch out...

unless ur personality is very very bad... don be so confident... 1 day u will see...

in this issue, i admit myself not a gentleman... coz i don think guys and gals can be closed frens... unless its love... if no love means no frens... well, tats my own opinion...

if love arises, we will be lovers... if don, then i don think there is a possible to be frens anymore... then lets be strangers... or more, lets be enemy... tats wat i do lar.. coz to me no love means hate...

btw, i oso think its kinda suffer if u try to be frens with a person after u n tat person had a past which is kinda sad and unforgettable...

Hahah... If really they can like me, I will be darn happy!
Coz I can turn a queer guy into a straight one! Not everyone can do that, even the gays themselves oso can't control their gayness

t3chn0m4nc3r, don't even go there. I trust my friendship. I can't explain. It's just how things are. You're not in my place, so you wouldn't know. And what will I see one day? Still the same friendship.

haha... i understand... but u r juz 15 and u got lots more to see b4 u judge...

There's no absolute until the one day suddenly sparks ignite....

hahaa.. why not?
i have tons of guys frenz..
even my ex bfS are my good frenz..
maybe somesay there might be something going on.. but..
i think it's still possible for guys and girls to be good frenz without involving the mushy mushy relationship.. hahaa..
plus, it's good having a guy fren as a best fren, u can look for him when u are having love problem.. he'll give u a guy's opinion hahaa..

hmmm theres 2 reason why guys and girl become good friends
1.guy/ girl want court the guy/girl
2.just like to be/feel comfortable when with them,and they can share problem with each other,some thing like sis and bro

i my self also got girl as good friends,i treat them like my own sis,and nothing more,and they are very close to me,i help them out when they need help

^^
Aww... dats so sweet