in this issue, i admit myself not a gentleman... coz i don think guys and gals can be closed frens... unless its love... if no love means no frens... well, tats my own opinion...

if love arises, we will be lovers... if don, then i don think there is a possible to be frens anymore... then lets be strangers... or more, lets be enemy... tats wat i do lar.. coz to me no love means hate...

btw, i oso think its kinda suffer if u try to be frens with a person after u n tat person had a past which is kinda sad and unforgettable...

but wat if u know ur ex-gf/bf had done sth very wrong, tats y baru u both break up... since then u still willing to be frens with them?

i watched a show named Gang of Guo Guang last nite, they talk bout this topic... they all ended up with 76% of majority unwilling to be frens after they break up... well, tats the result they got in taiwan... a quite open country...

hmm... looks like this touches the issue of maturity lor... unless those who are sporting enough then they may do so... understand!

and one more, they treat them good oso coz they have sth they have to accomplish...