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 Can gals and guys be good fren?

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jcheok2
post Nov 8 2006, 11:56 PM

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new here jz wana add some comments

QUOTE(LoveMeNot @ Nov 5 2006, 04:52 PM)
Hey hey.im new here..anyway..jus gonna share a bit of my experience regarding this topic..as for myself..i cant never be a good buddy with a guy..always turn out to be the opposite thing..In the end of the day, these guy friends of mine ( as in a few of them) wil confess their feelings for me..askin for more... So, since then..ive learned my lesson..not to get too close with a guy.. cos 9/10 will want something more than a friendship.. sleep.gif"
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hehe perhaps just the guys that u have met...well sometimes guys like me like to talk to girls , share things and it is easier to open the mouth to say something ...i mean fren la..i like to have female frens..its so good ...coz i have no sis which i think is sth i will regret for the whole life..u c..as a guy ..speaking to a good fren..good female fren its so comfortable...IT IS POSSIBLE IF BOTH TREAT EACH OTHER AS GOOD FRENS ONLY/OR EVEN BEST FRENS ....sharing things with a girl , u know she is so caring whatever she say she wil feel for you , she will comfort u and really care for u ..differs from a guy , will ejek u etc laugh at u ...having opposite sex frens is good , but both parties mz be really want to be frens onli 1 la...

QUOTE(outsider @ Nov 5 2006, 05:05 PM)
i HATE this kind of relationsip..... vmad.gif  vmad.gif  vmad.gif  vmad.gif  cause all the girl that i chased also say this same answer to me when i ask her can she be my gf.damn  it........my forehead got written down "bestfriend" meh?? vmad.gif  vmad.gif  vmad.gif
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LOL hehe bro sometimes need some time to change..u mz give indication first...when u talking to the girl u shud be very clear in mind , what is ur status in her heart....u must be clear , as a guy , u must handle the situation and take hold of the whole thing ..hehe if u blur blur lidat , if im a girl i also dont want u la....LOL jk jk ....but u need to analyze, if u think she treats u as good good fren, then ok u need to do something now...perhaps give some indication bit by bit, let her create some doubt in her heart , create the possibility that ur after her in her heart......then slowly , let her be comfortable with the new identity of YOU in her heart..this may take up some time bro ...be patient with a girl , care for them , love them , they can feel it and they will love u too :>

p/s dont play with girls , u will regret :>
jcheok2
post Nov 9 2006, 05:54 PM

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QUOTE(evilhomura89 @ Nov 9 2006, 10:59 AM)
Well, there's something I would like to know.
Let say u already confess to yr bestfriend, but he/she didn't give u a hard "NO", maybe he/she gives u some reasons such as work, studies, family prob etc, IMO as a blunt rejection to u.
U didn't lost yr friendship aft that, later he/she jz treats u normally like before as though as that confession never happened.....well, should u give up even if u really likes him/her??

Or u should wait and jz do like wat jcheok said for guyz??
As for gals, I dun really know, continue waiting??
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it depends ...if u really love the girl , go on ,.dont let go , unless she is owned by other guy already then too bad lo ... i would say if u hold on , use the corect technique and show sincerity , prove to her your love for her , make her comfortable with u , 80% u will succeed..all u need to do is to make urself important in her life, make her happy ..unless u realy bad until ugly, poor , ah beng all those kind la....girls get touched...this 1 confirm apply to all girls 1...so .. work hard..haha need advice can add me msn ..lol not to say i pro but i good in advising i guess....got quite some fren kao lui also find me ask me to help....zzzzz i also dont knw why ...

QUOTE(t3chn0m4nc3r @ Nov 9 2006, 02:49 PM)
haha... cuz to guys those are small matters lor... i'm saying tat guys do choose when needed to do so... but in most cases... guys are very lazy to choose... tat applies for me 2 tongue.gif
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wow this 1 real issue....
guys only see real big things as big things..
girls see everything as big thing.....
eg wedding...it is the event which is important..not that gown ....zzz or that tux...
jcheok2
post Nov 10 2006, 03:50 AM

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QUOTE(t3chn0m4nc3r @ Nov 9 2006, 09:22 PM)
yarlo... nvr thought of wat kind of tux to wear also... yawn.gif  match the bride's gown enough lar... icon_rolleyes.gif  icon_rolleyes.gif  icon_rolleyes.gif  icon_rolleyes.gif  icon_rolleyes.gif
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yeap ...like chinese say ...women can never be "siu sa" 1...all po po ma ma..zzzzzz sorry girls .. guys still need girls to survive anyway ....why God made it this way ...no idea

QUOTE(t3chn0m4nc3r @ Nov 9 2006, 09:25 PM)
same here dude... but giving this kind of tips to the public kinda ruin us although we don charge for them... and u must have not met those tough gals... whistling.gif
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huhu dont worry , next time perhaps i can run some business like love consultant and that kinda thing....wan a share ? lol
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post Nov 11 2006, 12:30 AM

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QUOTE(evilhomura89 @ Nov 10 2006, 09:28 AM)
Well, aft yr frens asked for yr advice for kao lui, did they succeed??
If yes, then yr advice should be really "geng".......haha
Jz added u into MSN.....hoping for some useful advice  thumbup.gif
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haha oh well i must say many made it many dint...
well sometimes there are many things u cant teach 1...sometimes need to have the feeling...and analyze small small details like when she looks at u , what kind of espression all these..i can only hear from ppl , but i cant teach u guys how to analyze well its jz naturally will have the feeling...and my brain works lidat i duno why can analyze...lol....

QUOTE(stsh90 @ Nov 10 2006, 10:11 AM)
If guy n gal very good frens then can become bf n gf onot? any chances?
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zz i duno i think to b v good frens...1st thing in both the gal n guy mind also memang want to be frens only...or else impossible be real good fren lo..but of course sure it is possible....hehe when u understand each other that much and spend alot of time together , that feeling will come sometimes..
and 1 more thing i have seen quite often is , bf always v close with gf's best frens...ya and then sth happen between the bf and the gf's best frens.hehe girls out there becareful ya...

 

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