aiyaaa....of course gal and guys can be good frens

For me, yes. There's a possibility 2 ppl from opposite gender to become very good friend. but friendship/relationship is a 2-way traffic, maybe you treat her like your good friend, but she's actually fall for you.

oh well relationship changes from time to time anyway.

i cannot be good friends with guyssssss .....

i wonder what's the reason ah...why can't be good friends with guys

cos ended up sure got something something....

hey..based on your first post hor~ i had a best best best female friend for the past 3 years..and one day i tell her that i liked her and tell her my feelings and go after her for almost 6 months...then one day..we just never talk to each other anymore until today ..about 6 months already....

so...it's 50/50~ depending on the guy or the girl...

care can become love also ma

I can =) I got guy friends who are best friends =) Thank God

something something...what thing....the 8 gong me came out liaw...i'm curious...

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Added on May 6, 2007, 8:57 amthats why must differentiate the care love and the love love lor
3 years friendship... maybe 1 of u must turn to the other lor...if both side also dun wanna see each other...then end liaw lor the friendship..



god where u live wor...UK?it's a different culture there leh

This post has been edited by wai_w3ng: May 6 2007, 08:57 AM

cultures don't necessary have to be diff... it juz depends on wat kind of live style u choose...

wai weng oh wai weng,

meanin sure either party will have feeling for each other.. can be crush or like.. love..erm..not till that level yet..
soo soo 8 kong for what.too free liao is it..

This post has been edited by LoveMeNot: May 6 2007, 04:11 PM

every1 also have curiousity la... honestly i also curious but wai weng already ask...

I have a guy as a best friend. No problems...just that other people think we're dating cos we're so close. Eeyerr.

haha... ehh...my pet sister also do that la... better to be safe than sorry ma...god knows who saw us...right...
i memang very free...unemployed liaw...lol
nop..actually i do see a different culture in UK and malaysia...people there are much more friendly than we do... they can mix up with almost any kind of person... even taiwan or sg also same
our malaysia shyness barrier isn't being breach by too many people...

depends...
mostly ppl who r nt frm co-ed sch tend 2be more sensitive...
wen a guy treat her gd she'll start misunderstand ..
coz i myself aso...

i had a gd close fren..
sharing everything wit him...
n i end up being his gf!!

i hv few guy gd frenz...alwiz find me wen got prob wit their gf....but juz thru sms o call o msn ler...hehez...

ehh...being close friend with him then ended up being his gf is better than not being his gf and end up losing a friendship i wonder why would guys always go for good friends...even me also did it once...lol
ehh i also find female friends when i got prob with my gf 1 ahh...listen to the female's mind is better than listening to males ones..and male friends always not helpful 1 la

I don't think so. When a male and a female gets too close, they will start to feel certain attractions to each other. Most of my friends have always started out as normal friends with no attraction towards the other person, then they'll eventually grow closer and end up being a couple.

But then again, perhaps the situation only applies to most of my friends.

totally agree...this so called certain attraction always occurs to me..

ds is wat my guy frenz told me hahaz...tatz y they search me wen got prob...

If u ask me this question after 49 years, I will still say No way for man and woman can made good frens

this is very true what...personally i felt la..eventho i'm a guy...
guy giving another guy opinion just sux... for me la at least...
what they could think of..i could already think better than them...
i need is many an ear of silent or a really good advise...most of them come from females only...