Just wondering that can a gal and a guy be a good fren? My fren alwiz tell me there is no such thing as good fren between gals and guys. Sure the guy want something from you or in either way. Is it true?

Emm, depends on individual. Some guy there like to get much of female frens then male frens. Still, they are just frens.

In my opinion, a gal and a guy could possible end up to be just good friends but probably not for ex-couple.

Why not? Girl and guy still can be friend without involving love.

can why not?

i got many good fren also gal wat

yes, I have lots of good girl firends. Depends on both sides really. Need to be open minded. I can tal/ask very personal things about girls and not feel ebarrassed of it. Thats how close we are

lol, too much influence from HK drama? ofcoz can become good friend la.

But last time i have one really good fren, alwiz tok to each other, when i got problem he will advise me and so on.. but suddenly he just ignore me for long time and i really dun understand. So one day i just call him up... you know wut her say? Because i have new bf already. Also i consider other ppl oso never consider him. I only treat him as my good fren wor, and he never even give any hint when he know i break off with my ex..(or may be i dun get the hint ) So now we r not that close already lor.. hardly even contact..

I have a close friend who's a female, too bad I fall for her....now we're not as close anymore

But anyway i think it's not necessary i will fall for a girl if she's my best friend....coz here, i fall for her because there's things about her that i like........had she have a bf earlier before I fall for her, or she is err....let's just say looks that don't fits my taste ......this would not have happend and we'll still be good friends.....so it's possible, depends...

@�ngel
Wei. Working hour don't goof off leh. Goofing off at work is my job wor.

Guys and girls can be close friends, but they need to have an understanding partner as well. Otherwise the other party may feel jealous, etc. *Looks at your dit*

But hor, you fren me coz you wan "free lunch" wor. How?

that means he is not your 'good fren' . He is somehow 'on' you. Just ignore him, he wasn't really being 'true' to you , in terms of friendship.

Get over it .

This post has been edited by kuanyj: Apr 14 2005, 04:07 PM

can not be good friend but, friend yes lorr.

"Rambut sama-sama hitam, hati lain-lain"

Depends on each individual lah actualy.

Everything just "Maybe..."

wah you ar.. just seeking opinion oso u "jealous" ar? My hubby din even make a noise ya means i am lucky to get one understanding hubby to allow me to be fren wit u isit?

Ok lor.. one day free then give u "free lunch" back lor.. Any way now off work liao lor.. bye bye! going back liao


This post has been edited by �ngel: Apr 14 2005, 05:17 PM

�ngel> I think your that fren is being paranoid.

of course man and women can be good friends, until they end up locked together in a small room, then that's when the hormones start talking (unless one of them has terrible B.O that is, hahah).

well... i am glad that i have 4 best friends... 3 of them are guys... and our relationship is still very good for so many years... this one i can very sure... we sleep together, do many things together, we go out with each other's bf/gf... things are still very smooth... i even place them right after my family and before my bf...

i think if ex lovers can be friends without the past feelings coming back, that would be very good... coz they understand each other most... as for me, NOT YET... hhahahahaa... still dont know how to face my ex like a normal friend yet...

wel, here's my 2 cent
He have feelings for u, and logically it's not possible for him once he knew u had a bf. So he has to let go.

Although friendship is improtant, there are things more important than that. namey our own life. i understand how he feels like one he knew u had a bf, and so he decided to let go, else he'l continue to be hurt, and the only way to do so is forget about u. how to do that u knows it too.....that's one sacrifice we sometimes have to make when we fall for a girl. either both will get closer or further apart.

�ngel
Other party refers to bf/husband/gf/wife lar. Aiyoh. Simply put, if you are too close to your friend of the opposite sex, your significant other may feel jealous (depends on person). Dun lar simply drag me into it. I'm innocent leh.

guys are fun to have as friends. and they're easier to talk to than girls cos they tend to be more sociable