some yes and some no.. depends on the situation and who is the person..

depends....
i do believe but meanwhile no also...clueless...

as what u say,they wont woo you at all..
then can u comfirm that u wont fall in one of them?????

They exist and its possible but it's rare. Even when the guys are only treating you as friends, chimui, bro shit... They would still want to get into your pants. Dont believe me? Try to turn him on, get it on with him and ask him if he wants to do it with you while having your hands rub his thighs, be serious... He would show his true self then and later apologise when you say you're kidding. Trust me, it bloody work.

^ it bloody work even if she's a stranger. sex does not equal to love. 2 frens having sex doesn't make them a lover.

IMO. No, guys and girls cannot be very close fren. but u can have many good frens who're opposite sex.

This post has been edited by ky_khor: Aug 16 2006, 10:26 AM

absolutely not agree with u, that is completely not true, dont you believe in sincere relation??

sure can be fren...
i have best frens are guys...
i feel sometimes better talk to them than female frens...
can chit chat,can gossip, can fool around,can talk secrets...

So basically girls juz can't keep their mouth shut is it from wat u're sayin? hehehe

erm..i think i wont!! cos is too weird, if i m being in luv in one of them~~
is impossible!!!
they all my sis!!

for me it's possible for a gal and guy be a good frenz..
coz i have few girls which is my best friend that also best friend with few guys..
we never think anything related to sex when we all together.. (except joke lah, that one sure always). we all always sleep together... n normally the guys only use their boxer n we didnt feel guilty. n often for us to call them wake up in the morning by going to their room... n they just wearing their boxer, underwear or sometimes naked.. n we just feel nothing... maybe becoz we very close since we are form 1.

Why not?

It actually depends on the individual alone.If u urself are not expectnig a relationship,being friends with the opposite gender is definitely one of the ways to understand girls more.

just my 2 cents.

if one of yr best bro come n chase u, wat will u do??
accept or jz 4get abt it n continue b gud friends??

I've a best fren which is male. At first i thought we really can work it out since both of us sincere & comfortable click as close friends, we almost share everything daily. and 2 years after he got promotion, he made busying with his work an excuse, so end up treat me like stranger after all.

Friendship between male & female, i believe some happen success out there, but i would not try again, like me kinda sad for my situation.

Good luck to you

i think can but oso 1 see loh, coz if u treat the guy very good, some of them will fall in love 2 u loh ... but i believe hv 1 lah

Wat will u do if dat guy fall in love 2 u??
Accept him?? Ignore him n lose the friendship mayb??

depends on whether u like him or not loh....

I think guys and girls can really be frens.
I got few male buddies, we used to hang out 2gether, talk craps and secrets.
when we think bout dating or havin a relationship or sex wit each other, we feel disgusting and rather die.. haha

i feel pity for your case....it shouldn't go wasted like that....

prolly you could call him up one day, and tell him how you feel about this whole friendship thing since you guys were that close for 2 years...not a short period if you ask me....
i believe through this frank question that you could pose to him, that the friendship could be revived instead of dyin' a slow death

good friendship's hard to find, so give it least a last shot before makin' any conclusion...

Well, I have this guy I know who spent most of his time talking with this particular girl. With her around, this guy will most likely spent most of his conversation with her instead of me and my friends. Where she go, there he will be. What do you think about this?

ITs must be exits somewhere.. but it's never been to me.. A time will change everything.. time will take everything.. can the time stop or reverse? haiz..