Back to the first question..

Of course girls and guys can be good friends. There's no line placed inbetween a male and a female in the term of friendship. Genders doesn't matter.

As for me, I've got best friends consist of both genders. And no, I don't have any special feelings towards my guy best friend, and vice versa.

t3chn0m4nc3r, don't even go there. I trust my friendship. I can't explain. It's just how things are. You're not in my place, so you wouldn't know. And what will I see one day? Still the same friendship.

Well, Wacky Angel and t3chn0m4nc3r. You guys are right. We never know what will happen in the future. Hell, I, for one, know that most (note: most) friendship, whether it's a friendship between the same gender or not, won't last forever. I'm already accepting that fact, I see how everyone changes, including me. I've seen my best friend in the past moved on. I've seen me moved on. So it's like, why look forward for the time when you and your bestfriend are going to drift apart? For now, I should just enjoy the moment. What will happen next can wait.

But as for my friendship, you really can't tell. Unless you're me, that is. x) It depends on the individual. How they work their friendship with the same gender or not the same gender. It really doesn't matter in the end. That's my point of view. x)

Well Jasonist. The only problem with "Can guys and girls be good friends" is when they had a special relationship before.

If you notice, almost all the friendships one had before with the ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend will be forgotten once they broke apart. It's just the way it is.. they tend to get uncomfortable with each other's presence.. and stuffs. Maybe they will be friends again in the future.. maybe not. It's about forgive and forget (which is like the hardest thing to do..) they need time to heal the wound that's been made. But whether or not they'll be close again as before, well that's up to the individual. x) But that's just my point of view. xD.

This post has been edited by Myra: Nov 29 2006, 01:28 PM

^ That's only your point of view, of course.

^ Finally someone agrees. @_@

I agree with the both of you lol. (: In the end, it comes back to the individual.