Hey hey.im new here..anyway..jus gonna share a bit of my experience regarding this topic..as for myself..i cant never be a good buddy with a guy..always turn out to be the opposite thing..In the end of the day, these guy friends of mine ( as in a few of them) wil confess their feelings for me..askin for more... So, since then..ive learned my lesson..not to get too close with a guy.. cos 9/10 will want something more than a friendship.. "

i HATE this kind of relationsip..... cause all the girl that i chased also say this same answer to me when i ask her can she be my gf.damn it........my forehead got written down "bestfriend" meh??

if u want to be best fren leh... don treat ur best fren 2 special... might spoil them... and guys... if wanna be more then bf leh... learn some body language... don treat tat gal v v good and expect her to be more than best friends...

Well, IMO this guy is interested in this particular girl.......

wat body language??
share yr experience plz

is possible......i have few female....good...fren....they ...came out wif mi in the nite...den they didnt want to go bax ...home...so....might aswell...sleep over in my houz....noting happened...tats bcoz...we...joke around...like brother n sister...den sleep...2gather oni ...

the thing is...u need to...tell urself...wad relation ur gona ...step in to ....wif those good frens ....ofcoz...

gametaipan already gave a very detail story bout body language in some other thread in GC... search them urself...

good point...

I am just the opposite of you, i could easily be good buddy with guy. I find it very easy going with them. They are usually not picky, they will take whatever that is left in the cookiess jar, most importantly... they dont use up your extra tissue when they are crying... they just rub in on their shirt.

I guess, maybe the different between me and you is that, you are pretty, lovely and admirable. I dont think that you are completely lose out yet, you can still be guy's best friend, but, it likely be a homosexual guy though.

This post has been edited by Gametaipan: Nov 8 2006, 12:09 AM

although i damn admiring u got this kind of relationship but i wont bring a bestfriend girl to my house n sleep together. cause i'm not so open minded. kolot a bit.


but i really dont know why.........very ti.uuuu......cause every time i chased that girl, and in the end when i ask her i got chance or not, sure the same answer will come out from them. "i just treat u like my best friend only".....pkimakkkk.....

cant say i didnt put my effort ler....cause i do every guys do when they chase a girl. call her every nite, ask her out, give her some preesent sometime, cook soup for her, bring her see doc and others.....but still cant success to chase girl ....haiz....... really make my confident down n down

This post has been edited by outsider: Nov 8 2006, 04:16 AM

u sure...? i mean every1 choose... but depends on wat's the choice...
haha... seeing from the majority of guys's attitude... i juz gotta second tat... may her fate release her...

i would do all tat for my frenz... ntg special also...

new here jz wana add some comments

hehe perhaps just the guys that u have met...well sometimes guys like me like to talk to girls , share things and it is easier to open the mouth to say something ...i mean fren la..i like to have female frens..its so good ...coz i have no sis which i think is sth i will regret for the whole life..u c..as a guy ..speaking to a good fren..good female fren its so comfortable...IT IS POSSIBLE IF BOTH TREAT EACH OTHER AS GOOD FRENS ONLY/OR EVEN BEST FRENS ....sharing things with a girl , u know she is so caring whatever she say she wil feel for you , she will comfort u and really care for u ..differs from a guy , will ejek u etc laugh at u ...having opposite sex frens is good , but both parties mz be really want to be frens onli 1 la...

LOL hehe bro sometimes need some time to change..u mz give indication first...when u talking to the girl u shud be very clear in mind , what is ur status in her heart....u must be clear , as a guy , u must handle the situation and take hold of the whole thing ..hehe if u blur blur lidat , if im a girl i also dont want u la....LOL jk jk ....but u need to analyze, if u think she treats u as good good fren, then ok u need to do something now...perhaps give some indication bit by bit, let her create some doubt in her heart , create the possibility that ur after her in her heart......then slowly , let her be comfortable with the new identity of YOU in her heart..this may take up some time bro ...be patient with a girl , care for them , love them , they can feel it and they will love u too :>

p/s dont play with girls , u will regret :>

Positive, and i was refering to light matters. Guy would just grab any blank cd that let them burn, whereelse for girls, in most cases, they will spend time going thru the whole selection b4 they choose. You ever wonder why black and white is the most common fashion choice for guys to a ballroom party? And girl's are usually more colorful and trickier? Do u know why it takes 4 hours for girl to try the wedding grown and maybe 45 minutes for guy?

This post has been edited by Gametaipan: Nov 9 2006, 01:06 AM

best friend ?? oh yeah . he'll ended up liking u ..
best friend for guy and girl .. is like wannabe couples ..
might as well stay as friends . and know what ur doing is right ..
which is just for friends . =) !

Well, there's something I would like to know.
Let say u already confess to yr bestfriend, but he/she didn't give u a hard "NO", maybe he/she gives u some reasons such as work, studies, family prob etc, IMO as a blunt rejection to u.
U didn't lost yr friendship aft that, later he/she jz treats u normally like before as though as that confession never happened.....well, should u give up even if u really likes him/her??

Or u should wait and jz do like wat jcheok said for guyz??
As for gals, I dun really know, continue waiting??

haha... cuz to guys those are small matters lor... i'm saying tat guys do choose when needed to do so... but in most cases... guys are very lazy to choose... tat applies for me 2

i have to agree on tat... cuz i know some gals who like to boast their own beauty and manja here n there...

it depends ...if u really love the girl , go on ,.dont let go , unless she is owned by other guy already then too bad lo ... i would say if u hold on , use the corect technique and show sincerity , prove to her your love for her , make her comfortable with u , 80% u will succeed..all u need to do is to make urself important in her life, make her happy ..unless u realy bad until ugly, poor , ah beng all those kind la....girls get touched...this 1 confirm apply to all girls 1...so .. work hard..haha need advice can add me msn ..lol not to say i pro but i good in advising i guess....got quite some fren kao lui also find me ask me to help....zzzzz i also dont knw why ...

wow this 1 real issue....
guys only see real big things as big things..
girls see everything as big thing.....
eg wedding...it is the event which is important..not that gown ....zzz or that tux...

yarlo... nvr thought of wat kind of tux to wear also... match the bride's gown enough lar...

This post has been edited by t3chn0m4nc3r: Nov 9 2006, 09:26 PM

same here dude... but giving this kind of tips to the public kinda ruin us although we don charge for them... and u must have not met those tough gals...