Hello fellas, do girls reach a level of true maturity where she sees having a boyfriend is that must be financially stable whereby he can be her future husband. thus as a requiment for being a boyfriend, he must be mature, able to fullfill her every needs and wants, and with almost perfect personality for her?

well, all the above criteria is a must for a guy. Who want a mat rempit bf?

minah rempit lo

but u see..i see girls when go shopping with her boyfriend, she pays for her own shopping stuff. That's mean that girl is not at the true level of maturity?

abeh tu klu semua org nak boyfren kaye.. sape nak kat boyfren miskin?

How does one define maturity?
Love makes you do irrational things.

Again, how do you define maturity? A mature girl = using guy's money ? Everyone is different, you shouldn't make generalization.

But IMHO, the fact that the girl looks at all categories cashflow, personality as well as looks, doesn't really DETERMINE a mature girl but rather a preference for her type of MATE.

WHy u differentiate their maturity by that? I mean, of course la sometimes bf have to pay but not all the time. Aku pun pokai kalau tiap2 kali g shopping asyik aku je kena bayar. If da girls is materialistic type who like LV,Prada, i die la...here, u must tolerate with ur gf. Dont be like a sugardaddy

yang miskin tu bagi je minah rempit..

Girls reach one of the many levels of maturity when they know what they want and work to get it.

but well, lets say i give u a big mansion to live in, and a small old house to live in, which one would u choose? Also, women that doesnt let feeling controls over her requirement to be her boyfriend, is that a new level of maturity?

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Added on June 10, 2009, 2:02 amyeah that's true, so the girl that wants 5c she will eliminate all the guys that cant reach her standard infront of her.

This post has been edited by redline666: Jun 10 2009, 02:08 AM

thats not entirely true ....as a gf , u cannot expect everything u want is from your bf , this would sound like ripping of the guys you with , if u really love that guy or girl ... both must pay what u guys doing , thats what i think to be most fair to both side and also to show care and love to each other ...... personally if bf or gf only ask me to pay for everything .... ill think twice before dating her/him

some of my friend are like bank to his/her partner .... everything have to pay for her/him .... even those stuff like hair gel , shaver , kotex ,etc also have to pay zzZzZ what kind of human are they .... if want to pay then wait marry la ...zzz

i dont mean to side anyone .... be it girl or guy i just think you should not ask your partner to pay everything for u .... be Independent a bit , then for guys... they wont think the girl they dating is just going to rip their money off and for girls this show their partner is not depending on women to survive "eating soft rice"................

Actually I think no. I dont see anything wrong with a girl paying for a own stuff when shopping with bf. Almost all girls want a bf with financially stable and fufill whatever requirments. Same like guys wanted a gf who got the face, body, understanding, blablabla.

'do girls reach a level of true maturity where she sees having a boyfriend is that must be financially stable whereby he can be her future husband.'
I think the 'must' word is being childish. Not mature. You cant count on someone 'surely' able to mantain his/hers current situation. People do have up's and down's. Even if she does meet someone who 'surely' have this requierment thing and assume that he can 100% mantain it. Does she love him? If she dont, she marry him cause of 'he's a good bargain?'.

Of course, able to find the ideal partner is the best. But most people out there just fell for someone unexpected.

agreed .... if all only depend of $$$ then there is no love between them .... i personally dont think there will be any happiness even after they marry .... cos its too materialistic

A big mansion where you physically abuse your mate?? (but you can go for divorce and get $$)
But a small house with love?? (but you can't go for divorce with $$$)

A reasonable sane woman, will choose the second. If she believe she can make the $$ herself.


Then again, there are too many variables. Love it's not as simple as 1+1 = 2 . As much as everyone wants it to be like.. You love me, I love you kinda crap.

It's more like, x(male) + y(female) = z. Even if you know the value of x as 1. You still don't know y. As much as you thought you know "y" when you're dating. When you decide to marry her, she could morph to a complete different person (controlling, self-pity, emotional, freak, demanding for love and asking you why won't you love her the way like you do when you're dating ).

Hence Y will be a variable as well as yourself X(when you strike it rich and decide to get a mistress). Which means, X and Y will always remain an undefined variable which will lead to the result of Z. Undeniably, you can control the variables of X(which is yourself), but you can never control how Y will turn out to be.


Long story cut short, there's no right answer to your question.




Nevertheless base on your scenario, MATURED + SMART woman, know better to rely on themselves than to rely on men

This post has been edited by zalmerox: Jun 10 2009, 02:14 AM

one thing to sum up. Maturity is a buzzword, even a 9 years old kid can claim himself/herself as mature.

Maturity is overrated.

I want to stay childish. Everyone is so eager to grow up, I'm so eager to stay young.

same

Er.... No, I don't think so. It just means this girl is realistic and knows what she wants. Maturity is a pretty broad term don't you think? A person can still want those and be pretty immature about everything else.

she thinks guy is responsible to pay for everything, needs and wants, in return she give u her time and love, oh ya she like smart guy too. she knows everyone have ups and downs, for smart guy when he fail, sure he is smart enuf to climb up again rite? nevertheless, when filling the form to be her bf u must be like having a non working wife, pays for everything, expensive dinners, good clothes..

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Added on June 10, 2009, 3:22 amumm do u think if u can get a man that fulfill the wants that u know that u need, ur relationship will goes for a long time>?

This post has been edited by redline666: Jun 10 2009, 03:22 AM

Mature or immature girls, with your current mentality, you're not going to get either

Define, her every needs and wants, and almost perfect personality?

That already shows a level of IMmaturity...That doesn't sound realistic to me at all. IMHO

This post has been edited by geekster129: Jun 10 2009, 06:43 AM

When my gf and i shop, or eat, we go dutch, and pay for ourselves because we're still both students and simply cannot afford to pay for both of us. it is more reasonable that both of us invest the same in the relationship. that said, i do fork out extra cash for special occasions and the odd surprises.

THIS is maturity

your stage is pure bimbo golddigger. i'd hardly call it maturity

I think these kind of girls will only after rich and old guys.

he must be mature = mostly maturity come with age.

able to fullfill her every needs and wants = he has money. Sugar daddy??? mostly old folks have a lot of money.

almost perfect personality = this phrase...I think someone who is patient enough to be able to stand her every whims. Older guys again..

This thing kind of remind me a story. My father is a doctor. Someone who has money, mature and good personality..a perfect old man. Once upon a time, a nurse (young and mature girl) had fall in love with my father, she tried to seduce him to become the his second wife. Not only she failed, my father being a very insensitive man told this to my mother and to his family.. and all of us had a good laugh.

Moral of the story.. dont try to seduce my father.. he is old. he has white hair. even his janggut and misai.. what about him so attrative???

In my case is slightly different. When i ask my ex for an outing I'll pay for her expenses. If she's the one who ask me out then the bill is divided 50/50 But of course occasionally I'll still be paying for everything

woo.. what a mentality.. minah pisau cukur nie

Me and my bf are on different cases, we wud share our expenses. If last month heis short, i cover for him, if next month i am short, he will cover for me.

We are committed to share our financialbility and even most of our bills. I may not pay exact 50%, but he knows i will pay more when he needs them. We are more in a committed relationship were we know our bounderies, what we want and where we are

in your case, like baronic said, is pure gold digger and also immature and will destined to be spend her life alone.

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Added on June 10, 2009, 8:59 amur father was wise to tell your mother, and it is insensitive IF you all laugh at her with her acknowledgement

This post has been edited by kanzakicyn: Jun 10 2009, 08:59 AM

+9,999!

Totally agreed, bro!

This post has been edited by geekster129: Jun 10 2009, 09:16 AM

uh no. girls look for that anyway, mature or materialistic or just plain dreamy.

No matter what, a male should be striving for success, in-turn he becomes mature and responsible. Unless you are those 'mama's boy' or 'lazy bums' you wouldnt need not worry about when she is/becomes mature. Ask yourself, are you a boy or a man?

Maturity your talking about is when she wants to start a family. Are you man enough for her? Father her children. This usually happens when, her biological clock is counting down or she starts comparing herself to her friends.

There is another type of maturity depending on her lifestyle. If she is LV and Gucci person, then she needs a guy that can give her that. If she pays it herself... means she dont believe you can provide for her - BOY!.

According to ts statement, i dont really see the mature immature thing,
i oni see materialistic.
Things u say like gals wan big mansion or small house, gals pay for themself and gals choose financially stable guy has nth to do with maturity, that oni depends on individual.
Gals pay for ownself got nth wrong, u expect a gal born and do nth until he marry a rich guy then break both of her leg and enjoy life?
U truly never seen a gal chose financially unstable guy as husband/bf?
That can be serve as a requirement on this society, however it is not a must or law that everyone have to follow.

what is maturity if you can't handle immaturity lulz

This post has been edited by nickisthemost: Jun 10 2009, 09:57 AM

mature is when both partners can coorperate to handle both their expenses together

what kind of nonsense that a man must pay everything for the girl ?


a girl that only wants a man that makes good money to pay for her expenses will always be dissapointed
becoz her attitude will make the man leave her eventually

Well it still makes sense if you're talking about this some 40-50 years ago.

In today's modern society, it's a whole different story.

this kind of give-you-two-choice-to-choose situation doesn't happen everyday....

yes girls are materialistic(well, not just girls, we all are, don't tell me your not cuz if you tell me your not materialistic, your dame fake to me, no offence), but can you judge their maturity just as simple by that? dude ! COME ON !

woman selecting her another half doesn't just base on feeling, there are a lot of factor which might need to be put into consideration... look's, background, economical stable, how he think personally, how he treat her etc etc... and i read some report say's that our body smell also one of the factor too !!!

so if a girl choose a BF by above requirement , will she be classify as un-mature?

its not a new level of maturity
its a new prerequisite for the particular gal, which is not a bad thing

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Added on June 10, 2009, 10:12 amobvioulsy she deserves sumwan more mature :

This post has been edited by aichiban: Jun 10 2009, 10:12 AM

its not only the women's fault
its also the men's fault coz they are brainwashed to think that way

just grow a bit older n date longer, no man can tolerate this kind of abuse eventually

Somehow, I just got a Deja Vu.

Apparently, I just have a feeling this is going to be another "guys right/gals right" kinda thread...

When we talks about maturity, it will always come down to a very basic question:

How does a person handles a situation, especially in a tight situation. Will you use your logical thinking and reasoning when making a decision or handlng the situation?

In general, think of it this way. Ask yourself a question first.

How matured are you? Do not judge the maturity of other people at the first place when you yourself is not matured enough.

Like what people always says:

"Don't take care of other people when you can't even take care of yourself".



This post has been edited by geekster129: Jun 10 2009, 10:23 AM

We didnt laugh at her and certainly not with her acknowledgment.. We laugh because of the situation. All of us cannot understand why a young woman could ever want a father of 4 children. He is not handsome, he has family, he has white hair. Well, he has money but it's come with extend family. And she the one who did the seduction. All of us, including our mother, could never expected this to happen.

My father told my mother because he was full of himself. Well, he was joking about himself, somehow the story come out, so we kinda laugh because he think himself still attractive even to young women.

Then again, maybe this is also consider as maturity. My father is a family man, hardworking, loves his children, and responsible. She wanted to build a family, so its only natural she wanted my father to be her husband, even if she had to be the second wife. Quite logical. I think.

A person's expectations change as they age, it's a fact. In college, which girl or guy wouldn't want to go out with the hottest person on campus given the chance? Later in life, your priorities change. Looks become less important and you take into consideration other factors like financial security. Without going into too much detail all girls/women look for the same thing; someone that can take care of them. Gold Diggers look for wealthy men who "can take care of them". More grounded women look for stable men "who can take care of them". If you are a manic depressive kid stuck in a man's body, with a dead end job, you can forget about getting hitched.

$$$ solved everything!

i know you'll sure say this when i see your name appeared in this thread.

Move on, brother, don't keep holding the grudge~!

Don't judge all gals for death penalty, you only had 1 experience and you're not qualified yet.

Put your comment about gals at your siggy is more than enough, please don't spread the same comment and repeat again and again in every relevant topics. RESPECT the gals out there, who have never cheated you, please.

+1

Dude doesn't know how pathetic he makes himself look.

I have already seen these sentiments in a few threads since December last year. It always end up with the debate on whether the guy or girl is right and wrong, and in the end of the day, it boils down to NOTHING, which explains why this thread is like a Deja Vu to me!

it's not nothing. it's both. but neither want to admit the wrong.

Totally agreed with this, that's the reason i dump my gf few week ago. haha.

Respect respect

A relationship, belongs to both parties, both of them hold responsibility to invest their best to keep the relationship moving.
If one of the member is spiritually, mentally and physically avoiding the responsibility, he/she is leaving a crack on the relationship.
When the crack grows bigger, pieces and pieces of the relationship starts dropping, eventually, it becomes nothing.

What is the main reason to hold a relationship? IMHO, LOVE
What maintains LOVE? IMHO, our ACTION
What affects our ACTION? IMHO, MATURITY
What builds MATURITY? IMHO, KNOWLEDGE

Ain't simple?

I believe a relationship can only last a long time if BOTH parties invest effort into it. A relationship can only work if both parties in it want it to work but a relationship dies if just 1 party wants to leave it.

So sadly, it's not just about how much YOU put into the relationship. It works both ways. In this way, people are actually gambling a risk when they commit to a relationship.

If da b**** wants me to pay for everything all the time she'd better spread when and where i tell her to... if she's gonna act like a whore she can damned well be treated like one

The level is maturity is determined by the conduct of the girl and not because of the wallet of her bf.If a girl wants her bf to be perfect, it's kinda immature.No one is perfect in this world.You can try your very best but you will never be perfect.IF she is mature, what she should be doing is tolerate with her bf and not asking him to be perfect.As for the spending part, it's 50:50.If the guy is willing to pay, then why not? But at some point, I think the girl should pay for herself.Love and care cant be measured with the thickness of wallets or the money spent.

she wants a perfect man, she wants a guy who can fullfil her needs and wants, im doing all i can, and we are just in discreet relationship and she has a boyfriend, one day i dissapointed and snap, she went crazy, looking for me everywhere in town, called me msg me whole day long, i just ignore, when i came home at night, she came crying for me, i scolded her for all the unjust things she do to me, i forgive her, next day she broke up with her boyfriend, she told me that's the big step for her to give up a man can give her needs and wants 100%, she ask me not to do anything that make her regret, but she tell me she cant be my girlfriend now, i gave her needs and wants all the time, but not 100%, as u see needs as in like having a wife, u pay for everything, saloon, treatment, good clothes, food, car feul, everything got to do with $, i gave her wants, romantic dinner etc..., me n her like soulmate, but not everyday i can garuntee can give, my financial got ups and down, who runs a business that doesnt have ups and down? she told me im still not the man that can fullfill her everything, so cant be her boyfriend yet, she dont want me to go, but cant be my girl friend, and she claimed that she got personality dissoder, part of her can be with me love me, but part of her tells her that i cant fullfill her then she treat me like shit, but i dont think a mental person knows that they are mental, for me the point is, if u really love someone u want him beside you, why cant u give in for him, as sama sama susah, sama sama senang, if the person willing to love you and strive for a better live with you?

This post has been edited by redline666: Jun 13 2009, 03:46 AM

If you create an expectation in your loved one by providing every materialistic need she wants (not what she needs), you end up spoiling her. Imagine if you got Carls Jr. meals from your dad every day & one fine day he stops buying it for you. What is your reaction? Anger? Frustration? Disappointment? That's a human being's nature therefore, to stay safe, always play safe. If you know she can't afford something which she needs, get it for her. Expections in a person are fun at times but can be dangerous when perceived wrongly. If that person expects something when the other cannot afford due to their current situation, a quarrel starts. Likewise, when you're going out with your friends everyday, always remember to spend some time and money on her as well.

In a relationship it's of utmost important to know when to give and to know when to take. It must be withheld from the start that the relationship is founded from love, trust and respect and not for financial or other forms of securities. Those who invest in a relationship for financial or material gains are obtaining an insurance in you. Don't be too generous and likewise, not too stingy. Always maintain a balance in your splendour if you really want to maintain true love, otherwise you're only creating a gold digger, who could leave when times are bad.

paying for everything => she will be naturally close to u =>soulmate?!

if one day, ur business is going down => she won't be close to u anymore => not soulmate anymore.

im still immature but i sense that the girl is also not mature, she is materialistic! based on the info u have given us so far, it's better to let go than hurt urself. (unless u have more info to disclose). comments anyone?

*deep down in my heart, i want to get my soulmate before i get rich...because if i get her after i get rich, things may turn out to what u r experiencing.

This post has been edited by hecyro: Jun 13 2009, 11:46 AM

Please read http://www.theonion.com/content/opinion/bu...arted_dating_it

There is a fine line between acting out of love, and being a total carpet. I may sound like a broken recorder, but if you find yourself serving a particular girl all the time, attending to all her whims and fancy, always trying very hard to make her feel happy, you might fall in the category of the Average Frustrated Chump

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Average_frustrated_chump

I could be wrong, but the way it is, you seem to be buying your relationship.

Buy,buy,buy - gift, gift, gift - girl happy.

What now? They sell relationships on eBay now?

not 1....is more than 1....until I tired of it!

Dun judge too early...wait till 1 day it happens to u...u will know! Then u will ask urself "why u become a fool for such a beauty"?

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Added on June 13, 2009, 3:22 pmwithout this important item...LOVE will nvr last...no matter how good is ur action is!

Just wait till the time to be fade....

This post has been edited by b3rnard7: Jun 13 2009, 03:22 PM

I've eaten more salt than you've eaten rice, boy.

I've been a fool for beauty before. And I'd be more than willing to be a fool again... this time for love.

But I doubt you can tell the difference between the two.

how old ru boy? dun say tat b4 u judge me!

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Added on June 13, 2009, 5:35 pmtoo bad...not many gals know about tis! Most of them will nvr think of a guy's affordability b4 asking their bf to buy for them.They spend guy's money like no one's money!

Wat to do? most guy's wanna impress their GF and in order to save his face and wanna impress their GF to show their LOVE to his GF...they just buy without considering their affordability when looking into her "eyes of demanding"

This post has been edited by b3rnard7: Jun 13 2009, 05:35 PM

I'm not sure whether you are a boy or an adult but you sure whine a lot.If you don't like girls then go find some gay partners.No one forcing you to get a girl as your partner aye?Stop whining and moaning...The world owe you NOTHING...

I am not sure if you actually realize what you're doing here.
IIRC you had a bad relationship with several women whom unfortunately exhibited the gold digger type of characteristics. From there, you automatically made a conclusion that (from your small sample of experience with women), ALL women are like that.

Hello! Anyone there? Is the wheel turning but the hamster dead?
With human beings from all walks of life and all corners of the earth, not many statements can be made to generalize.
Even with your unfortunately repeated experience which yielded the same result, you can't say all women are money minded.

My advice to you is rather than spread your so-called propaganda, it is better to just state your experience and let others use it and a milestone rather than you lump all women into that derogatory category of yours - because god forbid women who read your posts, lump all men into the same category as you!

sorry! I wont find a gay partner...

I'm not tat kinda person as u think.

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Added on June 13, 2009, 7:14 pmFIXED!

wat im trying to say is MOST! not ALL! can u differentiate it?

This post has been edited by b3rnard7: Jun 13 2009, 07:17 PM

You sure don't get what I mean aye? What I m trying to say is, stop whining.That's it.It has nothing to do with your personal liking or gentle preferences at all.I don't see a need of you posting "girls/ladies are gold digger" in almost every relevant thread just to show how pitiful you are.Get a life dude...Get a life...If you need ranting, you can do it in your blog.

I don't go around spreading your idiotic "ada wang ada amoi" philosophy. That already makes me older than you, kiddo.

By posting here, you already gave others the green light to judge you. Dont like it? shut the fark up.

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Added on June 13, 2009, 5:35 pm
you dont know enough girls. or maybe girls with more brains dont hang around u enough for u to realise.
Speaking from experience i see....

Guys who use money to "purchase" girlfriends lack class and charisma to get what some ppl get for free.

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Added on June 14, 2009, 3:00 amyeah...i keep seeing his name pop up and say money no honey i was like wth is wrong with this kid....every post he would appear and say the same thing...

This post has been edited by teongpeng: Jun 14 2009, 03:00 AM

I could be wrong, but he seems to be trying to offer 'help' my spreading his propaganda about "No Money No Honey" backed up by his experience.
No doubt experience is one of the better teachers, but again - our sample scope of human interaction is only so tiny.

Dare anyone claim that they have met all walks of life enough to group people confidently?
As much as he may have the right to present his opinion, the methodology very much could be revised rather than come across as a factual preaching.

It is the method of presentation which I feel is ruffling up many people's feathers, to an extent even mine.

sorry bro but i don't quite agree with you, if comparing to a dozen friends and myself, either most of us are just plain lucky or we just knew how to play our cards. it's easy to differenciate a golddiigger and someone's who really interested in you. Although i do agree most guys wanna impress their gf's but they too know their limits. Those who don't either have enough money to throw (aren't charming or charismatic enough to keep a woman in their life without letting her use up all his dough) or end up sculpting a goldigger in the making, which eventually creating a real golddigger.
Please remember we all came from a woman's womb, so show some respect man.. Just because there were some sour experiences with a few doesn't mean there's no one truthful out there. Some day in the future you're going to realize how silly you were then, whilst having a family.

Just some pointers: it's the little things that matters the most, such as personal etiquttes and habits that would impress a woman to end up loving you.

This post has been edited by cOMMANDER pRASNTH: Jun 14 2009, 04:45 AM

i'm actually sick reading his reply in almost every thread and he whines about the same shit over and over again

All i know is girl like cash

I dun think so....bcos to me u nvr know wat a gal really thinks or expect from a guy!

U will face these ppl 1 day,...wat if 1 day u become jobless or bankruptcy and she dump u bcos of this? U will know how it feels!

There is nothing as FOC under the sky! Behind every love/ romance...is money who plays the important role!

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Added on June 14, 2009, 9:36 amMost of guys will forget their limits when they look their GF's "eyes of demanding"...most guy's will nvr know how much they spend on their GF until the day where they break off!

I know how to differentiate a gold digger and someone who is sincere on the 1st few days of meet.U read my siggy....it says all!



This post has been edited by b3rnard7: Jun 14 2009, 09:36 AM

i was jobless for a year with absolutely zero income. Heck i just got a job last week. as a car salesman. if she dump me i would understand. But i dont think she will. And i'm letting you know there are many girls that wont dump their bf because of lack of money. And these are not 'rejected' girls either. You gotta have a little something else buddy. If you keep selling yourself as the ATM machine, why would ppl go there when its out of service. Or worse, ppl will only go there when they wanna withdraw money.

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Added on June 14, 2009, 9:54 amWhen u decide to spend money on someone or something, make sure u do it without regret. Spending money on a girl DO NOT make you own her. If you want the service to be on par with how much u paid, u know where to go dont you?
That statement itself is not right. You cannot judge a person's sincereity on the first day. A good poker player will get all your money if u abide by that principle.


This post has been edited by teongpeng: Jun 14 2009, 09:54 AM

Your signature? You honestly think that those few letters you magically string together with your keyboard holds enough water to justify it being a yard stick to which people can use? Excuse me while I revisit my meal - thanks.

Again you claim that money is the driving force for any relationship. I can stand here and tell you Bull-fkn-shit because I have a living proof of it. A walking, talking, living evidence that money isn't a driving force.
My family came from the slums. Yea, the stuff you see in Slumdog Millionaire? My family came from that type of background, yet today not once have we heard of divorce and/or separated marriage case.

that means she is still preparing to chop her bf wallet, not yet. Soon....

1.yup atleast stable lo ..got a proper job
2.it depend on the girl ...everything needs and wants also got possible and impossible

your gf ask u ..i want the moon at the sky ...go buy it

if she say she want to be Prime Minister, can buy ar?

Actually you can. Get to know her, understand her, even her little reactions and body language can tell you so much about her. You could even outright ask her what she expects from you.

If you don't know these things... well, that again proves how immature you are.

What teongpeng told you is true. If you don't want women to treat you like a supplementary credit card, then don't behave like one. Your "ada wang ada amoi" philosophy means that's the only kind of woman you'll ever meet.

wait wait wait, you're saying if a girl pays for her own shopping = immatured?

i dunno what to say about ts

Just because you experienced it once doesnt mean every lady is the same.Show some respect to the ladies.Don't forget even your mother is a lady eh?Are you trying to say your mother get married with your father because of money?Enough of the nonsense.Show the ladies respect.You have been defending yourself by saying that you are referring to MOST and not all of the ladies but the fact is your posts and Your act of spreading your stupid philosophy of "no money no honey" in almost every thread show that you are condemning every single one of them.

As for your siggy,That's your pitiful and pathetic way of self comforting.

Please do us a favor..May I suggest you to bang your head against the wall and stop whining around in every thread in CC with your stupid philosophy of "ada wang ada amoi, no money no honey" shit.

This post has been edited by solstice818: Jun 14 2009, 03:06 PM

A girl who is willing to pay for her own shopping without burdening/depending on others sounds more matured.

excuse me...not only once....but many! which I already tired of it d.

I only respect the ladies who nvr look down & criticize me on my "current status"...but tis type of ladies....is very rare!

You guys are trying to bring this up again...

I agree wif this...bcos to me gals who wanna wait her bf to spend every single thing on her by using her "eyes on demanding" is totally a burden!

Just like waiting for BF to pay for everything....want everything as FOC from BF.

Will gals do the same as well? I dun think so....

If you only have shit to offer, no wonder all you see is flies.

I know u r a rich person...got $$$ and nice cars....those gals will go for u...

wat if u dun have those things I mention...soon u will know...

Ok ok....having $$$ might be useful to some extend. But a nice car?????!!?!?!?!?

Only the shallowest of the shallowest of the shallowest person talk like you.

you are doomed la bernard.....Given your current ideas about how things work, even if a truly sincere girl come to you and love you also u wont believe her. You will reject her. Just to prove your point all this while has been true.

God bless you man.

This post has been edited by teongpeng: Jun 14 2009, 04:22 PM

<sigh> You still don't get it. And I suppose I owe you an apology, I wasn't very clear.

I don't know how many girls you've dated, but if all of them are materialistic gold-diggers, then the problem is you - you with your "no money no honey" attitude. If you think women's affections can be bought, then of course the women you meet will be all too happy to sell it to you.

The kind of woman you claim to respect, whom you think are very rare? They are turned off by your attitude. That's why you never meet them.

Do you even know how to attract a girl with anything other than money?

You are hopeless.A lot of my friends are just driving small cars.Some even dun have a car in the 1st place yet they are already in relationship for years.

The thing about you is, you already have a mindset, telling you that every woman out there is going to con you.Like teongpeng said, even if you have the most sincere lady in the world, standing in front of you, you will still be thinking that she is after your money.Unless and until you get rid of such stupid thoughts, you will never get a gf.

The problem here is lies with you and not with the girls out there.Your siggy just show that you are immature and lack of respect to the ladies.Pity those ladies around you especially the one you are after...

C'mon...u think gals will take public transport wif u? in these days? or even a small car?

I know...im not a handsome or rich person!...tats why most gals dun accept who am i....I know I dun have nice car to fetch them and bring them to nice place!

I know u r great!....but u will realize wat I say 1 day...if u been looked down & criticize by gals b4...and not only once...but many...u will understand!

U will nvr know if it doesn't happened 2u.Now u talk is great!

There is no sincere gal who can accept my "current status"....they looked for sum1 is better with $$$,cars,looks and trust me! Those gals tat I dated out...they like to compare me with others.

Once I know they look for $$$....I say goodbye to them and nvr meet them again! Cos I know...these kinda gals will nvr be with a guys for long term!

This post has been edited by b3rnard7: Jun 14 2009, 05:08 PM

You are hopeless.

gone case d la...

i think this thread is hopeless. TS can't even define a proper meaning and full understanding to his/her own 'observation'

+1 on the bolded part...


exactly..

This post has been edited by vivienne85: Jun 14 2009, 05:51 PM