i know you'll sure say this when i see your name appeared in this thread.

Move on, brother, don't keep holding the grudge~!

Don't judge all gals for death penalty, you only had 1 experience and you're not qualified yet.

Put your comment about gals at your siggy is more than enough, please don't spread the same comment and repeat again and again in every relevant topics. RESPECT the gals out there, who have never cheated you, please.

+1

Dude doesn't know how pathetic he makes himself look.

Respect respect   
A relationship, belongs to both parties, both of them hold responsibility to invest their best to keep the relationship moving.
If one of the member is spiritually, mentally and physically avoiding the responsibility, he/she is leaving a crack on the relationship.
When the crack grows bigger, pieces and pieces of the relationship starts dropping, eventually, it becomes nothing.

What is the main reason to hold a relationship? IMHO, LOVE
What maintains LOVE? IMHO, our ACTION + MONEY
What affects our ACTION? IMHO, MATURITY
What builds MATURITY? IMHO, KNOWLEDGE

Ain't simple? 

I've eaten more salt than you've eaten rice, boy.
I've been a fool for beauty before. And I'd be more than willing to be a fool again... this time for love.

But I doubt you can tell the difference between the two.

If you create an expectation in your loved one by providing every materialistic need she wants (not what she needs), you end up spoiling her. Imagine if you got Carls Jr. meals from your dad every day & one fine day he stops buying it for you. What is your reaction? Anger? Frustration? Disappointment? That's a human being's nature therefore, to stay safe, always play safe. If you know she can't afford something which she needs, get it for her. Expections in a person are fun at times but can be dangerous when perceived wrongly. If that person expects something when the other cannot afford due to their current situation, a quarrel starts. Likewise, when you're going out with your friends everyday, always remember to spend some time and money on her as well.

In a relationship it's of utmost important to know when to give and to know when to take. It must be withheld from the start that the relationship is founded from love, trust and respect and not for financial or other forms of securities. Those who invest in a relationship for financial or material gains are obtaining an insurance in you. Don't be too generous and likewise, not too stingy. Always maintain a balance in your splendour if you really want to maintain true love, otherwise you're only creating a gold digger, who could leave when times are bad.

I'm not sure whether you are a boy or an adult but you sure whine a lot.If you don't like girls then go find some gay partners.No one forcing you to get a girl as your partner aye?Stop whining and moaning...The world owe you NOTHING...

I am not sure if you actually realize what you're doing here.
IIRC you had a bad relationship with  several women whom unfortunately exhibited the gold digger type of characteristics. From there, you automatically made a conclusion that (from your small sample of experience with women), MOST women are like that.

Hello! Anyone there? Is the wheel turning but the hamster dead?
With human beings from all walks of life and all corners of the earth, not many statements can be made to generalize.
Even with your unfortunately repeated experience which yielded the same result, you can't say all women are money minded.

My advice to you is rather than spread your so-called propaganda, it is better to just state your experience and let others use it and a milestone rather than you lump all women into that derogatory category of yours - because god forbid women who read your posts, lump all men into the same category as you!

I don't go around spreading your idiotic "ada wang ada amoi" philosophy. That already makes me older than you, kiddo.

By posting here, you already gave others the green light to judge you. Dont like it? shut the fark up.

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Added on June 13, 2009, 5:35 pm
you dont know enough girls. or maybe girls with more brains dont hang around u enough for u to realise.
Speaking from experience i see....

Guys who use money to "purchase" girlfriends lack class and charisma to get what some ppl get for free.

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Added on June 14, 2009, 3:00 am
yeah...i keep seeing his name pop up and say money no honey i was like wth is wrong with this kid....every post he would appear and say the same thing... 

sorry bro but i don't quite agree with you, if comparing to a dozen friends and myself, either most of us are just plain lucky or we just knew how to play our cards. it's easy to differenciate a golddiigger and someone's who really interested in you. Although i do agree most guys wanna impress their gf's but they too know their limits. Those who don't either have enough money to throw (aren't charming or charismatic enough to keep a woman in their life without letting her use up all his dough) or end up sculpting a goldigger in the making, which eventually creating a real golddigger.
Please remember we all came from a woman's womb, so show some respect man.. Just because there were some sour experiences with a few doesn't mean there's no one truthful out there. Some day in the future you're going to realize how silly you were then, whilst having a family.

Just some pointers: it's the little things that matters the most, such as personal etiquttes and habits that would impress a woman to end up loving you.

Just because you experienced it once doesnt mean every lady is the same.Show some respect to the ladies.Don't forget even your mother is a lady eh?Are you trying to say your mother get married with your father because of money?Enough of the nonsense.Show the ladies respect.You have been defending yourself by saying that you are referring to  MOST and not all of the ladies but the fact is your posts and Your act of spreading your stupid philosophy of "no money no honey" in almost every thread show that you are condemning every single one of them.

As for your siggy,That's your pitiful and pathetic way of self comforting. 

Please do us a favor..May I suggest you to bang your head against the wall and stop whining around in every thread in CC with your stupid philosophy of "ada wang ada amoi, no money no honey" shit.

A girl who is willing to pay for her own shopping without burdening/depending on others sounds more matured. 

If you only have shit to offer, no wonder all you see is flies. 

Ok ok....having $$$ might be useful to some extend. But a nice car?????!!?!?!?!?

Only the shallowest of the shallowest of the shallowest person talk like you.

you are doomed la bernard.....Given your current ideas about how things work, even if a truly sincere girl come to you and love you also u wont believe her. You will reject her. Just to prove your point all this while has been true.

God bless you man.

<sigh> You still don't get it. And I suppose I owe you an apology, I wasn't very clear.

I don't know how many girls you've dated, but if all of them are materialistic gold-diggers, then the problem is you - you with your "no money no honey" attitude. If you think women's affections can be bought, then of course the women you meet will be all too happy to sell it to you.

The kind of woman you claim to respect, whom you think are very rare? They are turned off by your attitude. That's why you never meet them.

Do you even know how to attract a girl with anything other than money?

You are hopeless.A lot of my friends are just driving small cars.Some even dun have a car in the 1st place yet they are already in relationship for years.

The thing about you is, you already have a mindset, telling you that every woman out there is going to con you.Like teongpeng said, even if you have the most sincere lady in the world, standing in front of you, you will still be thinking that she is after your money.Unless and until you get rid of such stupid thoughts, you will never get a gf.

The problem here is lies with you and not with the girls out there.Your siggy just show that you are immature and lack of respect to the ladies.Pity those ladies around you especially the one you are after...