QUOTE(fluffyme @ Jun 27 2009, 11:03 PM)
TS has a point (somewhat).
a mature woman knows she cannot survive on love alone. she needs stability and security for herself and future kids etc. hence she wants (and needs) a financially stable man.
a childish girl is one that dreams of true love and is willing to 'suffer in the name of love'.
but that doesn't mean mature woman only uses her man's money for shopping.

and you can't really generalize all women out there.
That's not what the TS is saying. I am supposed to do a complete and utter purge of the heresy in here, but my rituals of purification are not yet complete.
Even so, I shall dissect the opening post for starters.
Added on June 28, 2009, 3:48 amQUOTE(redline666 @ Jun 10 2009, 01:44 AM)
Hello fellas, do girls reach a level of true maturity where she sees having a boyfriend is that
1. must be financially stable whereby he can be her future husband. thus as a requiment for being a boyfriend,
2. he must be mature,
3. able to fullfill her every needs and wants, 4. and with almost perfect personality for her?
The thread starter reveals his MASSIVE FAIL on point number three, and I am surprised that few (if any) have caught him out on it.
It is not the job of a man to provide for a woman's every need and want. There are words for that sort of person, and those words are SLAVE, serf, vassal, helot, and peon. Even coolies and
pariahs inhumanely though the way they are treated, are not expected to serve a person's every need and want.
For a man or woman to think or even believe that they think it is the role of the man to fulfil EVERY need and want is ridiculous and stupid to the extreme.
No woman will truly respect a man who will subordinate his own standards and priorities to the whim of a woman.Subconsciously they know that if they can get away with it, so too will other people, and that dangerously compromises and devalues her relationship with you.
In addition, to fulfil a woman's every want and needs results in the effective removal of her own ability for achievement. The woman is reduced to a
useless, helpless creature, and
none but the most brainless will accept this.
Edit: The
venerable Commander Prasanth has indeed addressed point number three at length, as well as several of our wiser posters in here. This knowledge fills my heart with much joy.
This post has been edited by Dickson Poon: Jun 28 2009, 04:25 AM