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tks068
post Jun 10 2009, 02:08 AM

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QUOTE(redline666 @ Jun 10 2009, 01:49 AM)
but u see..i see girls when go shopping with her boyfriend, she pays for her own shopping stuff. That's mean that girl is not at the true level of maturity?
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thats not entirely true ....as a gf , u cannot expect everything u want is from your bf , this would sound like ripping of the guys you with , if u really love that guy or girl ... both must pay what u guys doing , thats what i think to be most fair to both side and also to show care and love to each other ...... personally if bf or gf only ask me to pay for everything .... ill think twice before dating her/him

some of my friend are like bank to his/her partner .... everything have to pay for her/him .... even those stuff like hair gel , shaver , kotex ,etc also have to pay zzZzZ what kind of human are they .... if want to pay then wait marry la ...zzz

i dont mean to side anyone .... be it girl or guy i just think you should not ask your partner to pay everything for u .... be Independent a bit , then for guys... they wont think the girl they dating is just going to rip their money off and for girls this show their partner is not depending on women to survive "eating soft rice"................ smile.gif
tks068
post Jun 10 2009, 02:12 AM

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QUOTE(Kinci @ Jun 10 2009, 02:09 AM)
Actually I think no. I dont see anything wrong with a girl paying for a own stuff when shopping with bf. Almost all girls want a bf with financially stable and fufill whatever requirments. Same like guys wanted a gf who got the face, body, understanding, blablabla.

'do girls reach a level of true maturity where she sees having a boyfriend is that must be financially stable whereby he can be her future husband.'
I think the 'must' word is being childish. Not mature. You cant count on someone 'surely' able to mantain his/hers current situation. People do have up's and down's. Even if she does meet someone who 'surely' have this requierment thing and assume that he can 100% mantain it. Does she love him? If she dont, she marry him cause of 'he's a good bargain?'.

Of course, able to find the ideal partner is the best. But most people out there just fell for someone unexpected.
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agreed .... if all only depend of $$$ then there is no love between them .... i personally dont think there will be any happiness even after they marry .... cos its too materialistic doh.gif doh.gif

 

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