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TSredline666
post Jun 10 2009, 01:44 AM, updated 17y ago

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Hello fellas, do girls reach a level of true maturity where she sees having a boyfriend is that must be financially stable whereby he can be her future husband. thus as a requiment for being a boyfriend, he must be mature, able to fullfill her every needs and wants, and with almost perfect personality for her?
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post Jun 10 2009, 01:49 AM

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but u see..i see girls when go shopping with her boyfriend, she pays for her own shopping stuff. That's mean that girl is not at the true level of maturity?
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post Jun 10 2009, 02:01 AM

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QUOTE(zalmerox @ Jun 10 2009, 01:56 AM)
How does one define maturity?
Love makes you do irrational things.
Again, how do you define maturity? A mature girl = using guy's money ? Everyone is different, you shouldn't make generalization.

But IMHO, the fact that the girl looks at all categories cashflow, personality as well as looks, doesn't really DETERMINE a mature girl but rather a preference for her type of MATE.
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but well, lets say i give u a big mansion to live in, and a small old house to live in, which one would u choose? Also, women that doesnt let feeling controls over her requirement to be her boyfriend, is that a new level of maturity?


Added on June 10, 2009, 2:02 am
QUOTE(~LynX~ @ Jun 10 2009, 01:57 AM)
Girls reach one of the many levels of maturity when they know what they want and work to get it.
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yeah that's true, so the girl that wants 5c she will eliminate all the guys that cant reach her standard infront of her.

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post Jun 10 2009, 03:12 AM

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QUOTE(tks068 @ Jun 10 2009, 02:08 AM)
thats not entirely true ....as a gf , u cannot  expect everything u want is from your bf , this would sound like ripping of the guys you with , if u really love that guy or girl ... both must pay what u guys doing , thats what i think to be most fair to both side and also to show care and love to each other ...... personally if bf or gf only ask me to pay for everything .... ill think twice before dating her/him

some of my friend are like bank to his/her partner .... everything have to pay for her/him .... even those stuff like hair gel , shaver , kotex ,etc also have to pay zzZzZ what kind of human are they .... if want to pay then wait marry la ...zzz

i dont mean to side anyone .... be it girl or guy i just think you should not ask your partner to pay everything for u .... be Independent a bit , then for guys... they wont think the girl they dating is just going to rip their money off and for girls this show their partner is not depending on women to survive "eating soft rice"................  smile.gif
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she thinks guy is responsible to pay for everything, needs and wants, in return she give u her time and love, oh ya she like smart guy too. she knows everyone have ups and downs, for smart guy when he fail, sure he is smart enuf to climb up again rite? nevertheless, when filling the form to be her bf u must be like having a non working wife, pays for everything, expensive dinners, good clothes..


Added on June 10, 2009, 3:22 am
QUOTE(Jamien @ Jun 10 2009, 02:58 AM)
Er.... No, I don't think so. It just means this girl is realistic and knows what she wants. Maturity is a pretty broad term don't you think? A person can still want those and be pretty immature about everything else.
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umm do u think if u can get a man that fulfill the wants that u know that u need, ur relationship will goes for a long time>?

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post Jun 13 2009, 03:45 AM

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she wants a perfect man, she wants a guy who can fullfil her needs and wants, im doing all i can, and we are just in discreet relationship and she has a boyfriend, one day i dissapointed and snap, she went crazy, looking for me everywhere in town, called me msg me whole day long, i just ignore, when i came home at night, she came crying for me, i scolded her for all the unjust things she do to me, i forgive her, next day she broke up with her boyfriend, she told me that's the big step for her to give up a man can give her needs and wants 100%, she ask me not to do anything that make her regret, but she tell me she cant be my girlfriend now, i gave her needs and wants all the time, but not 100%, as u see needs as in like having a wife, u pay for everything, saloon, treatment, good clothes, food, car feul, everything got to do with $, i gave her wants, romantic dinner etc..., me n her like soulmate, but not everyday i can garuntee can give, my financial got ups and down, who runs a business that doesnt have ups and down? she told me im still not the man that can fullfill her everything, so cant be her boyfriend yet, she dont want me to go, but cant be my girl friend, and she claimed that she got personality dissoder, part of her can be with me love me, but part of her tells her that i cant fullfill her then she treat me like shit, but i dont think a mental person knows that they are mental, for me the point is, if u really love someone u want him beside you, why cant u give in for him, as sama sama susah, sama sama senang, if the person willing to love you and strive for a better live with you?

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