she wants a perfect man, she wants a guy who can fullfil her needs and wants, im doing all i can, and we are just in discreet relationship and she has a boyfriend, one day i dissapointed and snap, she went crazy, looking for me everywhere in town, called me msg me whole day long, i just ignore, when i came home at night, she came crying for me, i scolded her for all the unjust things she do to me, i forgive her, next day she broke up with her boyfriend, she told me that's the big step for her to give up a man can give her needs and wants 100%, she ask me not to do anything that make her regret, but she tell me she cant be my girlfriend now, i gave her needs and wants all the time, but not 100%, as u see needs as in like having a wife, u pay for everything, saloon, treatment, good clothes, food, car feul, everything got to do with $, i gave her wants, romantic dinner etc..., me n her like soulmate, but not everyday i can garuntee can give, my financial got ups and down, who runs a business that doesnt have ups and down? she told me im still not the man that can fullfill her everything, so cant be her boyfriend yet, she dont want me to go, but cant be my girl friend, and she claimed that she got personality dissoder, part of her can be with me love me, but part of her tells her that i cant fullfill her then she treat me like shit, but i dont think a mental person knows that they are mental, for me the point is, if u really love someone u want him beside you, why cant u give in for him, as sama sama susah, sama sama senang, if the person willing to love you and strive for a better live with you?