How does one define maturity?
Love makes you do irrational things.

Again, how do you define maturity? A mature girl = using guy's money ? Everyone is different, you shouldn't make generalization.

But IMHO, the fact that the girl looks at all categories cashflow, personality as well as looks, doesn't really DETERMINE a mature girl but rather a preference for her type of MATE.

A big mansion where you physically abuse your mate?? (but you can go for divorce and get $$)
But a small house with love?? (but you can't go for divorce with $$$)

A reasonable sane woman, will choose the second. If she believe she can make the $$ herself.


Then again, there are too many variables. Love it's not as simple as 1+1 = 2 . As much as everyone wants it to be like.. You love me, I love you kinda crap.

It's more like, x(male) + y(female) = z. Even if you know the value of x as 1. You still don't know y. As much as you thought you know "y" when you're dating. When you decide to marry her, she could morph to a complete different person (controlling, self-pity, emotional, freak, demanding for love and asking you why won't you love her the way like you do when you're dating ).

Hence Y will be a variable as well as yourself X(when you strike it rich and decide to get a mistress). Which means, X and Y will always remain an undefined variable which will lead to the result of Z. Undeniably, you can control the variables of X(which is yourself), but you can never control how Y will turn out to be.


Long story cut short, there's no right answer to your question.




Nevertheless base on your scenario, MATURED + SMART woman, know better to rely on themselves than to rely on men

This post has been edited by zalmerox: Jun 10 2009, 02:14 AM

Maturity is overrated.

I want to stay childish. Everyone is so eager to grow up, I'm so eager to stay young.