QUOTE(b3rnard7 @ Jun 14 2009, 05:03 PM)
C'mon...u think gals will take public transport wif u? in these days? or even a small car?
I know...im not a handsome or rich person!...tats why most gals dun accept who am i....I know I dun have nice car to fetch them and bring them to nice place!
I know u r great!....but u will realize wat I say 1 day...if u been looked down & criticize by gals b4...and not only once...but many...u will understand!
U will nvr know if it doesn't happened 2u.Now u talk is great!
There is no sincere gal who can accept my "current status"....they looked for sum1 is better with $$$,cars,looks and trust me! Those gals tat I dated out...they like to compare me with others.
Once I know they look for $$$....I say goodbye to them and nvr meet them again! Cos I know...these kinda gals will nvr be with a guys for long term!
If this is the situation, then you already know that something is wrong and you may want to have a paradigm shift.
Yes, I do agree that some girls (AND I REPEAT:
SOME) are really nothing but a real materialistic girl, good for nothing, emotional, immature and don't even worth being someone's GF, and I'm serious, based on my experience. Don't forget also that there are also good for nothing, damn rich guys, spoon fed by their parents, don't want to come out and work to earn their own money and became a womanizer all the time.
But, as people once said, is it worth giving a forest just because of a few trees? The answer is NO! You must have the courage to know more girls and I think before you agree to be someone's BF, try to know them more first. Don't jump into a relationship so fast. You will always end up in disappointment very fast if you do so.
I know in this day and age, a relationship demands more and more as human life and the society becomes more and more complex and complicated. As the society became even more sophisticated, it demands one to upgrade themselves and compete with one another. However, this is from a realistic point of view. Girls are human too and when human priority changes, different stages in life will be affected by the changes in life's priority, and this will indirectly affects a relationship, especially when it spans through different stages of human life (study, work, family, middle-aging). It's up on you on how to deal with the changes, and yet doesn't mean that lacking on something will be a disadvantage for you to deal with it. Everyone has their own strength and weaknesses, and everyone have a different ways on dealing with it.
Each relationship demands a different challenge. Some girls may not put money as their higher priority but would want to feel secure and being listened to all the time. Imagine that you are rich, just send her enough money for her to live. But everytime when she's sad, no one is by her side. Or when she has a family, and she doesn't have the completeness of a family because the husband is not caring about his family at all. Think about it. Girls want a guy who can both support her financially and emotionally. Girls' heart are more sensitive than guys and girls sometimes are vulnerable at times. But because in this age, where the status of guys and girls are almost the same, that's where you see that girls are becoming stronger. But in the end, the same principle still remained in a relationship. Guys strength to protect a girl's heart, and girls' sensitive heart to complement a guy's insensitivity. Mother Nature always have her way.
Think about it. You need to mix more with girls, understand them, and be a real man with courage and with great respect. Show them the real you.
Good luck!
Jun 10 2009, 06:41 AM
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