Girls are very easy to please

I wanna ask, I seems to have an interest on my friend who I knew her since back in secondary. But we haven't been in touch lately cos I am studying abroad where she is still in my hometown. Now I am graduate and she is as well. We chat online and I felt that I should try to approach her.. I have feeling on her since secondary school but its just a feeling, I wanted to try tis time. Any advice?

Try asking her out for a movie or any casual outing...move slowly to see how she reacts...

If ask her out, 1 on 1 or with some other friends? Cos we don't really have the same group of friend at the moment.. they all still studying outside.. better be slow and steady right? Thanks for the advice just don't know how to initiate ><

both of you chat online right?mayb you can ask her any movie she wishes to watch...

just have the mindset that she is your friend now...don't rush things...girls enjoy the feeling of being chased (i think)

treat her like how you treat the rest but with extra care...

Yeah.. chat online but I scare it will be like too fast to ask her out for a movie or even a drink.. if 1 on 1... it's true that girl enjoy the feelings of being chased.. but only if she have the some feelings for the Guy la.. thanks ya.. maybe I can try what you said but what if she rejected? Is it a sign that she is telling me both of us is impossible? Or she might be Abit conservative? Tho we are classmate but we aren't very close back then..

This post has been edited by ben3003: Nov 25 2011, 12:10 AM

What a girl wants is to get to know you. She would definitely feel proud that there's a guy who likes her, but of course she wants to find out if you're a nice guy or a creep. And the best way to let her get to know you is a 1 on 1 date. No point going out in a group because the other people are just a distraction.

Read THE FIVE, and pay special attention to no. 5.

if she rejects your invitation...be patience...that might be a signal that she's still not comfortable going out with you alone,yet...get to know about her daily living,interest,bobbies etc...then you'll have better chance to get the girl you've wanted

Ya i keep reading ur "FIVE" It is a great guide, last time i started a courting with confession before reading yours, and it is dead hard to get my ex, because she already confirm that you like her, and it is very hard to eliminate the "awkwardness" and she will be holding be something. Your approach is much more better, and easier.

Ok thanks for da advice. i guess i will try to ask her out for something else that we can really talk and share opinions and so on, it have been a long time since i met her, like nearly 2 years..

Normally girl rejects your invitation only 2 reasons:-
1) Lei hou yong sui; or
2) Play hide and seek

i heard from another girl that say usually girls prefer to have a chat online instead of meeting up if like she and the guy is not close enough, which is why i am hesitate to ask her out for anything. But my friend told me to just go ahead and try. I only scare the timing is not right, cos i think she just broke up few weeks ago..

Just be at your best, be yourself and maybe she'll be able to see something different in you.

This post has been edited by mellowling: Nov 27 2011, 11:19 PM

ben3003: bro,girls are pretty much vulnerable after they've ended a relationship.yes,they might be scared of starting a new relationship but in the same time if you can convince her about how real your feelings are towards her,i don't see there's any reason for her not accepting you.Just like you've said,timing and patiences are the keys to open up her heart.Just make sure you manage to drown her with all your love and care.Make her suffocate with all your love.Don't be afraid getting rejected but keep trying even if she does.If a girl treats you as her true love,she will love you even more

P/S: Sorry for long post

heyy my case is nearly the same as yours,
Just that I'm not graduated yet and neither is she.

Sorry for spamming but in reality its better to get girls by simply having a positive attitude. Just be happy when you talk to someone, make jokes and viola, FNS.

start a conversation , talk about anything eat or recent release movie! wait for a chance ! eg.a nice food somewhere , uh if got chance i bring u there try something like dat
if she is comfortable with , u will get positive reply be creative

its work for me yet both of us still holding up for time being , somewhat she manage to talk to me again with next time lets go somewhere nice to eat again

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Added on November 30, 2011, 5:54 ambtw , same case with you secondary friend bac then and we're jus ordinary fren with extra close compare to other,after graduate she went overseas to continue study and came back this year , quite a while we dint contact each other , approximately 3 years,we manage to contact each other by random chance

This post has been edited by sebz: Nov 30 2011, 05:54 AM

ah, i tried to ask her out but she din reply me, that;s the worst case scenario. It is better to have her reject than to stay silent...

don't give up...how did you asked her?online?sms?

maybe she was waiting you to ask again?who knows?you can never guess how does a girl think correctly

I SMS her, so should I send another? Because I really need to plan for themeet up..

did you called her before?if no then better don't...maybe you could try asking through chat?just start those normal chats then ask her out of sudden about the invitation...see how she answer you...