Try asking her out for a movie or any casual outing...move slowly to see how she reacts...

both of you chat online right?mayb you can ask her any movie she wishes to watch...

just have the mindset that she is your friend now...don't rush things...girls enjoy the feeling of being chased (i think)

treat her like how you treat the rest but with extra care...

if she rejects your invitation...be patience...that might be a signal that she's still not comfortable going out with you alone,yet...get to know about her daily living,interest,bobbies etc...then you'll have better chance to get the girl you've wanted

ben3003: bro,girls are pretty much vulnerable after they've ended a relationship.yes,they might be scared of starting a new relationship but in the same time if you can convince her about how real your feelings are towards her,i don't see there's any reason for her not accepting you.Just like you've said,timing and patiences are the keys to open up her heart.Just make sure you manage to drown her with all your love and care.Make her suffocate with all your love.Don't be afraid getting rejected but keep trying even if she does.If a girl treats you as her true love,she will love you even more

P/S: Sorry for long post

don't give up...how did you asked her?online?sms?

maybe she was waiting you to ask again?who knows?you can never guess how does a girl think correctly

did you called her before?if no then better don't...maybe you could try asking through chat?just start those normal chats then ask her out of sudden about the invitation...see how she answer you...

don't ask her anything about the meet up first...chat like normal...when both of of you starts chatting for some moment then only you ask...girls like their guy/bf etc to be confident at what they are doing...do not have any doubts in what you are doing,they can sense it very well

if you need some guideline...feel free to look for me lah...