haha..of coz laa not..men still mo..what Im trying 2 say wimenz must give some 'help' as well..

http://thestar.my/news/story.asp?file=/201...3217&sec=nation

I heard one says that if you love someone and u can't get her by yourside,let her go..because the moment you let her go,someone new will come into the picture..it is true..sometimes..it so fast u won't even be ready for the next one..hehe

Sorry dude... Girls don't like awkward situation. The more you telling your feeling to her, she will feel pressure & scare.

Girls are emotional, you just need know how the game works, confuse her, make her miss you.

If a girl take the initiative to ask you out or talk to you & said she miss you & need your accompany. Mean she like you to some extend.

I had gone through this situation before where I try to confess my feeling to her but it turn out that she is not ready to be in relationship because of bad experience before.

I agree that, once I told her my feeling I can see that she pressured and out relationship as a friend turn sour day by day.

After quite a sometime not contact her then I took the chance to send her an email to apologize for all my wrongdoings before and wanted to take another chance.

Well, she kind of agree to watch a performance with me and I hope I can do my best to be with her

Hey all ,

Just need some advice...recently i meet back with a gal that i like really much since first i saw her in uni. We are quite close tat time but i some how miss the chances. She was too good, and i dare not make the move that time as i scare losing her after confession. I waited for too long i can say. And after grad she stay in other place to work and i went bk to work near my hometown. We are from the same state so she will come bk to visit her family from time to time.

Recently when she come bk ...she some how misses my mum mooncake and ask for some as last time i do treat her eat a lot of thing. After the meet up, i still found i m attracted to her. I guess she is the only gal i still meet even after so long never meet.

Since tat day i started to text her and find topic to talk to her. Usually i m the one who started the conversation. Then we meet again after she come bk, i ask her out for a movie and dinner but that time is her sis birthday so she just ask me to eat together then went for the movie.

She will be coming bk after another month. Although i got a gf now...(yeah my bad) but i m really interested in seeing how we can advance if i really make my move. She also know i got gf and got ask thing about my gf but i don like to tell her.

Just some advice....u all think should i give it a try to make her feel that i m interested in her ?? I also don wan to look like play play in the end. I have been thinking a lot lately. Me and my currenlty gf is in LDR and seem like the distance problem cant really be solve...i m still stuck working in my hometown and my gf not really interested in coming to my hometown.

I m not sure whether i should persue someone i really like for so long as i hope there is no regret later in life when i finally settle down. But am i being too selfish?? or something that cant get is always the best ?? hahah...

What is u guys opinion ??
How do i really let her felt that i m interested in her ??
What should i do ??
She always cool cool dei one...sometime wana find her also hard.

you like the girl for so long... so do you love your current gf?

1)My comment, not opinion is that I pity your current GF. If you are serious about it, then you should first severe ties with her before pursuing your next interest. Though most guys wont do that, but I hope you will. Double timing is what brings guys a bad name.

2)See which angle suits her best. Attack that angle. Does she share her past relationship problems with you? Can you share with her yours by telling her that you think you are making a mistake with your current GF or something like that? share something strong that provokes affection. normally the right thing to do base on experience would be to date her 3 times. 2 times normal, the 3rd time find an opportunity and grab her hand. Expressing interest orally = 50/50. Expressing with action = 70(good)-30(negative) (especially if she is out on a personal date with you for 3 times).

3)Universal rule of dating for men - be a good listener. find a topic and then listen. The pareto rule of dating would be 70 percent listening and 30 percent talking. At the end, she will find you interesting because she had freedom to share alot of things.

4)i think this one has alot to do with comfortable or not to hangout with you. most girls like to give excuses when they are not comfortable. i dont know how to solve this. it's between u and her. find a way to make her feel comfortable plus find out what she is not comfortable with. u gotta explore this.

I hope this helps! may you find your happiness.

I appreciate what have u bring shared over here.
Although i love my currently gf but compare with her. I feel sory to my gf also but after seeing her, naturally i would like to care for her....just feel like she is the dream gal that really like to take care and love even though she didnt want to reply your msg but u still wait and hope that she will reply.

Actually i have been knowing her since first year in uni. We are quite close at one time but i didnt dare to tell her that i love her tat time, for me she is just being too precious to be loss (or i m still lack of experience). I wait and wait and try to understand her more. Although she have a lot of frens, always got fren ajak her go out.... but what is feel, she play safe when come to love.

We go out a lot of times before, watch movie together, dinner together, hang together. but after grad we rarely meet oledi until recently ....but i really cant feel she really move by me. Mayb she just treat me as plain fren ?? I mean is there anything i can do that make me stand out in front of her....make she know that i m interested in her ??

Actual i still not sure i wan to chase her all out o not....just wana try and see see if she really got some interest in me.

Your situation is just like the guy in "There's something about Mary". LOL.

There's just no right or wrong way to approach this, dude. Some date coach would say "be yourself" while others will say "suit to her style and preference and use it to your advantage". Well, perhaps you can be yourself if the girl digs you and likes everything about you. For example, rock stars with bad temper, some girls like them and they can be themselves.

I guess in your situation she hasn't really shown any interest. So perhaps you have to find her likings and use it to your advantage. For example, if she likes dogs, you gotta be an expert in dogs. If she likes travelling, you gotta find out places of interests and share with her. Always show the caring side of you and be a very good listener and see how that takes off. Dont always think of the fact that if I am doing all this things going through all the troubles, I must have her. It may not result in anything but at least you will have a soulmate.

Best of luck to you.

how if the gurl is difficult to approach...

Then go for other girls lor.... Why give up on the forest because of a tree? hehe.
If she's still the one for you, then you have to put alot of effort. Are you willing?

If a gal suddenly don wan to ans your call and reply SMS , what does that mean?

Normally it means that she's busy. Just joking, it typically means that she is avoiding you cause if you are important, she will reply you right?

Too important until she ignore? Haha

It can be anything. It's hard to guess. But anyhow, I had this situation before. What I did was simple. I send another SMS saying "I guess I am glad you didnt reply me. I now have an excuse not to reply you. Kidding. If you are busy, then focus on your things, ok? Take care."

Within minutes, messages came with apologies. I myself is guilty of not replying to people's sms sometimes. I guess I am just lazy entertaining them at times and I dont know how to tell them off without offending them. So maybe she feel the same.

What u say might be right too.....
Its just very curious when someone suddenly didnt reply u.
I myself very rarely dint reply ppl...especially if ppl call and reply me at at the same time....some more long known fren.

Heee..i already got the gurl that i love the most...
Actually it is simple...just be yourself..say wat u wanna say..that's all..

congrats :）

Congrats lo.

What you say actually?

Just simple 3 words or have adding salt, ketchup, sugar and etc?