I don't see how this has go to do with anything?


Self-gratification = true to theirselves? Not necessarily. Most of it is because they're trying to escape from hardship. Just because you have to suffer and put effort into something doesn't mean you're subservient to others. Someone who plants and farms for his own food is not subservient to others, but the one who purchases food from other is. Did you think about that?


And you still think your view is worth espousing?


Do you think making money the foundation of your relationships is going to give you the least regrets in life? How many rich people have regretted not spending more time with their friends and families cause they were chasing money? How many people have had their heart broken and regretted cause they were blinded by money only to be used in the process?

Money doesn't protect you from regrets.

That's the problem in the way you think, that money brings you happiness. It doesn't. Earlier you mentioned about being subservient or enjoying the journey to your coffin. You don't realise that you've become the slave of money. The person who can be broke and still find happiness in life; that's the person who will be enjoying their life to the coffin; the same one who will be able to pluck and enjoy the fruits from the tree of life.

Just to be clear with you, I'm not saying you don't need money or that money doesn't help. It certainly helps, but it should not be the basis of your happiness or relationships. Happiness is something you have to learn to develop internally, when you can be happy with nothing, you've truly attained happiness. If your happiness comes from money, then money is holding your happiness by the balls, and when that is gone you'll be one depressed mofo.

and to let you know, I'm not talking out of my ass, as I've been through financial difficulty and still managed to remain happy

Dear silverhawk, I think we can agree to disagree? We're on completely opposite ends of the spectrum. I am ultimately selfish, and see no problems with it. You are ultimately un-selfish, and see no problems with that either.

So let's just stop right here. Nobody is going to change their minds. I know I will not regret my way of life (it is part of my philosophy to have no regrets, and no apologies), and you don't seem like you will have any regrets.

Good luck!

No problems with me

Guys, I need help here.... A girl told me that '' she's copyrighted, you do no own me''... What does it mean?? Sorry if I did post in wrong threat

Metaphorically speaking,

Silverhawk is teaching you to be happy of the results of which you get from weight losing routines.

YOU on the other hand, can only be happy if you can spend your money on liposuction.

Your happiness is BOUGHT.

Silverhawk is teaching you how to EARN happiness.

how to get a girl, its look like woman chase money man chase beauty,i quite agree what silverhawk said 'slave of money', i really want to avoid that because... he or she looks like no price at all...

meaning give her space.... u r drowning her. u dun control her...

for me, i think basically,
"How to get the girl you want!"
is just simple. guys, go to gym and build up your body. im sure any girl would be attracted.

Ok, I got it right.. Thanks bro

This post has been edited by oOoproz: Feb 11 2012, 03:32 AM

That will increase the probability, but if that guy is an egoistic, jerk who thinks that a girl's job is to make him a sandwich, or in our case, nasi lemak, then he will just be friendzoned.

friendzoned +1 haha!

I have to agree on silverhawk. what he said could really enlighten people what true happiness really is. but i believe, some people tend to holding on the realtionship even though they are not happy is mainly because they are afraid. they afraid what if they could not find the right one after many tried. it is not easy to find the fated and right person that suits you since it has to be depending on the God arrangement.

i heard of a story of a student asking his teacher what is love? the teacher said you go the corn fields and find me the largest corn field grass you can find, but you must not turn back. you could only walk pass once till the end of the corn field and then return me the largest corn grass you can find. the boy do as the teacher said, he enter the corn field and notice a large corn grass in front of him, he wants to pick it up but in his mind he said it could be much bigger grass ahead and so he did not take it and went ahead. in the middle of corn field he did manage to find another bigger corn grass as compare earlier but he still did not pick it up because he believe there could be bigger grass out there. and so he went on and when he reach almost the end of the corn field, he realize the corn grass isn't big enough as earlier. and so he went out from the corn field with empty hand. the teacher ask why you hands is empty? the boy said he should have pick the earlier corn grass but he missed it. and the teacher reply him that is what call love.

But i still hope everyone keep holding faith on finding their other half because I am too. I just give comment on some other people thought that why they still hang on.

No offence.

Wanna ask. In office we are like lovers. She will always look at me... Gimmi that cheeky cute smile. Even said "i love you" once to me... But when after office hours its different... She wont text me... When i text her it will take ages to reply. If we go for outing with our colleagues... She will owez stick to me like glue. Even to the extend of hugging.. My fwen say its juz a fling... Is that true?

I think that to get the girl you want a man has just to be himself, value his positive aspects and work on his defects to become always someone better.
Don't focus on 'pay' or you just get 'goldie girls', but focus on be able to offer stability and have a good reputation and surely you will find a good person for you.

nice one

I have interest on my colleague even i just know her for 5 months. Sometimes she so close to me but sometimes very cold to me, somemore she like to ask me to treat her, buy present for her even we just know for less than 2 months by that time....is there any girl like dat? Date her few times failed coz she say i date her wrong time (she asked me back is she so hard to date?)....am i too rush or she no interest?

2 days ago her birthday i bought her present, but a secret admirer bought bouquet of flower for her......i think she may know this guy well. what should i do? Sorry if i posted wrong thread.

Thanks

Get the girl u want?lol
Forget about it ,its wasting time to me,every pick one fail one............

*Comment retracted because poster felt the comment was too stupid*

This post has been edited by milkyboon: Jun 10 2012, 03:21 PM

really exist this book? hw much it cost?

how to get a girl's number..?? im seriuzz..
she's playing hard-to-get with me rite now..

inb4 not sure if she's playing hard to get or not interested #frymeme