I think you should inform yours and her parents, in the first place you already wrong, still want to continue? Face the challenge, if u scare,ur girl will also scare. Bring the MAN spirit out!

come i slap you want??

TS, what is her decision then? what does she feels about it? does she wants to keep the baby or not? if you're both not ready, then you proceed with your decision. but if both also wants to keep then if you're capable financially and emotionally why not? parents can be very forgiving when it comes to these things and who knows, she may count it a blessing when the child is born.

Abortion = gf's future health complication, trauma, guilt feeling for the rest of your life, black history in ur karma.

It's only effective 90% of the time.

Another option besides abortion is to keep the child, and let other couple to adopt him/her/they. Good luck !!!

Majority here can tell u not to abort the baby which is probably the right thing to do. But lets get into the untold details. Do u know most of those who underwent abortion will live to regret what they did? The guilt alone will destroy ur relationship, especially on her side.

way much better than other methods. and well, i haven't known anyone who complains about getting pregnant after using them.

ts if you dont mind why not u tell us the untold details.
how much you guys roughly earning.
how much liabilities you guys having.
what is stopping you from keeping ur child
if the doctor says she is really pregnant......
but as rourou says, if you are really dont wish to be pregnant,
use a condom....less headache.

Well the 2nd one will nvr be spoken off so definately no heart attack on second one. And please stop with the 'dont kill a life' arguments cause its not a very good argument. If you bring a child into the world without being able to support it, then u may as well have left the child in a trash can. And her mum is very very sick so yes, its is very likely to send her into cardiac arrest. Take the facts I've given you without speculating that I'm over reacting to her mums condition.

Also, don't give me the "you should have taken precautions" approach. We've been together for more than a year and been sexually active for that duration so we've been taking all the proper precautions. Its just fate that she may have gotten pregnant now. Besides, there's no point crying over spilled milk. I'm just looking for some helpful advice. Not "I told you so's"..

reposting this again since some of you are too lazy to scroll up to read the edited posts....

For conservative parents, it is a shame to marry of their daughter due to pregnancy because it shows that the mother fail to do her job bring up her daughter.

TS, you can tell your parents that your GF is already pregnant. You and your GF already prepared to be parents and welcoming the child into this world. But you only wish to inform your GF’s mother after the marriage. And the marriage is required to be done within two months. If your parents as supporting as you believe, this should not be an issue.

Btw, is both of you already ROM. If so, your mom-in-law should not get a big trauma from the news.

Hehe, can ask from Deimos

anyway, isn't its a good news to hear that her daughter can get pregnant?

This post has been edited by psychodize: Mar 23 2009, 11:38 AM

rourou u always use dom dom one ah?

Just do whatever it is appriopriate...

Yeah, we need to consider the future of child too...no point to see kids brought up in non-conducive environment if both of you are prepared yet heh?

At the same time, please consider her possible health implication too...

At the end, again, do whatever you think it is appropriate

y not just say you guys going to get married? no need to mention the baby?

edit: only if you want to keep the child... otherwise, no need to talk anymore. if you dont' want the baby just go for abortion and be done with it. no need to use the mum as excuse.

This post has been edited by rourou: Mar 23 2009, 11:33 AM

i second.

Seen u already think carefully need abortion or be a father now.
U open this thread is asking which clinic to "do" it or which Kedai Khawin is better now ?

a boh?

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Added on March 23, 2009, 11:34 amsiapa??

This post has been edited by rourou: Mar 23 2009, 11:34 AM

rou rou.. dom dom only can up to 90% safe..
Y dun u use dom dom + pil ?
90 + 90 = 180%

pills are hormones. different ppl get affected differently. and definitely got effect, see if i shot some estrogen in your system what will happen?

condoms also protects from STD. way better than pills.

rou rou. ur posts are probably the least useful. please leave this discussion.

wah rourou very experienced...
teach me later ok

lolz so fierce...

I think u are just trying to find a reason to do abortion..

Else, just get married fast and no need to tell her mom about the pregnancy.
Nuff said