use a condom

come i slap you want??

TS, what is her decision then? what does she feels about it? does she wants to keep the baby or not? if you're both not ready, then you proceed with your decision. but if both also wants to keep then if you're capable financially and emotionally why not? parents can be very forgiving when it comes to these things and who knows, she may count it a blessing when the child is born.

way much better than other methods. and well, i haven't known anyone who complains about getting pregnant after using them.

y not just say you guys going to get married? no need to mention the baby?

edit: only if you want to keep the child... otherwise, no need to talk anymore. if you dont' want the baby just go for abortion and be done with it. no need to use the mum as excuse.

This post has been edited by rourou: Mar 23 2009, 11:33 AM

a boh?

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Added on March 23, 2009, 11:34 amsiapa??

This post has been edited by rourou: Mar 23 2009, 11:34 AM

pills are hormones. different ppl get affected differently. and definitely got effect, see if i shot some estrogen in your system what will happen?

condoms also protects from STD. way better than pills.

maybe you could be more specific of what kind of answers you'll like to get and we'll gladly provide you with it.

stick with her. she'll need your support emotionally.

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Added on March 23, 2009, 12:24 pmraising a child is not just abc or not just about money. it's difficult... and even more if you're not ready for it. it's one of the reasons there's so many orphans around. worst yet, blaming the child if you're stuck in an unhappy marriage. if can't provide why bring the child to suffer? even married couples aborts at times.

TS has made a decision. let it be.

This post has been edited by rourou: Mar 23 2009, 12:24 PM

TS and his gf will be the one greatly affected by it. not you guys. stop screaming murder!!

i do think that abortions are always harder for the gal. TS will have to be extra sensitive to her needs emotionally.

well even for a gal, with all her motherly instinct may not be ready for a child. having a child takes its toll, emotionally and financially. even if she is financially capable doesn't mean she is emotionally. it's a difficult decision to make. she may still be scared and confused with the whole issue.

but no mattter what, they have made their decision so be it. just find the best way to go around it.

this thread is turning into a pro-life / pro-choice war