stop the war, stop the war. don't hijack TS's thread. There's an abortion thread in Real World Issue!

TS, would u consdier abort the house?

or talk the bank. pay loan only after the house is ready.

OMFG SAME SITUATION AS ME, but mine not as extreme as u. My ex havnt found a bf yet. HAHA. But on the process. Its been 1year 10months since i broke up with her. Life. Unfair.

So what? U're gonna ignore me now?
Damn.... another internet tuff guy.
Dare to say that in internet but not IRL.

u mean me ah. no lah coz we already decide to get married and have kids juz things happen so fast then we planned.
so for those that like to say 'do it on safe period lah', pls stop it lor

but one of my fren would be as she only ROM when is about 7-8mths pregnancy coz the BF 'tak peduli' attitude.
Luckily he change his attitude after the child born.

i thought incomplete houses = pay the bank interest and not the loan repayment , hmmm

Omg, send the child to anak yatim ? Thats harsh. Would u send ur own child to the anak yatim ? Surely no. If u are financially capable of raising the child go ahead dude. I got a friend who is 27 of age and already has 3 children. The eldest is 5years old. Guess when the wife is pregnant ?

Mother and father dun want care.. then kid end up at street.
After that police will bring back to u and send u to court.
After that will make decision who till take care it. Is father or mother.
After make decision if let say to father. then father no care about the child.. court will keep warning him or saman ihm.

can choose to pay 1st. reducing the principal i think. only rich ppl do this.

who say again...

if the father and mother decide to dump the kid in shopping mall?

1 years old..who can recognice....IC also dun have....

u think polis will advertise in newspaper?

Sigh. Hijack this thread all you like. I'm fed up already. If anyone has anything constructive to say, PM me. Otherwise I'm done. I won't be reading this thread anymore. Pray for me, my fiancee and my unborn child. Hopefull we come to a good conclusion.

As a side note that I find very amusing, the doctor put the child's estimated date of birth at 19/11. I find it amusing that there's a 911 in the child's estimated birthday.

hey guys, a lot of you are campaigning for the life of the baby yeah?
most of you are being so unrealistic. you are aware that we're a consumer culture here right? everything costs money. TS needs a home to live in, so don't give him rubbish like abandoning the house for the sake of the baby. property prices will continually increase and so will the cost of living. unless you're committed to giving your baby the best of everything, including being able to support his/her medical healthcare/education/emergencies without having to resort to borrowing from friends/family/public welfare, you're thinking only about giving your baby a mediocre, substandard life. what if you never have a better job? what if you can't afford to buy a home later? and when rental costs rise and you are evicted, do you want your child to worry about getting displaced? don't think with your hearts. don't rely on your parents. you're an adult already, so settle it yourselves. the way your parents did when they had you. use your head. misfortune and accidents will happen. you're comfortably sitting in your air conditioned room, so you can play god. by god, if the same thing happened to you, i hope you guys are able to practice what you preach.

so, u want it on olympic day kah?

Oh.... Maybe u are right. Dump the 1yr kid in shopping mall.
Sorry.. i 100% won't do that.
Ok... u can try it.

I believed its preaching was what you meant, if im not mistaken.

Am a Christian myself but i still insist the pope regards towards the condom issue isn't apparent towards the the effectiveness of spreading lust. Condom does reduce the risk of any sexual intercourse effects or 'damages'. Combine it with spiritual healing or some sort, the effectiveness is much stronger than a condom or spiritual sense alone. Which is why i don't understand why the pope didn't take a serious note on this and understand how people thinks. Maybe he believed condom is the inducement for more sexual activities. Maybe. But that doesn't mean he is allow to forgone the benefits from it. Even Pope makes error which is why i never believed he is the mouth of God.

P.S : And btw, i don't really believe a higher rank Christian earns the right of heaven just because he is higher in the Christian hierarchy or should i say 'monarchy' sometimes. Thanks for his prayers and my gratitudes to him, but the Bible pointed out that deeds matter the most and its more profound than how many times a person go to the Church for the sake of repent or retribution.

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Added on March 24, 2009, 10:49 amAll the best.

This post has been edited by peinsama: Mar 24 2009, 10:50 AM

If anything, I think this is the worst place to ask for advice, judging from all the replies here. Some of you are worse than vultures. Geez. *brrr*

Anyway, I gave the numbers some thought, and perhaps one of the things you could do is to give up the new house. You have about 7-8 months to find a buyer for the house. That will help to ease up on the monthly commitments. You can continue to live in rented property for a little longer. My family was living in a rented house for about 4-5 years before we got our own place.

As long as you're willing to make some changes to the financial side of things, you will certainly be able to keep the baby.

All the best. Really.

So u want to retain pride than the life of a baby. Good for you and good luck.

dun be emotional.....stay back the my point of question..no one know the future....if the father and mother dont want the kid...anything also can happen....

my question for u is..rumah anak yatim wont accept kids with father and mother.....u said that......my answer is....THEY ACCEPT coz some kids dont even know who is their father and mother


and if the father and mother want the kid....then it will be the best

Err....I think u really misunderstand me, pls read ma previous post first. I only use the "Pope disagreed with condom" as example only. And only thought of them as representative of higher up NOT god themselves. So they can sometimes be wrong.

Looks like you're ready to have this child.
All the best to you if that's the case.