I have realized that when the partner wanted to break up, and they are not saying it because of throwing a tantrum, he/she has already made up their mind a few months before. So in fact, they have had months to think it over thoroughly. During those months, if you are unable to pick up the signals and start to have talks over it, when he/she threw you the bomb, normally it's over.

To you, it is out of the blue. To them, the decision is quite clear, all they need to do is get over the guilt, that's all.

This is really true. It happened to me when my ex told me that. I'm quite sure when a guy makes a decision, they already planned it ahead.

I realised guys can move on easily compared to girls. My ex took a week to leave the past behind. Sometimes I wonder, is it really easy to wash away 3 years of relationship (in my case) just like that?

The most terrible thing he did to me was hiding a relationship that he had after me. Until today I don't know if he started off with her during or after we broke up.

To be honest, I still love him now but whenever I think of that incident I feel disgusted and angry. I just couldn't forgive him for that.

It does hurt, but life still goes on. I believe if we are meant to be together, we will someday.

This is really true. It happened to me when my ex told me that. I'm quite sure when a guy makes a decision, they already planned it ahead.

I realised guys can move on easily compared to girls. My ex took a week to leave the past behind. Sometimes I wonder, is it really easy to wash away 3 years of relationship (in my case) just like that?

The most terrible thing he did to me was hiding a relationship that he had after me. Until today I don't know if he started off with her during or after we broke up.

To be honest, I still love him now but whenever I think of that incident I feel disgusted and angry. I just couldn't forgive him for that.

It does hurt, but life still goes on. I believe if we are meant to be together, we will someday.

reading the last pages felt that our feelings are all the same...it's like oh...u read wat am i thinking.... those words are easy to say...but its really really hard to do...soemtiems emotional gets over u.. i really hope to get over it as soon as possible..i even pray for it.. it is really not a good feeling to have...i feel like puking or no appetite whenever i thought of it... congratz to those who has already move on....

im saD ...

I don't know why, but I still think back of the past a lot. At times, it would just happen randomly, eg. looking at something, while reading a book etc. And it has been so many months! Sometimes I really wish I have short term memory loss, forget about those past memories..

I don't know why, but I still think back of the past a lot. At times, it would just happen randomly, eg. looking at something, while reading a book etc. And it has been so many months! Sometimes I really wish I have short term memory loss, forget about those past memories..

Well, these memories are here to stay. Like it or not, we'll face it. Even till now, some memories of mind regarding her still creeps back randomly as well. But, we just gotta cope with it, don't let it bother us too much. Cheer up!

Yup, I do have some flashback at times too. Whenever there's this same word comes out, it will immediately remind me of the past. You should remember one thing, you are not dwelling in that anymore, but rather just some memories that reminds you whether you like it or not as suffaxile said. At the end of the day, just deal with it and continue with our life.

Haha, yea, but sometimes when I have these flashback of the past, I feel kinda emo, mostly those happy memories. I don't know whether this is a sign that I have not move on yet, though I'm trying to, since I know it is kinda impossible between us already.

Flashbacks are normal. After all, for a while you were happy with that person. Happy memories will always remain with you, regardless if it was with your ex, your dad or even your childhood friends. What is important is you realise that new memories are there to be made, and that you should not live your life in the past.

Well, same here. But I try not to let it bother me too much, and when I thought of those sweet memories, I just remind myself I've already emo-ed enough and those shall remain only a small parcel in my memories. Life goes on.

Well, same here. But I try not to let it bother me too much, and when I thought of those sweet memories, I just remind myself I've already emo-ed enough and those shall remain only a small parcel in my memories. Life goes on.

Flashbacks are normal. After all, for a while you were happy with that person. Happy memories will always remain with you, regardless if it was with your ex, your dad or even your childhood friends. What is important is you realise that new memories are there to be made, and that you should not live your life in the past.