but but masa kong kit sedak bes sedak tak complaint

yeah nobody has offered a reason to have kids that isn't selfish

No one will send u off during the funerals plus no heirs to carry your photo during the final funeral car send off…

All came can clearly see ur bloodline ends here…

Some said only with kids laughter that is a home, else it’s just a house..

This post has been edited by swanlover: Apr 24 2024, 04:04 PM

Said this multiple times, everyone membiak for selfish reasons.

We got a simpleton here. Lmao.

Lmao so selfish

Maybe yall shud ask yourselves, would you have kids NOW....

In the present climate.

Things have changed a lot.

This post has been edited by Hobbez: Apr 24 2024, 04:10 PM

well these kinda ppl most likely regret on most of the things in their life. regret never pursue in ___ colleague.. regret buy first car after getting first job. regret no buy house early and list go on.

in the end, if they don't have children. when they got older and see ppl with children.... then, regret no have children when younger.

This post has been edited by brkli: Apr 24 2024, 04:11 PM

actually the article mostly talk about people who HAD children, and regretting it

i regret not making enough to improve my son's quality of life

i should try harder before getting him since that time can put more commitment to work

See stories below, berlambak cases:

https://www.reddit.com/r/regretfulparents/

how to generalise the whole thing in 1 theory? case by case la

u b40 u regret is sure la, as u regret in almost everything in your life
is vincent tan's father regreting having son?

Yeah I'm at your phase now but I got totally no babysitter.

good points. do you have kids of your own?

Spread ur seed wisely

yes. of course, if they didn't have. how do they regret it. if they didn't buy proton x70, how do they regret it.. owai..

most ppl who regret this and regret that. it is in their "nature". how also they find a way to regret something due to whatever reason..

Same. I only have one son and he's a precious gemstone to me.

I dunno man

Many folks that purposely dont have kids don’t regret that decision, i’ve yet encountered any. hksgmy is one

On the other hand, i know some that do have kids having regrets

for my case; because my family is chairman of some temple

deity/shaman over there told me got child spirit following me and asked me ready to have kid? (that time we just married but not aggressively to have kid yet)

then i just "tell" the child spirit if you want me to be your daddy; then let's do that?

3 to 4 months later my waifu pregnant

if thats the "answer" that u want?


maybe u can seek clarification from your sperm before pancut dalam?



but of course ..if u plan to have kid ..you need to be ready to accept on sacrificing your freedom or existing lifestyle ..which is same like if you plan to kahwin ..u need to ready to have someone nag u till u die or she die first

This post has been edited by fantasy1989: Apr 24 2024, 04:35 PM

My son was an accident and this is coming from a couple that die die don't wanna have a child (we got a little carried away during the covid lock downs, and we were married for a year) and I remember that night she telling me I'm pregnant and I gave it a long thought and asked should we abort? She said no.

My boy is 3 now and I wouldn't trade anything in the world for him and he's been a gem in everyone's life.

On the other spectrum, my two friends married. Wanted to have kids. Got one daughter and the father and mom are using her to prop their ego up and constantly tries to compare their daughter to my son. And I can say their marriage has been toxic since the birth of their child.

Two different spectrums on either side. Nt everyone is the same