Regret only if they were forced to be parents at the wrong time. Parenthood is not for everyone.

humans are destined to go extinct lol

99.99 of all species on this planet went extinct.

What makes you think humans are any special?

If every human beings were successfully passing the life tests, they wouldnt need to reincarnate back to the life. Cause the debts already resolved

people want the children but without the responsibility that comes with it....and also having too much children they cant afford

New world Order

Kekwa
Conveniently forgetting about other abrahamic believers that also easily obey authorities. Provided you know its structure.

having children is hard nowadays due to our work/social life and expectations for the children and the stress brought about in order to have the perfect family.

back in the days when everyone is poor, everyone make babies like crazy

back in the days parents have to fight off barbarian hordes and bandits

covid pandemic was the test...to see if sheeps will easily obey authorities....and it pass with flying colour's from what I hear from my sources. Anyway I arldy start preparing for things that are about to come.

that's why i always tell my parents for making the wrong choice when they are young, else they would be staying in bigger house with better European cars

but no worries, i told them i have bought insurance and epf to cover for them, just pray that i die earlier than them, everyone wins

no ragrets

not an easy feat and i wish you well

not sure why the adopting processes here can be considered strenuous and tedious
to the point some have opted numerous other ......."somewhat illegal" ways

Nobody luv parenthood and nannying kids as these are utmost tasks…

But eventually u will find great happiness in it. Those tarak anak will never understand …

Got married ..
Wife ask want to have kids or not ..
I say you choose I will support your decision ..

Had one .. for now .. still WIP on 2nd
Happy got kids since its part of life

Then got a close uncle pass away ..
I help out and found out do old style ceremony ..

Got walk bridge , got sand dragon , got breath fire ..

Then understand what means " No son to send you off when you die "
It's for the walk bridge ceremony

I have kids, and i dont regret having them whatsoever. BUT if i can reverse back in time, I would tell younger self that it is not as you'd think.

I love my kids, and i'd do anything to make sure they are happy, safe and well taken care of. I am near to a point that ALL i do are for the benefit of my kids. I do enjoy the little things, but just little things now. I could never do what i usually do back then, travel when i have the money, because now the money will be used for them.

Im not complaining/regretting that, it is my NEW joy in life, but i am not the same person as i was before i have them.

So to those parents who are really trying to get children, they are the most wonderful beings in the world. They are the best.

To those parents who dont want to have kids, GOOD FOR YOU. Enjoy your life, you will never get it again if you have kids.

Then let me ask you.
During the baby years, how did you manage?
Honestly.
By you and wife, OR u have maid/nanny?

If maid/nanny then that's why you don't mind having kids. So easy everything let go.
Change nappy wash shit do laundry every day. Until you only have 1 or 2 hours me time at night.

1 year old son here, and learning to be like you. Every day I only have like 1 or max 2 hours me time for my games. That also fall asleep halfway through gaming coz of tired due to whole day work and chores.
Plus I don't have nanny or maid.
Sometimes I do miss my maid.

Doable if not married. I don't recommend uprooting for the most part once you already have the kids...

We have a daytime babysitter back then when my children were babies until 5 years old. Daytime she jaga, nighttime we jaga. So, yeah , went through all that diaper changing, milk feeding at midnight and dawn phase.

Then when kindergarten time, even kindergarten nowadays have after school jaga hours where they feed and bathe the kids until we pick up in the evening.

Then when they go to primary school, after classes got tuition centre to fetch from school and bathe, feed, do homework with them until we fetch in the evening.

And before you know it, they have grown up and are independent enough. Less headache already.