My son was an accident and this is coming from a couple that die die don't wanna have a child (we got a little carried away during the covid lock downs, and we were married for a year) and I remember that night she telling me I'm pregnant and I gave it a long thought and asked should we abort? She said no.

My boy is 3 now and I wouldn't trade anything in the world for him and he's been a gem in everyone's life.

On the other spectrum, my two friends married. Wanted to have kids. Got one daughter and the father and mom are using her to prop their ego up and constantly tries to compare their daughter to my son. And I can say their marriage has been toxic since the birth of their child.

Two different spectrums on either side. Nt everyone is the same