not 100% true, some bother you till the grave

Depending on your POV it will either get better or worse

After off diaper you got to potty train and train to sleep without diapers

Then their early education

Then put up with their talk back and attitude

Then their schooling and all the associated problems from

Teen years dont know yet as my eldest still in primary, youngest in preschool

But when they are schooling they have start to develop a fixed schedule so for me can plan around their schedule. Including your gaming and other hobbies.

This post has been edited by 9m2w: Apr 24 2024, 02:17 PM

getting used to it or suppressing their emotional wants probably
or just dgaf

I commend those type of parents, clearly their kids have done well and as parents they dont expect anything in return

The type of parents I find toxic are those that keep using the 'I gave you life and raised you' card

In order to be objective, why not survey childless couple whether they would like to have a child

but why? in my first post already gave some statistics

no matter what there will be some that regret and some don't

I dont regret having kids but ill wait a long while until i have more.

its like century ride and full marathon, register dulu baru ragrets. I remember i do the hardest marathong 42km first, then 21km 10km kacang putih

This post has been edited by keyibukeyi: Apr 24 2024, 03:00 PM

There is a old saying

there is only 2 functions that you will be able to meet all the available relatives, family members and friends. Wedding and funeral wake. Even CNY also some relatives are missing . That's life I guess.

kid or no kid stop living life with regrets

some things come and go

move on

if so proud of the kid living abroad

move in with the kid living abroad lah

This post has been edited by Raddus: Apr 24 2024, 03:27 PM

Yeah I'd hold on to the part that says butthurt people make more noise than happy ones and call it a day

So a child that was given life by their parents have the right to say I don't wish to be born, or what?

lol I'm laughing with all the reply here... clearly most of you don't have children on ur own

like sepoti bulu

funeral no people visit... that's a sad thing

We got better things in life to do rather than membiak.

Imagine how pathetic your life must be if the biggest achievement is to pancut dalam and push out a baby. That's sad yo

they never asked to be right?
u just bring them into this world with the purpose that they're your slave...and their responsibilities are to take care of you when they're old

and when they ask u 2 questions, u can't seem to answer them at all
1. why did you bring them to this world?
2. is this world a wonderful place to be in?

My son marching towards 5-6 months

if u ask me ..it's matter of choice

regret or not = no
tired or not = yes

so ..make sure u really financial + mentality ready before pancut dalam

of course you might say ..just "breed" them cheaply ..



just want to stress again ..everything is matter of choice ..

u mau anak u try ; u x mau then x payah just pakai condom or even just fap to yourself (so u dont even need to deal with gf or waifu hassle)


same "arguments" can be done on why need long term gf/waifu? why dont just piap prostitute if your goal is just fulfilling your needs?
why some couple need to get pet as companion to fill up their loneliness? waste money and when pet die u cry again (emotional damage)

This post has been edited by fantasy1989: Apr 24 2024, 04:05 PM

glancing through the comments here....certain people's life is really sad until they need to drag another helpless lives into their life

if that child is being brought into this life just so you don't feel lonely, just so someone inherit your last name, just so someone can take care of you when you're old, just so they can mourn at your funetal and just so there is someone there to bury you
thn i can say that's a sad life you got there, you may want to rethink the purpose of that child from the beginning because all along it's ALL ABOUT "YOU"...YOU YOU YOU!

some even goes as far as labelling that having a child equals to being W in life