Good piece, some highlights:

that why many bullshet, make child n throw it to grandparent

or hire full time maids, childcare or send to tahfiz

regret not having baby at old age or regret have a baby during young age?

which regret runs deeper?

Carl Schwab sponsored this piece ?

Life is hard, but life has a noble purpose.
But this is lost in the generation of social media and radical feminism. Why can't I have all the nice things my Instagram friend are having.

For me its nothing to regret about. It is fulfilling and it is purposeful. It is tough , yes but if you are the kind that gets satisfaction seeing tough work done, its worth it.

having the baby itself is already a regret
it's not a toy, they realized how bad it is after few months

those that think it through and through end up with pets instead

else end up like a thread yesterday...saying life is tough because his baby is coming up....without realizing it's a choice, not compulsory

This post has been edited by MR_alien: Apr 24 2024, 09:19 AM

I also felt that such regret is a temporary thing. I got friends who jumped into bandwagon of having kids because their peers had kids as well. Most regret during the initial years. But now like normal already. I guess it’s the hassle of taking care of small kids.

If regret, your fama shouldn't give birth to you too.

Mau regret apa? I’m very happy to see my daughter is now a pok-pok chui young woman, the stuff that /k salivates over, and my son entering his teenage years to become a handsome young man, much like his father.

spoilt brat trying to be parents of course failed la

what if the grandparent pressure their children for grand kids

justify right to throw it at grandparent.

Drillz for pok-pok chui daughter mana?

when u are young u regret having children...

when u are old.. u will regret not having children

Don’t want lah, otherwise may get targeted like raynman’s Kristie.

If she come Malaysia she will be happy. Parents here just let their kids grow like wild grass, got government to take care. Just corn kek buat anak tak perlu jaga.

i believe it depends on scenario, if it's the 1st baby you have after 5 - 8 years and thousands of tries, you wont have regret, bcoz you know how hard it is to get 1. if you marry late and conceive, some will have regret because you wont have sufficient energy to take care of the child, everyday you would be tired and if your spouse doesn't help, it make it worst. not to mention the freedom that you used to have are basically gone. if you share that freedom together with your child might turn the table, but some people enjoyed freedom alone or with their spouse but not with their child, by making it worst, they might find it potong stim and ruin their holiday/ relaxation. i'm not ashamed to say, my wife is one of them.

if marry too early also will have regret because you would loose out many things in life. Except you really bercita cita to give birth, take care and love your children for your rest of your life would be a different story.

probably age 27 to 31 to have children would be good imo.

I dont think ppl will have regrets hving kids....especially when at night u look at their beautiful eyes when they are sleeping...

Instead, after electing to be a stay-at-home mother, Robin found herself in what she calls “the domestic gulag,” a life that consisted of being “a chauffeur and an arranger and an appointment setter and a social secretary and a party planner and a chef and a meal planner and a budgeter” and “an emergency nurse and a night nurse and a psychologist and a confidant.”

What is wrong with that? That's call being a mother and taking care of another human being.

She prefers to party all the time instead?

Apa regret.

Man up, no need to regret. It is your choice, keep moving forward.

this statement alone already shows you're thinking from your POV and not the child's POV which most parents are