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swanlover
post Apr 24 2024, 11:24 AM

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Yeah, wasting money and stopping ur dream…try said that again when u have pass u prime at 50 and see u regret for not having kids or not ,lolx

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post Apr 24 2024, 01:20 PM

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Nobody luv parenthood and nannying kids as these are utmost tasks…

But eventually u will find great happiness in it. Those tarak anak will never understand …
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post Apr 24 2024, 04:03 PM

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No one will send u off during the funerals plus no heirs to carry your photo during the final funeral car send off…

All came can clearly see ur bloodline ends here…

Some said only with kids laughter that is a home, else it’s just a house..

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post Apr 24 2024, 04:57 PM

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Actually , got any parents here felt regret having their kids and still hating it??

Hardly came across anyone who hated their kids/new born…
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post Apr 24 2024, 05:36 PM

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Really foolish to tread kids as ‘investment’ and seeking ‘return’…

In bolehland, Shitty gaji , monthly new taxes intro, every month harga naik, housing price outta reach for newer gen..and u expect them to financial support u? Lolx .

Of course if they make it then treat it as bonus..
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post Apr 25 2024, 10:44 AM

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Wait until one reach 45-50+ u will understand what’s like without kids…lolx.
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post Apr 25 2024, 12:19 PM

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QUOTE(homicidal85 @ Apr 25 2024, 12:07 PM)
the new generation feel like their purpose in life is to be comfortable and live a life of luxury.
previous generations understood that their purpose is to provide for the future generation. so missing out on a luxurious life in order to provide for children was the norm. unfortunately, those kids grew up spoiled and now they feel like they deserve pampering till they die.
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Newer Gen are 1000x more selfish compared to older…

Hence, ‘wtf do I need to sacrifice for this shit?’ 24/7 in their mind…lolx

Honestly, if find it too expensive to raise a kid at least ada Satu biji la..lolx

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post Apr 26 2024, 08:06 AM

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Only troublesome first few years, once the kids learn to manage themself then it’s superfun to the family..lolx

Most MNC ain’t gonna give u certain higher posts unless u got proper fam or kids..
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post Apr 27 2024, 10:04 AM

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Those unmarried or no kids will have a very very sad and miserable life when aging..don’t even need to be really old to feel this too..

Additionally, u gonna feel sorry for your parents too (when young won’t give a fxck..)

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post Apr 27 2024, 10:18 AM

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QUOTE(ameliorate @ Apr 27 2024, 10:06 AM)
To clarify, she was the one who complained to me nobody wants to go with her. She is lonely.

Forever alone can only last so long. You will be miserable after a while, of course you can hide it but we know.
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Life without love or home is pretty sad..
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post Apr 27 2024, 02:03 PM

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Young ain’t give a shit and thinking it’s a cool thing not to have kids , burden like shit…

Wait til they sick or injured …too late already..lolx.

 

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