I'm almost 40
Freedom.. past relationships/GFs hurting me so much, mentally ill because of it.

Until I can find someone that truly understand me (don't care the look), my hobbies, etc etc, let it be like this. it's great to be single. I'd rather die single than go through that pain again

That doesnt mean you're alpha
you're just mgtow

LoL, I'm still looking, who knows got girl ngam one and try again

find a 27-33 year old woman, thats my estimation

Edit : Thats enough for today

This post has been edited by ChaosXP: Feb 17 2021, 12:59 AM

Why edit after typed out?

Watching too much drama, porn, influencer youtube, tiktok over long time is a problem contributing to increasing nos of people becoming single as they aged. The expectation between guy and girl become super high due to those unrealistic scene. Big boobs, perfect body and face, super romantic, unrealistic lifestyle etc. Internet is making it so easy to access those materials and is changing the subconcious mind of alot of peoples. This so called problem is going to get worst...

https://worldofbuzz.com/japan-appoints-mini...-suicide-cases/

This post has been edited by Singh_Kalan: Feb 20 2021, 12:48 AM

For some reasons, influencers are given louder voice (as in most of the time, stupid people), they speak louder and can be heard more by people compared to pre-instagram era. many people cannot choose wisely and cannot choose who should be their role model. so if influencer A who is promoting plastic surgeries are very popular now, most people follow only and many will think girls should look like that influencer A.

happens the same towards men as well. girls see the sample of "this is how a man should look like" and so they keep that in their mind, unconsciously just making them prefer the men that looks like those that appear in their instagram

ever think why would the designer of Instagram think its important to highlight how many followers a person have?

Stop watching unrealistic drama, porn, influencer tok tok, Instagram.

Nobody choose to be single given a choice. We are social being by default. The default is being change by the media particularly the Internet.

Trying to limit my postings per week haha

thats kinda like doing smth that goes nowhere.

Ladies - out of shape not pretty
Men - no money out of shape

Me thinks shape quite important

i think its important too.
but some ppl think physical shape is not a problem at all..

the price of urbanhood i guess

while the rejected whites come stealing all the asian pu55ie

have yet 2 see more asian man with white girl unlike the vice versa



This post has been edited by skylinelover: Mar 22 2021, 09:27 PM

I'm in my early 40s, not married but have a GF, she's in her early 30s. I think we are ok the way we are and never thought of getting married. I'm working in Shanghai and she followed me and now she found a job as an ID in Shanghai.

I think now marriage is a very brittle institution, I've had friends who married 3 times and then finally learn to be smart after 3 divorces and stayed as partners for the 4th time. I've also had a colleague that has a wife in 3 different countries that he worked in (how he manage that I don't know...please don't ask)

Most important thing is, know what you want in life and don't let others dictate how you should live yours. I've had a few chances to get married when I was younger, but just decided against it. I don't come from a broken family, my mom and pops are still around and they are happily enjoying their retirement.

In my previous company, i had that same question when there are 3 sister that are over 30s still stay single. They are nice, they are financial independent, confident, humorous, ... I don't know why, I think because they learn how to survive indepentdent so they don't bother if alone. And maybe man prefer younger girl, always better to date a young girl who will likely to agree with them instead of questioning or having fight. Well,
My brother married his fisrt love, but its sad they are now separated after 1 year, i hate his wife she disrespect my family, but i feel sad for my bro. Btw, there are so many old ladies around me still unmarried and many divorced case, like.. i always thought that people who married are always happy, they found love and happy ending but , because marriage is biggest deal so maybe people tend to stay safe rather than take a risky chance that last long for life

Marriage life is not for everyone

Might be my personal bias or anecdotal, but I find that girls are more tolerant of face problem than guys are. Of course there are cases on both sides that accepts / rejects, but in general, girls seem more ok with it.

Of course, this is less true on dating apps.

It seems true to me... I will not compromise...

Let me tell you why some people who are old who are still single.

It's simple, they've made the choice to stay like that.
I'm for one falls under that category, i chose the option to stay single to prevent future headaches and problems.