Getting comfortable (selfisolation) is not being socially confident. Thats being avoidant to reality.

That doesnt mean you're alpha
you're just mgtow

find a 27-33 year old woman, thats my estimation

Get money and revenge by sleeping with a hot 22 year old, bulky young guy lol

rm10k is a minimum wage for any single person to consider getting married these days. Financial problem adds stress onto your relationship. Women value it too much that they begins to manipulate these guys and treat them like a doormat lol.

instagram or tinder has made things worse
also a lot of females are not in forum, this is an old school people place
so you may have more 30s women

it's the hardwork that keeps your happiness, not the monetary value itself.
let's imagine a gambler life, he made rm300 to rm30.000 in short run, but what has he learned? NOTHING.
as a man. its the struggles and the comeback makes it exciting.

a lot of times, it's money issue.
if got money, it's too much choices issue.
it will swing either to the both extreme, from the surface.

you can't be making less than rm10k as a single, msia guy to form a family, if you want to live a stress-free, interesting lifestyles. Your wife wants to be stress free of financial issue so that she cannot hold grudges against you esp reviving the bedroom fun, and also they cannot feel bored, otherwise they will start looking somewhere else.

if you buy big houses, flash sport cars, its intended to attract the highest quality stock possible aka those instagram thots you see there. Its up to someone whether they want to live modest life banging HB6 or 7 and ultimately forming a family.

unless you've banged the real HB9 or 10, then you can come to your conclusion. I bet hell lots of guys have never seen or slept with true beauty outside of msia. I think every guys have to strive harder once they tried, then they may choose to come to your conclusion.

If not, it could be another excuse.

A rich guy says, 'money doesn't matter that much to happiness.'
how could you realize that truth if you've never been rich before?
Old sayings

This post has been edited by -mystery-: May 13 2021, 02:44 PM

Its likely you havent improved yourself much or she doesn't have same interest with you that qualifies for LTR. You knew there are some girls who are just suitable for short fun.

women need to lock down a guy as soon as possible
there's a classic saying why women will still prefer to choose a mate who's 5-7 years older than her. Even stephen chow tried to woo an 18 year old model, recently.

We enjoy our struggles, and reap it after decades of hardwork (hopefully)
women have to capitalize on their beauty, primarily.

i got a friend just got out of 5-10 years of relationship recently,
she is ''playing the field'' in her mid 30s, enjoying life.

most people are not rushing to find a permanent partner, let's be honest
esp if they're self sufficient making money.

being single has its good moment

when your income increases, naturally your social circle will have more quality people. There's really no need for a guy to rush for settling down.

find a hot girl is easier, but find a girl who's not bad looking and being empathetic/helping you reach your goal(s) is very hard, welcome to modern era that amplified hypergamy.

If you really wanted to settle down, you don't need to be the best looking/wealthiest person on the planet. Just ensure the following:-

-look/fitness
-money/status
-game/influence

to be at around 70% OVERALL(3 AREAS), competitively advantageous.
you don't need to be almost 100% in just ''one'' area, in fact if you only best at something, most people will find you weirdo.