Not only from kopitiam la
Lowyat forum quite huge

Same.. in fact, i think my single life ain't that faraway from now

instagram or tinder has made things worse
also a lot of females are not in forum, this is an old school people place
so you may have more 30s women

Pintu Bill also single now

it's the hardwork that keeps your happiness, not the monetary value itself.
let's imagine a gambler life, he made rm300 to rm30.000 in short run, but what has he learned? NOTHING.
as a man. its the struggles and the comeback makes it exciting.

Hang in there......lol

I should ask back to the TS, why marriage is compulsory in this world? Even Bill Gates also getting divorced.

You sounded sour with your current marriage life. Mind sharing?

Being sociable doesn't make your life complete and motivate you when you're lonely.

When your parents are no longer around one day, friends all occupied by their own families maybe already playing with their grandchildren what will you do when you're a lone bachelor by yourself? Your friends are not going to keep you company when you eat on the dining table everyday.

At some point of your life you'll start asking, why I should work hard to earn all these money?When I die who is going to inherit all my work?

Live on earth as just a passer. Donate to charity and die wasted? Had you thought about these points?

Thus it is said that a married man is motivated and focused at his work to build a career for his own family.

On the other hand, the bachelor man is directionless without a purpose as all his hard worked and wealth he built is wasted as soon as he passes away. If you see a dead end in front of you, you still want to continue to head towards it?

All the billions Bill earned through his hard work and effort will all be given back one day when he dies.

This makes the public HIGHLY curious what was his role all these while? Was he just a caretaker of the asset just as Jack Ma?

By right all people who worked very hard to build up their businesses/empires will always want a descendant. If not all his whole's life efforts will be wasted.

Single life is so freedom.......

- No nagging
- No pressure
- No worry pregnant shotgun
- No thin wallet
- No expense

Hahahahaha....... Hear too many story from piblic of their failure marriage.....

Used to think that way in 20s carefree life, always thick wallet, no strings attached mentality.

But once you're already in mid 30s above, you'll start rethinking your purpose in life when you're a loner while all your friends are already preoccupied with families with children growing up going to school.

You'll also wage earning career has also reached it peak when lifelong employment no longer exist today.

Your boss only prioritize married staffs when it comes to promotions and pay rise. When they see bachelors like you without commitments, you'll be place as high up on the retrenchment list despite how good you perform to cut operation costs.

40s onwards don't say you can forget about starting families and have children already after this. High risk for pregnancy. You want to donate all your assets and properties to outsiders when you die?

in my opinion
if forever single is like no purpose in life for me. that is why i don't like to be single forever also.
its kind of like how i see work. If i have all the money but i am not working at all (either as employee or a boss), yes its nice but i feel like im just living, past day to day, and just waiting for my death.
i feel like life should not be too calculative. yes maybe if im single forever i never lose money, probably never hurt by anyone but then my life is blank. so gotta lose some to gain some

I'm not sour by any means and have lived a very fulfilling life. For as long as I can remember, I haven't been single for more than few months for the last 20 odd years of my dating life so I had......a good time. ......Let's say..apart from having children, I've been there done that.

I don't really need people around me all the time, apart from friends, I have things to keep me occupied that does not need the company of another human being; hence, the part where I need people to grow old with is not a requirement for me.

As for motivation, I'm going places in my career, i separate my private life from my work as I believe it's good to draw the line so that you don't look back and regret that you spend more time on one instead of the other.....

It's true...if i choose to end up alone, all I have will be gone to waste but if I need to die by then, I really won't care where my $$ or property go to.......

Guess i think now i should start finding a god daughter...... So future my asset can give to god daughter....

Your previous post and your latest seemed to contradict each other. Why so fickle minded, sis?

First you say you prefer a single life, next you declared that you lived a fulfilling life with children.

A god daughter/son is still not your own flesh and bone. Unless you are so kind to donate all your life's hard work and gains to outsiders?

It doesnt matter cause money / asset not more usage to the dead but for future generation....

Whoever get it and use it for the best can already.....

Yes, eventually society has no place for bachelors who are work to live day by day without a purpose of family building. It is already happening in many regions such as Europe and Western countries where the old without families are a nuisance towards carbon footprint contribution.

Not to scare people but when these old people fall ill and admitted to the hospital, when they see no one comes visit you might just neglect you and slowly let you pass away. It's cruel way of euthanizing the lonely old folks.

It that what most people who chose to remain single wants only to regret when it's too late.

If you're a real wealthy person with all of your gains mostly acquired from ground-up through many struggles you wouldn't say that. You won't even want to share it with your relatives outside your nucleus family.

i used to be that kind of person want to single forever during my early 20s but nowadays I realize that's not what i want because i have advanced so much in my career, i can buy the things i used to want, i live in nice home. I am also living alone while still having few good frens, so technically nobody hurts me n I never really lose money because of anyone. Theoretically, i should be happy but im not.

im now single but its not wat i want. Dating is just difficult for a socially awkward person like me lol