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post Apr 7 2021, 10:16 AM

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QUOTE(Ari172 @ Apr 6 2021, 07:31 PM)
. They are nice, they are financial independent, confident, humorous, ... I don't know why, I think because they learn how to survive indepentdent so they don't bother if alone.
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Get money and revenge by sleeping with a hot 22 year old, bulky young guy lol
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post Apr 8 2021, 02:44 AM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Apr 7 2021, 10:16 AM)
Get money and revenge by sleeping with a hot 22 year old, bulky young guy lol
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What do u mean, What revenge? What sleep with a hot 22 year old? Oh hey, i think i have answer for the TS question:
- sis 1: confident, hard to please, a little bossy, Kpop crazy fan girl
- sis 2: standard look, like to criticize , enjoy life without love
-sis 3: too smart, noone can cheat her, rich, good looking, 33 and most man are younger
- sis 4: shy, ugly, too focus on working
- sis 5: romantic, fat, introrvert, dream abt her model and still waitting
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post Apr 11 2021, 03:02 AM

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Probably location is a factor... Like where I am now and where I used to grow up, those locations/cities/countries have a huge number of single and unmarried people. There's a "common mindset" by these people who have been living in these areas that the choice they have is not what they are looking for... So...it depends... Like if they have a job there, but not a lot of SO choices, but rather stay for job (read: financial security) then yeah they rather be single than have no spouse.
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rm10k is a minimum wage for any single person to consider getting married these days. Financial problem adds stress onto your relationship. Women value it too much that they begins to manipulate these guys and treat them like a doormat lol.
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post Apr 26 2021, 01:25 PM

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U think unker wanna be single?

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post Apr 26 2021, 01:34 PM

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QUOTE(beeMay @ Jan 2 2021, 09:17 PM)
as per title.

Sorry if this question is offensive/stupid but Im genuinely curious.

I met a lot of old people that are still single (never married) and just wonder why. their age is 40+, some i know are retired like 60+, theres one grandpa i met before too (idk his age, maybe 70+?) , i assumed he is a grandpa with grandchildren but actually hes single and never married.
I cant ask them cause they might get offended. so i ask here lol

i have 1 relative she is 40 and still looking but no luck. I personally think her personality is good, maybe physically not so attractive but ive seen uglier people and people with worse personality have husband/wife.

i dont get it, i thought theres a person for everyone?
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most of them were tired on having failed relationships, therefore they have no choice but to stay single, and no family for their family tree lines, no descendants for them...
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post Apr 26 2021, 02:32 PM

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QUOTE(Lyu @ Apr 26 2021, 01:25 PM)
U think unker wanna be single?
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well if its involuntary, what do you think may contribute to your single-ness?
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post Apr 26 2021, 02:34 PM

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QUOTE(beeMay @ Apr 26 2021, 02:32 PM)
well if its involuntary, what do you think may contribute to your single-ness?
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Less female frens... I think

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post Apr 26 2021, 07:34 PM

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QUOTE(Lyu @ Apr 26 2021, 02:34 PM)
Less female frens... I think
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have you try dating apps? or posting in Cupids corner classified?
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post Apr 26 2021, 08:42 PM

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QUOTE(beeMay @ Apr 26 2021, 07:34 PM)
have you try dating apps? or posting in Cupids corner classified?
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classified totally useless

also i noticed the male female ratio is severely imbalanced, the page is littered with male profiles

nah, better find in real life, meet real people
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post Apr 26 2021, 08:52 PM

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QUOTE(Sasuke95 @ Apr 26 2021, 08:42 PM)
classified totally useless

also i noticed the male female ratio is severely imbalanced, the page is littered with male profiles

nah, better find in real life, meet real people
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I noticed classified lady poster got many likes
Man none

N those man physical appearance stats kinda imba
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post Apr 26 2021, 09:35 PM

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QUOTE(Lyu @ Apr 26 2021, 08:52 PM)
I noticed classified lady poster got many likes
Man none

N those man physical appearance stats kinda imba
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thats why, as you can see, the ratio is severely imbalanced

when things are scarce, they're valued more, hence the likes, simple economics supply demand
men poster got no more value in classified, they're everywhere, majority looks like loser to me
and if there's girls in there, it's because they got nowhere to go, just like the men

most girl can easily get men attention if they're not ugly, doesnt even need to be pretty, and they wont be in classified

so yeah, it's a vicious cycle in there classified page, the same goes to dating app, in the early days of dating app they still work, now not anymore, littered with scams and unrealistic expectation

hmm, all in all, pretty much everything's doomed, live with it
only money can at least make you a little happier in this vicious cycle we live in
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post Apr 26 2021, 10:00 PM

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QUOTE(Sasuke95 @ Apr 26 2021, 09:35 PM)
thats why, as you can see, the ratio is severely imbalanced

when things are scarce, they're valued more, hence the likes, simple economics supply demand
men poster got no more value in classified, they're everywhere, majority looks like loser to me
and if there's girls in there, it's because they got nowhere to go, just like the men

most girl can easily get men attention if they're not ugly, doesnt even need to be pretty, and they wont be in classified

so yeah, it's a vicious cycle in there classified page, the same goes to dating app, in the early days of dating app they still work, now not anymore, littered with scams and unrealistic expectation

hmm, all in all, pretty much everything's doomed, live with it
only money can at least make you a little happier in this vicious cycle we live in
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We got some successful stories from /k couple
U a bit negative

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post Apr 26 2021, 10:27 PM

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post Apr 26 2021, 11:18 PM

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QUOTE(Sasuke95 @ Apr 26 2021, 09:35 PM)
thats why, as you can see, the ratio is severely imbalanced

when things are scarce, they're valued more, hence the likes, simple economics supply demand
men poster got no more value in classified, they're everywhere, majority looks like loser to me
and if there's girls in there, it's because they got nowhere to go, just like the men

most girl can easily get men attention if they're not ugly, doesnt even need to be pretty, and they wont be in classified

so yeah, it's a vicious cycle in there classified page, the same goes to dating app, in the early days of dating app they still work, now not anymore, littered with scams and unrealistic expectation

hmm, all in all, pretty much everything's doomed, live with it
only money can at least make you a little happier in this vicious cycle we live in
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Money can only buy you happiness up to some extent

Beyond that, you will start to feel hollow, emptiness inside, having no one to spend your money to

with money, you can buy hooker services, but after the session, what does that left you

Although I must admit that you need to achieve at least upper mid or early T20 to feel that emptiness, below that, survival is more crucial


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post Apr 27 2021, 03:14 AM

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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Apr 26 2021, 11:18 PM)
Money can only buy you happiness up to some extent

Beyond that, you will start to feel hollow, emptiness inside, having no one to spend your money to

with money, you can buy hooker services, but after the session, what does that left you

Although I must admit that you need to achieve at least upper mid or early T20 to feel that emptiness, below that, survival is more crucial
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That's why i emphasised "a little happier", it gives you what you want on the surface level, but deep down you know it isn't real, hooker service is one of the example you already pointed out.

Even if they're not hooker, ask yourself, if you're not rich today, will they be beside you now? Probably not. Show a perodua to a girl, the girl will disappear. The worst thing is no matter how good or bad you are, marriage is almost guaranteed to fail, divorce rate is sky high these days. Nothing matters anymore. There's nowhere to go.

My main job belongs to mid, but my side income is already T20, I'm already seeing what awaits me, and I'm embracing it, the emptiness. But hey, better than only sticking to one girl who eventually leaves you and steal half of your wealth right?

There's only greater evil (marriage) or lesser evil (hookup) , i chose the latter.
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post Apr 28 2021, 01:21 PM

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If I am ever single again, I'll choose to stay single....... lol
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QUOTE(pillage2001 @ Apr 28 2021, 01:21 PM)
If I am ever single again, I'll choose to stay single....... lol
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At some point of life when everyone's no longer with you then you'll learn to regret it.

Unker is one of these victim.
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post May 11 2021, 12:59 AM

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QUOTE(Candy12 @ May 10 2021, 11:16 PM)
At some point of life when everyone's no longer with you then you'll learn to regret it.

Unker is one of these victim.
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Maybe, being single is not the same as being a loner though. So if you're sociable to a certain point, you won't be lonely.
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post May 11 2021, 10:14 AM

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QUOTE(Sasuke95 @ Apr 26 2021, 08:42 PM)
classified totally useless

nah, better find in real life, meet real people
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Totally useless? laugh.gif

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