i'm new here... A daddy with 1+1(coming soon next month)

Wta nowadays sjkc school boys toilet is it invidual urine bowl or still like the cover on drain type?
My boy going std 1 next year, he'd had few occurrence of inflamation at private part due to not clean properly after urine. He's been discipline since as he was afraid of the circumcision doc suggested if keep reoccur, touch wood now no more recurrence.
Problem is, he is still taking his whole pants off to urine and clean with water. Come school time that'll be problem, where do he get water to clean the part? I recall 30 yrs back, my primary school has those drainage type urine where u literally stand on steel drainage cover to pee and no water source to clean the part.
I will start training him to just partially off his pants during urine rather than fully off. The cleaning or water is my query. Are there such a wet tissue design to clean boys penis, as an alternative for worst case scenario?

I think sjkc also depends on where is the school. Not all wiill have things like this. Perhaps wet tissues will be your best bet

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Hey guys I'm new here. I'm a father of two lovely boys (4yo,7mo).

I just got a job in sg and I plan to relocate my family to jb due to mother in law who stays in jb will help to take care of the kids.

My questions is what is the impact towards the kids(mentally) if I can only go visit them during weekend? What can I do and How can I do better? In terms of parenting.

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My daughter who is 5 years old this year cannot cope with me being away (I worked outstation and return home forthnightly for two days). The teacher put a remark in the report card stating Need more attention from parents. My wife busy working and taking care of 5 months old son. She always feel lonely. My mother-in-law and sister-in-law stay at my home. But the impact of my daughter is quite huge since I started this job, plus mco, the time spent with my daughter really limited, causing she seeks attention whenever I am home, be it throwing tanthrum, do not want to take dinner or etc.

Seeing the impact to my daughter, I tender my resignation to move back to my home. Currently serving notice. And yes, I resign without any job on hand, I still got enough saving. For me, I think it is not worth it to sacrifice my family for higher salary elsewhere.

From a father to another father i truly understand the decision that you've made is not easy, tbh its hard to be a perfect father and i believe you did all you can to become the perfect father that you've imagined. I wish you all the best on your job seeking endeavor and i really hope the next job you get is the perfect job for you and your family especially to your daughter.

Hi guys

Been married since feb 2019, we(well me actually) finally decided to want to have kids of our own.

hi all

i'm planning to have kids, what are some checklist for a father?

e.g.
- i read somewhere the wife gotta start consuming folic acid?
- how bout the bimonthly consultation etc? need to book?

Hi all, tq for sharing tips of fathers, appreciate it a lot!!

hei, is your wife pregnant? if she is, just visit the gynae your wife is comfortable or any gynae family/friends recommend

Hello there, What are your activities nowadays with your kids with the current covid situation. dah almost 2 years with this cov cov, I think that parents and kids alike going crazy ade.

What are your opinions on outdoor activities? Nak keluar takut kene cov cov, nak duduk rumah je, takut jadi gila

Open space field,parks. avoid crowded place je.

Saya balik kampung kat N Sembilan dan bawa budak-budak berbasikal kat kampung.

Go hiking which i take is the safest or cycling at botanical garden , wherever which is open space

Outdoor activities kat kampung is a good idea👍


Hiking for me difficult coz my waifu got skin condition.
Thats why for me outdoor activities also got limits.

Beach okay la i guess, but sure full of people right. Dilemma betul 🤣

Hi fathers (and soon to be fathers)!!
What do u think about covid vaccination for kids? Im ok with adult vaccination, but im worried about kids as not much info around.

Just take the jab, my 6 yo kid already taken the jab 2 weeks ago and she is the very last of few in her school. Teacher in kindergarten told us her classmate 90% already taken the jab. Next appointment appear in MySJ for 2nd dose is in April.

Just walk in to your nearest PPV center to take the jab. Quite numbers of kid in the PPV center while we take our kid there.

any side effects to be expected?
fever, sore arms etc?

my son not of age yet. he will be 5 in a few months.

My doter 13 this year, already taken 2 doses. Side effects after the jab was slight temperature