U dun have to buy alot of bb diapers, bb grow very fast. cloths too.

Have u get ready mummy's and bb's essential bag for her delivery?

Guys , will be expecting baby no 2 in December. Been looking at medical card coverage for the newborn , and most are coming to about rm250-300/month.

Coverage for medical , critical illness and life up till age 100. So far been looking at great eastern and AIA coverage.

Anyone here can give me your opinion ?

My first born has medical coverage till age 100 also with rm1million without lifetime limit but no  life or critical illness coverage. Paying around
Rm160 for this. But will need to increase the coverage for this too in the coming weeks.

I looking for insurance for my kid as well
But I feel like life insurance is not necessary as kid doesn’t has any mortgage yet

If only buy medical card only Do you think is okay ?

Any update bro? I’m still deciding.

hello.. r we supposed to expect more than 1??

Guys, any near mamipoko diapers grade that is cheaper? My newborn will turn reddish on his private part on Huggies diapers. Apple crumby also seems quite expensive.

You know those day care only replace his diapers once every 2 hour and my baby is a troll.

Apple crumby definitely good stuff but super expensive for me. I think I'll just stick to mamipoko airfit and Huggies Ultra (green) in the meantime.

Kasi chan la.. I'm young parent, not 20k earner lol.

Hello there, What are your activities nowadays with your kids with the current covid situation. dah almost 2 years with this cov cov, I think that parents and kids alike going crazy ade.

What are your opinions on outdoor activities? Nak keluar takut kene cov cov, nak duduk rumah je, takut jadi gila 

It is me again guys. I previously shared the challenges I was going through with my wife. And sadly, things are not much different this year. Personally I have ramped up my responsibilities in making sure I help out more with house work. However, sex is life is still non-existent. And to make it worse, she doesn't even touch me sexually, and there's absolutely no intimacy whatsoever. We do not have and deep conversations anymore. We are not going out. Nothing. No dirty talk, no jokes

And each time I ask her, she just has a defensive wall, citing tiredness, busy with work. I mean, who is not busy with work. And I do not intend to compare our workloads. Anyway, she does not initiate anything. I am actually very frustrated with all these, and I am not sure what else to. I have slowly began to understand what some men end up violating the marriage rule. We signed up for monogamy. But not for celibacy.

Our son is older now, and it is easier to manage him on our own. Although we are still sending him to the baby-sitter on the weekdays. Despite all these, she still has no mood for any husband and wife time. Next year, we will be sending our son to nursery. I can already forsee the other excuses that may come.

What should I do? Go to therapy and waste money? By the way, we're in our mid 30s, and our issues began right after having our son - only child, and wife does not want another one  

We've been together since we were teenagers. I can also confirm there's no adultery involved as both of us are working from home and hardly go out.

I really feel like I am going through some kinda of mental torture at the moment. There have been nights were I have cried to bed thinking about this. Like, why do I deserve this? It gets very lonely considering that she is the one person I love with all my heart. But deeply inside, I know I cannot live like this. I am getting older, and I do not wish to waste my life by not receiving any love from my spouse.  And the thought of separating is too painful because I do not wish to go through hell, and put my son through hell. He is too young, and innocent.

Any other dads out there who have been through this before? I will really appreciate if you guys could advise me. It's so lonely and I don't know who to talk to. I did try asking some female colleagues previously, without shedding much detail, and they just shoved it aside. Of course, siding a fellow woman. I am not sure if men even talk about this openly.

   

Replying to my own old account...cant retrieve back...

Now we are expecting our first boy...22 weeks now

been reading and getting good info from you guys....expecting my first....10 weeks d

but my wife been looking into confinement centers and they all kasi marketing talk etc etc.....must book this month ada promo 2k / 3k etc etc

i think i can wait out until 1-2 months before deciding which center is good.....what do you guys think??

Paternity leave is 7 days and maternity leave is 98 days starting this year?