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Jazzer00
post Jan 9 2022, 12:54 PM

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Hi all, tq for sharing tips of fathers, appreciate it a lot!!
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post Feb 8 2022, 03:37 AM

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Hello there, What are your activities nowadays with your kids with the current covid situation. dah almost 2 years with this cov cov, I think that parents and kids alike going crazy ade. biggrin.gif

What are your opinions on outdoor activities? Nak keluar takut kene cov cov, nak duduk rumah je, takut jadi gila bangwall.gif
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post Feb 25 2022, 05:12 PM

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QUOTE(random.heart @ Feb 24 2022, 11:34 PM)
Saya balik kampung kat N Sembilan dan bawa budak-budak berbasikal kat kampung.
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Outdoor activities kat kampung is a good idea👍


QUOTE(NautieWabbit @ Feb 25 2022, 04:02 PM)
Go hiking  which i  take is the safest or cycling at botanical garden , wherever which is open space
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Hiking for me difficult coz my waifu got skin condition.
Thats why for me outdoor activities also got limits.

Beach okay la i guess, but sure full of people right. Dilemma betul 🤣
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post Mar 15 2022, 11:52 AM

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My doter 13 this year, already taken 2 doses. Side effects after the jab was slight temperature
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post Jun 4 2022, 03:42 AM

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QUOTE(steevan1000 @ Jun 1 2022, 03:32 PM)
hi, i'm a single dad of 2
a boy 11y/o + a girl 8y/o
due to lack of time to educate them as i need to go for work
they have become very evil in heart
what should i do to make the change in their heart?
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QUOTE(steevan1000 @ Jun 3 2022, 09:27 AM)
as i'm a single dad, no wife around to help me with housechores & kids, i'm getting into late 30's
my earning less than 5k, everyday after work rush to tuition centre to fetch kids & reach home around 7.30pm
had to rush them settle everything & sleep by 10pm but most of the time actually get onto bed already 10.30pm
after dinner had to do some housechores & cleaning, also praying
every night sleep after 12.30am after done the laundry, wake up at 6am to rush them to school by 7.10am
monday & friday had to wake up 20 min earlier as they need be at school before 7am
previously i still manage to squeeze bit of time to workout at gym after work, but now had to stop gym as there's literally no free time after work
i hv lost interests in many things, cant find motivation in most things
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I think you are doing an excellent job as a single dad. back to your initial question, i think it is more of them becoming evil at heart?
I dunno what you mean by that so I cant give you any feedback because i dont understand the full picture.

I would sit them down and bash them up (kidding), but I do believe communication to tell them what they are doing wrong (you as a father to them) and what your children think?

vice versa, are they evil or acting evil because of something/? get their perspective, are they purposely doing that to put you off? i think once you can settle that evil thingy, i think it will be easier for you and them.

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post Jun 17 2022, 06:05 AM

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QUOTE(steevan1000 @ Jun 6 2022, 01:10 PM)
evil i meant here include
- lying to make people around to believe they are "good" boy/girl, believe they didnt do anything wrong
- incline to amuse self by inflict some kinds of suffer on others
- like the feeling of seeing others getting in fear of something horrible/scary
- invert black & white to put blame on others
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In my humble and honest opinion, lying is big no no for me, i usually give my ice cream example to prove a point, saying i bring out to baskin robbins/haegan daz, in the end if i buy paddle pop will it be the same, tell ur kids not syiok kan, something like x tepati jani kan because not fulfill promise to that person, how would tat person feel? felt like got lied to right. so when say or do anything must be honest, and then when cannot say or do the thing that was promised, at least will build up courage or character to not lie and tell the truth and apologize.

but of coz each parent their own as they will know their kids in and out, well, u r their parents kan. regarding the rest, my approach is usually to show them what they are actually doing and apply it to them as they can feel what they doing/how others will feel on themselves.

as for ur board game question, MONOPOLY, GAME OF LIFE, CLUEDO idk what else is there out there these days, monopoly deal the card game i find quite fun, and KK sells a way cheaper version than the hasbro 1.



 

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