hai yoo....... very pity we boys la born with the disire yet have to control it soo hard la....... hahaha girl very selfish also don wan to give............ j/k
Is sex really important?, What is your opinion??
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 Dec 12 2006, 11:05 AM
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Dec 12 2006, 11:29 AM
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QUOTE(lAh0S @ Dec 7 2006, 09:57 AM) Sex is important. QFTI think your friend hurted her fiancee feeling liao lar. What would a guy think when his fiancee denied him sex or tell him 'having sex with you is painful'. I dont think many guys like to hear that. How many guys or gal hit it right when they are both first timer? It takes probably 5 or more tries just to get comfortable position. It takes even longer to experience whats feel best. There's nothing that hurt a guy feeling more than being told you aint performing on bed. The best way to settle sex problem is by having sex. If your friend feel pain, must be lack of foreplay. Just use some lubricant lar or tell your friend to warm herself up first.  Very bad news to a guy when his wife to be don't get as much pleasure in bed as him. It kind of hurts his self-esteem, main reason why he refuses to touch her. This need some serious counseling in order to save their relationship and not by playing the blame game. |
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Dec 12 2006, 03:41 PM
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QUOTE(Lucifer_Light @ Dec 8 2006, 12:00 AM) Wait wait!!! You mean they are still staying together and the guy is ignoring her??!!! Wah... if I was the girl, I would have moved out early early lor if my BF treats me like this. I damn admire her for her love lor. That guy memang no use wan. "practically with him most of the time"It's been a day. Let's see how things turn out when our advices reach the ears of the girl involved. I hope they get things work out. If not, I have the urge to kill the guy. Oh... and I saw my post started some arguments on normality and abnormality. Lemme see. My BF, me, my other friends... they must be abnormal too because they also never have sex with their BF/GF. First of all, we are all Christians (it doesn't mean much to some ppl, but it is a big deal to me and my BF) and most of them, one live in UK and one live in Aussie wor... how ah? Should break up and go find some other girl ah? Sanook, any advice? As I said, God gave us hands. I just said that I never had sex with my BF yet... doesn't mean that he doesn't make love to his hands. I don't mind that, it is normal. And we remain chaste. Anything wrong with that? BTW, my three year post was suppose to proof a point that a relationship can grow without sex. Respect people, respect. Keep it for next time. Anticipation is half the fun anyway. And about my BF having an affair? I live with him and go to the same classes as him. I'm practically with him most of the time. So if he is having an affair, she must be a really invisible one. *Walks off singing Free Love, All we need is Free Love...* Ur bf is a god, not a human. I'll go very crazy if my gf do that to me. Really respect him. |
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Dec 12 2006, 03:48 PM
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QUOTE(sanook @ Dec 9 2006, 08:59 AM) haiya yourself. your original post comes with a totally different meaning than your current post. you are changing your tune now and what you are saying are in agreement with me now. what is there to argue. you change your tune and you still want to claim superiority by saying "simple thing like that you don;t understand"? Sanook.. girls change very fast one i tell you.. LoLGive them chance, they're still young, sooner in their life they will forget your "insults" and support ur idea without them knowing temselves. As for lucifer_light case.. i think the bf is a kiddo also.. LoL. never watch porn never talk porn and have very few sexy female friends. lucifer u should grab hold of him tightly and monitor him tightly as u did so far. Don't let your guard down! Your bf is facing extinction! Just my guess. No offense. |
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Dec 12 2006, 03:57 PM
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QUOTE(boyakasha1234 @ Dec 9 2006, 10:16 AM) you sounded just married on the 2nd month. well, keep up the spirit, wish you good luck too. Ppl watch too much korean drama.. cantonese drama.. taiwanese drama.. chinese drama... but not american drama.. LoL!No wonder so many woman facing problem with their hubby during their late 30s to 40s.. when they know the truth, too late liao.. Their so-called obedient, true love, caring, faithful husband turned to a neglective, irresponsible, dirty(?), betrayal black-hearted werewolf. Why is this happening? What went wrong? Because they ranked love as 1st priority, and others 2nd, 3rd, 4th.. so on.. Typical chinese style of thinking. Really have to wish you girls good luck. This post has been edited by kayone: Dec 12 2006, 03:57 PM |
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Dec 12 2006, 03:58 PM
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no sex
no me and you no apple and orange no chicken and duck no se7en and lyn |
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Dec 12 2006, 04:13 PM
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QUOTE(k8118k @ Dec 12 2006, 03:58 PM) no sex Lol, good one no me and you no apple and orange no chicken and duck no se7en and lyn  Agreed with him  |
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Dec 12 2006, 08:46 PM
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Haha... my bf facing extinction? No lar... I have a lot guy friends like that wan. I really don't get it why you guys don't get it. He watches porn, he does things other guys do. He wants to have sex. He just doesn't have sex because we both said no and to wait. It's pretty easy. All you need is faith and the will. But I guess most guys here lack the will and they think with their penis instead of their head. Wait, penis also got head, my mistake.
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Dec 12 2006, 10:36 PM
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QUOTE(Lucifer_Light @ Dec 12 2006, 08:46 PM) Haha... my bf facing extinction? No lar... I have a lot guy friends like that wan. I really don't get it why you guys don't get it. He watches porn, he does things other guys do. He wants to have sex. He just doesn't have sex because we both said no and to wait. It's pretty easy. All you need is faith and the will. But I guess most guys here lack the will and they think with their penis instead of their head. Wait, penis also got head, my mistake. U can monitor ur bf and at the sametime monitor a lot of guy friends? Gosh.. u must have own a satelite!Anyhow whatever we say here will be practically thoery. One's life experience is for him/her to taste. Just a friendly piece of advice for you not to trust ur boy too much. Sometimes the small head will conquer the big head, unless u chop it off. Woops, I forgot abt another option, foreplay but no intercourse. Can be satisfying too. However issit considered as sex?  This post has been edited by kayone: Dec 12 2006, 10:44 PM |
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Dec 13 2006, 12:24 AM
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relationship doesnt need sex sex doesnt need a relationship |
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Dec 13 2006, 12:24 AM
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QUOTE(Lucifer_Light @ Dec 12 2006, 08:46 PM) Haha... my bf facing extinction? No lar... I have a lot guy friends like that wan. I really don't get it why you guys don't get it. He watches porn, he does things other guys do. He wants to have sex. He just doesn't have sex because we both said no and to wait. It's pretty easy. All you need is faith and the will. But I guess most guys here lack the will and they think with their penis instead of their head. Wait, penis also got head, my mistake. What actually are you waiting for? Till marriage? Do you want to have baby after marriage? What happen if you find out that your bf can't perform? And can't get you pregnant? Is it still OK? I guess you might answer OK as i believe you are probably very young.Do you guys have any foreplay(kiss, rub)? Do you help him to tfk? ;-) Has he seen you naked? Has he petted your puppies? Sorry for all the questions.. just curious... |
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Dec 13 2006, 01:51 AM
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QUOTE(lainux @ Dec 13 2006, 12:24 AM) What actually are you waiting for? Till marriage? Do you want to have baby after marriage? What happen if you find out that your bf can't perform? And can't get you pregnant? Is it still OK? I guess you might answer OK as i believe you are probably very young. Dude, I doubt very much a guy who's educated, healthy, and exposed to porn(as most guys are) has problems getting his girlfriend/wife pregnant if they want to. So maybe the first couple of romps on bed won't lead to mind-shattering orgasms, but that will come with time, communication, and knowledge. Experience on bed is not a prerequisite to marriage. Mutual love, understanding and communication is.Do you guys have any foreplay(kiss, rub)? Do you help him to tfk? ;-) Has he seen you naked? Has he petted your puppies? Sorry for all the questions.. just curious... The thing is, for me, sex should only come in in matured relationships. And even then, it is not a MUST for the relationship to progress(I'm talking pre-marriage here). Even then, sex in itself, has to be properly defined. Does it include oral sex? Mutual masturbation? Heavy petting? Anything short of vaginal penetration? Different people have different perspectives of sex. Identify your own and other people's definition before lambasting each other. And please, keep the forums clean. No queries on details of other people's love life. |
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Dec 13 2006, 03:14 AM
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Still going on ah?
Hahaha, really energetic.. Anyway, sex only got one defination. Use common sense. Sex come in male and female. So in order to have sexual intercourse, male sex organ gotta penetrate female sex organ. That's sex. You take a hand and either male or female sex organ and called it sex? I called that self-relief. LOL. |
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Dec 13 2006, 03:37 AM
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want to have a child without sexual intercourse?
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Dec 13 2006, 05:33 AM
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QUOTE(Lucifer_Light @ Dec 12 2006, 08:46 PM) Haha... my bf facing extinction? No lar... I have a lot guy friends like that wan. I really don't get it why you guys don't get it. He watches porn, he does things other guys do. He wants to have sex. He just doesn't have sex because we both said no and to wait. It's pretty easy. All you need is faith and the will. But I guess most guys here lack the will and they think with their penis instead of their head. Wait, penis also got head, my mistake. He watches porn? He does things other guys do? He wants to have sex? and you dare to believe he waited all these times for you to say "yes" ? Malaysian girls are really truly madly deeply naive.  This post has been edited by sanook: Dec 13 2006, 05:34 AM |
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Dec 13 2006, 10:14 AM
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QUOTE(lAh0S @ Dec 13 2006, 03:14 AM) Anyway, sex only got one defination. Use common sense. Sex come in male and female. So in order to have sexual intercourse, male sex organ gotta penetrate female sex organ. That's sex. That's the clinical definition. What I'm talking about here are sexual acts on the whole. In other words, are non-penetrating sexual acts okay by your book in a relationship? You take a hand and either male or female sex organ and called it sex? I called that self-relief. LOL.  QUOTE(sanook @ Dec 13 2006, 05:33 AM) He watches porn? He does things other guys do? He wants to have sex? and you dare to believe he waited all these times for you to say "yes" ? Malaysian girls are really truly madly deeply naive. You make it sound as though every normal guy in a relationship out there is having sex, if not with their girlfriends, then it's behind their backs.  I seriously doubt that's the case man. |
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Dec 13 2006, 10:20 AM
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Sorry double post.
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Dec 13 2006, 10:23 AM
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QUOTE(sanook @ Dec 13 2006, 05:33 AM) He watches porn? He does things other guys do? He wants to have sex? and you dare to believe he waited all these times for you to say "yes" ? Malaysian girls are really truly madly deeply naive. QUOTE(sidewinder1009 @ Dec 13 2006, 10:14 AM) You make it sound as though every normal guy in a relationship out there is having sex, if not with their girlfriends, then it's behind their backs. Neah just ignore him.....SEX and f***ING is the only thing in his mind.... I seriously doubt that's the case man.He's so NORMAL that he thinks whoever doesnt have pre-marital sex is ABNORMAL.. |
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Dec 13 2006, 11:22 AM
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this thread..and many seeking for advice thread are very entertaining.
It is funny because when wacky-angel asked a question, and other kind soul posted their thoughts, it is not heard in a OPEN MINDED manner. The problem is advice that falls within the "acceptable tolerance" are heard. The rest, i assumed, will be ignored due to conflict with morality and other obvious reason. So, why bother asking for advice when you have already made up your mind about certain things. Advice are dispense by people that come from all walks of life. Standards of morality on this question should not be argued on the ground that sex is dirty or abstinence is the right thing to do. Think objectively. Do you want to solve the problem? Do you want my advice? Do you want others' opinion? Having to made judgement about other people AFTER advice had been dispense is just SO WRONG. Well, if you want to hear what you want to hear. I suggest, next time, advice should be seek from targetted audience. i.e. in this case, if you want supporters to side you in agreeing the fact that sex is not an issue in relationship, you should not condemn those who don't think this way. ..and to those who think sex is a part and parcel of relationship, be happy that you are getting some, leave those who are not getting any, alone. See, we can actually have a better world this way. Can't we? This post has been edited by gsuave: Dec 13 2006, 11:27 AM |
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 Dec 13 2006, 01:25 PM
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QUOTE(sidewinder1009) hat's the clinical definition. What I'm talking about here are sexual acts on the whole. In other words, are non-penetrating sexual acts okay by your book in a relationship? tat depends on the guy's level of self-control...   QUOTE(gsuave @ Dec 13 2006, 12:22 PM) » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «  not the type tat modern day ppl wanna hear/read... I think the TS is a bit lost and dunno how to end her relationship... a dillema... but those are good lectures though...  This post has been edited by t3chn0m4nc3r: Dec 13 2006, 01:30 PM |
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