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 Is sex really important?, What is your opinion??

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kayone
post Dec 12 2006, 03:41 PM

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QUOTE(Lucifer_Light @ Dec 8 2006, 12:00 AM)
Wait wait!!! You mean they are still staying together and the guy is ignoring her??!!! Wah... if I was the girl, I would have moved out early early lor if my BF treats me like this. I damn admire her for her love lor. That guy memang no use wan.

It's been a day. Let's see how things turn out when our advices reach the ears of the girl involved. I hope they get things work out. If not, I have the urge to kill the guy.

Oh... and I saw my post started some arguments on normality and abnormality. Lemme see. My BF, me, my other friends... they must be abnormal too because they also never have sex with their BF/GF. First of all, we are all Christians (it doesn't mean much to some ppl, but it is a big deal to me and my BF) and most of them, one live in UK and one live in Aussie wor... how ah? Should break up and go find some other girl ah? Sanook, any advice?

As I said, God gave us hands. I just said that I never had sex with my BF yet... doesn't mean that he doesn't make love to his hands. I don't mind that, it is normal. And we remain chaste. Anything wrong with that?

BTW, my three year post was suppose to proof a point that a relationship can grow without sex. Respect people, respect. Keep it for next time. Anticipation is half the fun anyway. And about my BF having an affair? I live with him and go to the same classes as him. I'm practically with him most of the time. So if he is having an affair, she must be a really invisible one.

*Walks off singing Free Love, All we need is Free Love...*
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"practically with him most of the time"
Ur bf is a god, not a human. I'll go very crazy if my gf do that to me.
Really respect him.
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post Dec 12 2006, 03:48 PM

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QUOTE(sanook @ Dec 9 2006, 08:59 AM)
haiya yourself. your original post comes with a totally different meaning than your current post. you are changing your tune now and what you are saying are in agreement with me now. what is there to argue. you change your tune and you still want to claim superiority by saying "simple thing like that you don;t understand"?
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Sanook.. girls change very fast one i tell you.. LoL
Give them chance, they're still young, sooner in their life they will forget your "insults" and support ur idea without them knowing temselves.
As for lucifer_light case.. i think the bf is a kiddo also.. LoL. never watch porn never talk porn and have very few sexy female friends. lucifer u should grab hold of him tightly and monitor him tightly as u did so far. Don't let your guard down! Your bf is facing extinction!
Just my guess. No offense.
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post Dec 12 2006, 03:57 PM

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QUOTE(boyakasha1234 @ Dec 9 2006, 10:16 AM)
you sounded just married on the 2nd month. well, keep up the spirit, wish you good luck too.
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Ppl watch too much korean drama.. cantonese drama.. taiwanese drama.. chinese drama... but not american drama.. LoL!
No wonder so many woman facing problem with their hubby during their late 30s to 40s.. when they know the truth, too late liao.. Their so-called obedient, true love, caring, faithful husband turned to a neglective, irresponsible, dirty(?), betrayal black-hearted werewolf.
Why is this happening? What went wrong?
Because they ranked love as 1st priority, and others 2nd, 3rd, 4th.. so on..
Typical chinese style of thinking.
Really have to wish you girls good luck.

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post Dec 12 2006, 10:36 PM

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QUOTE(Lucifer_Light @ Dec 12 2006, 08:46 PM)
Haha... my bf facing extinction? No lar... I have a lot guy friends like that wan. I really don't get it why you guys don't get it. He watches porn, he does things other guys do. He wants to have sex. He just doesn't have sex because we both said no and to wait. It's pretty easy. All you need is faith and the will. But I guess most guys here lack the will and they think with their penis instead of their head. Wait, penis also got head, my mistake.
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U can monitor ur bf and at the sametime monitor a lot of guy friends? Gosh.. u must have own a satelite!
Anyhow whatever we say here will be practically thoery. One's life experience is for him/her to taste. Just a friendly piece of advice for you not to trust ur boy too much. Sometimes the small head will conquer the big head, unless u chop it off. biggrin.gif

Woops, I forgot abt another option, foreplay but no intercourse. Can be satisfying too. However issit considered as sex? sweat.gif

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post Dec 13 2006, 09:54 PM

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Sanook is just giving a kind piece of advice to u all who really think "sex is not important", "marriage is commitment", "loves come first". As i said before, time will tell, u really have to be in it to understand what sanook said. What you see from other ppl is not always correct. If not just open the newspaper and u can see those murder case always quoted "he is a nice guy", "he is kind-hearted".
He meant the RELATIONSHIP is ABNORMAL, not the person. ABNORMAL means not normal, and normal or not normal is a standard.
I blif sanook is experienced enough to see many examples of ppl in their later stage of life. So he can concludes that relationship which u all think that it's "triggered by love", is not a healthy relationship. And if u insist that it's healthy, the relationship between u and ur partner is on the normal standard, and u should really take good care of it.
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post Dec 14 2006, 01:06 PM

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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Dec 14 2006, 11:24 AM)
Whats so ABNORMAL about 3years relationship without sex?
NONE OF THE ABOVE
Nive or abnormal arent judge by humans...
Who are u to judge? God ?

My book says pre-marital sex = adultry.
Sanook's book says pre-marital sex = fun, pleasure, etc etc etc

From my point of view, its wrong and i will try to advise others too..
From sanook's point of view, its complete NORMAL and a MUST HAVE and will advise others (despise others who dont follow)....

So my point is.....whatever u do wont affect me....
I do not need to sacrifice myself to make u listen to me.
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There's a loophole here.
Then how u judge that naive or abnormal arent judge by humans?
God sms u abt tat?
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post Dec 14 2006, 03:16 PM

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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Dec 14 2006, 02:02 PM)
I read book....and the book is widely distributed around the whole globe.
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And there's even more books to support sanook's saying. haha.
never ending argument.
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post Dec 14 2006, 03:43 PM

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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Dec 14 2006, 03:18 PM)
Book by the same author? and is sold/owned by millions of humans?
Like i've said.....
I dont need to argue and i wont lose anything...
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U can't just read only ONE book in ur whole life, can you?
If yes, then u are destined to be a father! Congrats!

Or

the author of the book is God.

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post Dec 14 2006, 11:53 PM

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SanosukeSagara... u are attracting some... er.... i can't tell it out here...
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