Dude, I doubt very much a guy who's educated, healthy, and exposed to porn(as most guys are) has problems getting his girlfriend/wife pregnant if they want to. So maybe the first couple of romps on bed won't lead to mind-shattering orgasms, but that will come with time, communication, and knowledge. Experience on bed is not a prerequisite to marriage. Mutual love, understanding and communication is.

The thing is, for me, sex should only come in in matured relationships. And even then, it is not a MUST for the relationship to progress(I'm talking pre-marriage here). Even then, sex in itself, has to be properly defined. Does it include oral sex? Mutual masturbation? Heavy petting? Anything short of vaginal penetration? Different people have different perspectives of sex. Identify your own and other people's definition before lambasting each other.

And please, keep the forums clean. No queries on details of other people's love life.

That's the clinical definition. What I'm talking about here are sexual acts on the whole. In other words, are non-penetrating sexual acts okay by your book in a relationship?
You make it sound as though every normal guy in a relationship out there is having sex, if not with their girlfriends, then it's behind their backs. I seriously doubt that's the case man.

Sorry double post.

This post has been edited by sidewinder1009: Dec 13 2006, 11:38 AM

I'm 20. And this 3-year sex thing started when you talked about Lucifer Light's boyfriend.

I did not suggest you are sex-crazed. I'd just like to point out that not every guy who's in a relationship for 3 years without having sex is out of their mind/fooling around/dumping his girlfriend. It's not fair to label guys who would wait as "abnormal". If sexual tension builds, there's always masturbation, instead of pressing for sex.

No hard feelings bro, I respect your opinions about this matter, although I may not agree with some of it. To each his own.