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 Is sex really important?, What is your opinion??

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Rusty Nail
post Dec 8 2006, 05:32 PM

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QUOTE(mercurye @ Dec 8 2006, 05:28 PM)
lets say your daughter is now 21years old and has a steady bf for 1 year and thinks they are both serious in the relationship. would you as a father / mother consent to it? what would be your thoughts if your daughter is not married and engaging in sexual activity? your opinions please.
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with or without consent it doesn't matter since 'my daughter' is already 21 therefor considered an adult who should be responsible for her own actions.
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post Dec 8 2006, 05:35 PM

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what can u do if they really involve in that activity ?
sex r just become a 'casual activity' for most of the couple nowadays..
to scold them rather than hav some time to educated them for safe sex.
smile.gif further more, 21 yr old is big enuf for u to let go ur hand n let them learn to fly di..
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post Dec 8 2006, 05:36 PM

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QUOTE(lainux @ Dec 8 2006, 05:32 PM)
i strongly believe it is her decision, as long as she doesn't get pregnant and be regret of it.
--> safe sex!

let say when you buy a car, do you wanna test drive it?  what happen if he/she cannot really perform?  :-)
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walau, talk about daughter leh...you say test drive some more. scary... shocking.gif
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post Dec 8 2006, 05:38 PM

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QUOTE(lainux @ Dec 8 2006, 05:32 PM)
i strongly believe it is her decision, as long as she doesn't get pregnant and be regret of it.
--> safe sex!

let say when you buy a car, do you wanna test drive it?  what happen if he/she cannot really perform?  :-)
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Do u mind i test drive your daughter?
My God......your so NORMAL....
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post Dec 8 2006, 05:39 PM

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QUOTE(mercurye @ Dec 8 2006, 05:36 PM)
walau, talk about daughter leh...you say test drive some more. scary...  shocking.gif
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you are starting to sound like an overprotective conservative parent.
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post Dec 8 2006, 05:41 PM

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QUOTE(Rusty Nail @ Dec 8 2006, 05:39 PM)
you are starting to sound like an overprotective conservative parent.
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no la. test drive tekan kuat sikit? how does that sounds? ultra modern? thumbup.gif
wait till you are a parent.
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QUOTE(mercurye @ Dec 8 2006, 05:41 PM)
no la. test drive tekan kuat sikit? how does that sounds? ultra modern?  thumbup.gif
wait till you are a parent.
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I believe that you have missed out lainux's point and your own as well. you said 21. therefore 'my daughter' is an adult therefore granting her responsibility on herself.

so, ask yourself this question, have you went against your own parents advice? i believe that every child was naughty once in their lifetime. let alone an adult who have the rights to do whatever they want.

lastly, (which is suppose to be my first point actually). Safe Sex. as mentioned by lainux. unless your kind don't believe in condoms and contraceptives, then it's your loss, not mine.

This post has been edited by Rusty Nail: Dec 8 2006, 05:53 PM
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post Dec 9 2006, 12:04 AM

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QUOTE(lainux @ Dec 8 2006, 05:27 PM)
those who voted NO are all apparently very young and have never enjoyed sex.  go ask those who have enjoyed sex(male or female), and they will tell you it is impossible to marry to a guy who can't perform!  If you don't trust me, go ask all the girls in late 20's onward, who have had good sexual experiences, they will definitely tell you 'Sex is almost the most important part in a long lasting relationship'!
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Sex is enjoyable... watch enough of james bond and you can see why. Haha. Sex is enjoyable only when BOTH sides want it. If I don't want to have sex or not ready but pressured (ala TS), I don't think it will be enjoyable. Wait, I don't think, I know.

I would have thought performance can be improved. If you follow the argument by lainux, you would have thought that men who can't perform will always be lonely and single.. then you will have alot of pitiful men out there, won't you? I believe that performance can be improved unless the man is an idiot with a super super ego and thinks that he is Mr. Perfect.

Long lasting relationship, of course sex is important. A lot of guys here were arguing on how can sex be not important. Well, sex is important. I never say it is not. It is just a choice that we make on whether to abstain or not. So don't be so quick to judge. I don't mind my other friends sleeping with each other, I just don't want to. And to the question of 'Without sex, will relationship crumble?' In my relationship, I still say NO.

Now back to TS, is she back here? Want to ask about progress. I can't believe that they are still living together. And have the guy started talking, or he has already moved out and shifted in with another new girlfriend?
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definitely! thumbup.gif
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QUOTE(sanook @ Dec 8 2006, 11:31 AM)
@madstone,

oh my god yourself. stop living in a fantasy world. you need to grow up yourself if you believe sex is not important. what kind of misconception have you been living under all these years? SEX IS IMPORTANT! love is about so much more than JUST SEX. I totally agree. but Sex is an important part of a relationship. otherwise, the relationship will be called platonic, which doesn't really exist in a genuine boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. even your father and mother are in a non-platonic relationship that involve sexual contact. Malaysian people like you really need a wake up call and a reality check.

as I said before and I will say it again, there is absolutely no reason for anyone to avoid sex  FOR THREE YEARS if the relationship is healthy and passionate. exactly what is so wrong about sex that you have to avoid it in such a manner in a relationship? nobody it putting a pre-existing condition on relationship and love but if a person repeatedly, incessantly, vehemently refuse sex for such a long period of time, any person who has a normal desire for sex, be it a girl or a guy, will start to ask question. exactly what is so wrong with sex? is there something wrong with me? is there something wrong with you?
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You didn't understand what i'm talking about...
what i meant is, in a relationship, love is in the 1st place
sex u can put it at 2nd or 3rd or 4th, depends
but sex can never put at 1st place in a relationship
so, u marry your partner because of sex? she gave u marveleous sex?
that's y u marry her? she gave u good BJ? That's y u marry her? laugh.gif laugh.gif
till 60 u still want her to perform oral sex for you? laugh.gif laugh.gif

i dunno u but i marry my partner because of her politeness, very good girl n many more good things
and sex, i put it at 2nd place
i wanna love her for the rest of my life, don't want to betray her just for sex outside
no f***ing around n that's the idea of a relationship man!

simple thing like that u don't understand? haiyaaa doh.gif doh.gif doh.gif
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QUOTE(madstone @ Dec 9 2006, 07:38 AM)
You didn't understand what i'm talking about...
what i meant is, in a relationship, love is in the 1st place
sex u can put it at 2nd or 3rd or 4th, depends
but sex can never put at 1st place in a relationship
so, u marry your partner because of sex? she gave u marveleous sex?
that's y u marry her? she gave u good BJ? That's y u marry her?  laugh.gif  laugh.gif
till 60 u still want her to perform oral sex for you?  laugh.gif  laugh.gif

i dunno u but i marry my partner because of her politeness, very good girl n many more good things
and sex, i put it at 2nd place
i wanna love her for the rest of my life, don't want to betray her just for sex outside
no f***ing around n that's the idea of a relationship man!

simple thing like that u don't understand? haiyaaa  doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif
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haiya yourself. your original post comes with a totally different meaning than your current post. you are changing your tune now and what you are saying are in agreement with me now. what is there to argue. you change your tune and you still want to claim superiority by saying "simple thing like that you don;t understand"?
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post Dec 9 2006, 09:07 AM

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sex is damn important for a guy.... but sometimes, some guys after f**k, will less care for their partner coz they belief, the gurl already belongs to them biggrin.gif


i think its ur girl fren prob..... go ask her watch mmroe porn movie... btw, wat pain is it during inter cousre? mayb ask ur fren use gel or put some air liur tongue.gif

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post Dec 9 2006, 03:16 PM

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Lol at @rissband. smile.gif

Anyways, to whom that have something agaisnt those who voted NO, I think you really should just respect our point of view. This is, a poll afterall.
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QUOTE(sanook @ Dec 9 2006, 08:59 AM)
haiya yourself. your original post comes with a totally different meaning than your current post. you are changing your tune now and what you are saying are in agreement with me now. what is there to argue. you change your tune and you still want to claim superiority by saying "simple thing like that you don;t understand"?
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Sigh....sanook and still with his attitude..

QUOTE(low yat 82 @ Dec 9 2006, 09:07 AM)
sex is damn important for a guy.... but sometimes, some guys after f**k, will less care for their partner coz they belief, the gurl already belongs to them biggrin.gif

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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Dec 9 2006, 03:52 PM)
Sigh....sanook and still with his attitude..
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OOOOoooo like that meh?
i see shakehead.gif shakehead.gif
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post Dec 9 2006, 05:43 PM

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if be together is becuz wan have sex with her u gal say this relationship can last ornot?
ofcuz she 's good gal

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QUOTE(soulmad @ Dec 9 2006, 06:43 PM)
if be together is becuz wan have sex with her u gal say this relationship can last ornot?
ofcuz she 's good gal
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relationship which are like tat won last long...
this is wat i think... starting a relationship for sex is bad... but starting sex for relationship is good... of course it depends on how we accept each other's preference in sex... juz like the phrase "we eat to live and not live to eat"... icon_idea.gif
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post Dec 11 2006, 06:37 PM

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the guy is a jerk la!ur gf in pain u still ask ur gf to have sex?
from what u say..seems like the guy only want her to have sex...
sex is an act of love..how can u force ur loved one to do it..
some more ur loved one is in pain u still ask her to do..sei lou!!
anyway in my opinion if it hurts it means the guy is not doing it right!so its his fault!
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eh sorry ah if im very kek...but its true lo..the bfs so bad... oops.gif
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post Dec 12 2006, 09:43 AM

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I know a couple.. who already agreed dat dey only gonna have sex only to have children..

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