QUOTE(sanook @ Dec 8 2006, 11:31 AM)
@madstone,
oh my god yourself. stop living in a fantasy world. you need to grow up yourself if you believe sex is not important. what kind of misconception have you been living under all these years? SEX IS IMPORTANT! love is about so much more than JUST SEX. I totally agree. but Sex is an important part of a relationship. otherwise, the relationship will be called platonic, which doesn't really exist in a genuine boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. even your father and mother are in a non-platonic relationship that involve sexual contact. Malaysian people like you really need a wake up call and a reality check.
as I said before and I will say it again, there is absolutely no reason for anyone to avoid sex FOR THREE YEARS if the relationship is healthy and passionate. exactly what is so wrong about sex that you have to avoid it in such a manner in a relationship? nobody it putting a pre-existing condition on relationship and love but if a person repeatedly, incessantly, vehemently refuse sex for such a long period of time, any person who has a normal desire for sex, be it a girl or a guy, will start to ask question. exactly what is so wrong with sex? is there something wrong with me? is there something wrong with you?
You didn't understand what i'm talking about...
what i meant is, in a relationship, love is in the 1st place
sex u can put it at 2nd or 3rd or 4th, depends
but sex can never put at 1st place in a relationship
so, u marry your partner because of sex? she gave u marveleous sex?
that's y u marry her? she gave u good BJ? That's y u marry her?
till 60 u still want her to perform oral sex for you?
i dunno u but i marry my partner because of her politeness, very good girl n many more good things
and sex, i put it at 2nd place
i wanna love her for the rest of my life, don't want to betray her just for sex outside
no f***ing around n that's the idea of a relationship man!
simple thing like that u don't understand? haiyaaa