Guys, especially quiksilver. you stated need to be cool when discussing. But what if he/she doesn't want to cool at all and keep raising, what can be done? Everyone has it own patient rite? I just want to know how 2 calm her since she doesn't want to calm at all?

Anyway, does girl really like something new? I mean something never be done before? Something like 新鲜

This post has been edited by Joshua_0718: Oct 14 2006, 09:42 AM

thats why u have to be cool. If ur not...then when both are emotional....its gonna be rough.

Keep a cool head..and u can control the situation. Remind her to be cool.
Remind her that u guys are trying to resolve sometihng here, and need a clear head.

And like miyoko said...letters or emails are a nice way too.
U can tell a lot....things u dont feel like telling in front of each other, and the other cant cut what ur saying.
It gives a chance to tell everything, and the other listens or reads to everything.

good luck.

Joshua_0718, since she doesnt stay calm in a conversation, you have to be really patient with her, I'm sure she will be touched with your patience sooner or later. Yes, it's really tired to be a gentleman but it's worth the price you pay for. Well, of course if you seriously can't stand such impatient girls, I guess there's no future in such relationship then.

Girls or should I say most girls like suprises and fresh ideas. You dont have to do it too often too, surprise her when she least expected. It will make your bond between both of you stronger than before.

Disclaimer : All the above are based on my area of studies and analysis, may not be applied to all.

3 words = Do Your Best.

Will. I do till the end, all the way down.

Morning people~ How's everyone doing today?

Im still having runny noses...
Saw u online late at nite or early morning yesterday....

i wasnt well enuff to chat though....

how are u?

hug her and start discussing

sumting new to try.. and dun forget to kiss her forehead.. sure she will.... . and the result : myb she will agree with u..

maybe will agree?
meaning...
maybe will slap u oso!

no la...im joking...
u know her better...u can tell..

Tried once. Hehe. As I really broke down and cried, really comfortable hugging her. Seriously, she will give in anything.

P/S: She always wanted to see me cry but I always insist will not cry 4 her to c. 1st time cried in front of her for the 1st time.

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i wonder...does a man's tears can soften a girl's heart like a girl's tears can do to a man?

i know the power of women's tears...
can tear me apart.

wat about the power of men's tears? anyone?

one way is to talk softly to ask her to cool down. say that you dont wanna fight with her. just wanna resolve the problem together with her.

i used to hate man's tears. i used to think that man should be strong and shouldnt cry. however, over the long run and with experience, i realized that man's tears is even more valuable than woman's tears. why? cos man seldom cry but woman, always cry. well, i would definitely heart pain if i see my dear cry, as he would too.

i have soft spot for sentimental men, men who cry when it comes to his relationship..... but not those who simply cry la..

if i have a guy who cries because of me it will be very touching

Still runny nose ar... take care of yourself yo.
I'm physically not in front of my msn now

Well, so far I'm ok.. recovered. And back to the good ole routine of going to work, balik rumah, etc... and hug my honey more

Guy, u better dont cry coz it will reduce ur marks..... coz gal love brave guy who can take any consequences....

Aik..Queen of LNT oso come to LDR thread ar..
Hehe..Good Afternoon everyone..

No wonder she keep on 1 me to cry when I am sad, but I insist don't want to cry. Although cried badly infront of her once, I still always tell myself not to cry infront of anyone especially her.

Haha. Not really, brave in other place also can show what. Example, when ppl usik her, can show that you will protect her.

so...does this means that it is OK for a guy to cry when they are hurt, especially in relationships related problems?

Of cos its okie to. Im a guy who cry when Im hurted too and yea, especially in relationship related problems.

It's ok to let out than to pretend strong..