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miyoko
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Oct 12 2006, 04:20 PM
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Getting Started

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Oct 12 2006, 04:00 PM) U mean, me having some sense of maturity in the way I handle problems? i mean, the way quiksilver reply to your problem shows his maturity. i was talking about quiksilver mah... anyway, i'm glad that at the age of 18, you handles your problem well. i believe that you are in the good hand of good people. though i'm not a christian, i believe that your faith in Him has made your problem seems lighter. so, how are you doing now? havent got time to check on your blog. sorry... This post has been edited by miyoko: Oct 12 2006, 04:22 PM
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jdreamer
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Oct 12 2006, 04:58 PM
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Im fine, Im fine. Yea, feeling better. Mum came to Kuching on tuesday, now enjoying the motherly love.
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firewire
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Oct 12 2006, 05:11 PM
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Seriously, mum's love tops all, appreciate while she's still around
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suiteng
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Oct 12 2006, 05:20 PM
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Good for you
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quiksilver
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Oct 12 2006, 06:40 PM
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i miss my mom!!!
miss my family!!!
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7chai
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Oct 12 2006, 06:47 PM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Oct 12 2006, 06:40 PM) i miss my mom!!! miss my family!!! give them a call.
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quiksilver
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Oct 12 2006, 06:56 PM
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QUOTE(7chai @ Oct 12 2006, 07:47 PM) will do...!
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7chai
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Oct 12 2006, 06:59 PM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Oct 12 2006, 06:56 PM) say "mummy daddy I love u all" but I bet u wont say that lol.
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pcdoctor_my
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Oct 12 2006, 07:05 PM
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Oct 12 2006, 09:13 AM) hmm... maybe a little bit more of the background story between both you and her will help us to give our advice. anyway, i think you should follow your heart. well, your intention is to go Bangkok for holiday, dont let it spoil your holiday. when you are there, find your answer. it doesnt have to be only her doing the decision. what i mean is, even if she found that she wanna be with you, but you think that you dont wanna proceed on, you dont have to just follow to her decision just because she wants to. hope you get my hint. I met her online for the first time last year when I first started as a member of a Thai friends-making site. She was a adopted child in the family and recently her step-father divorced with her step-mother,so it really hit a great impact on her. I loved her because I wanted to take care of her and I know that she is in this bad situation. It was also a great pain trying to convince her that the relationship will go fine. This post has been edited by pcdoctor_my: Oct 12 2006, 08:15 PM
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Joshua_0718
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Oct 12 2006, 07:10 PM
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Recently quarrel with my gal. Last week quarrel, today quarrel again. Might get break up anytime.
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7chai
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Oct 12 2006, 07:13 PM
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Oct 12 2006, 07:10 PM) Recently quarrel with my gal. Last week quarrel, today quarrel again. Might get break up anytime.  You seems lost ur confident on this relationship liao wor.
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Joshua_0718
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Oct 12 2006, 07:15 PM
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QUOTE(7chai @ Oct 12 2006, 07:13 PM) You seems lost ur confident on this relationship liao wor. Yup. You are right. I am bored and tired of this relationship already. But I just couldn't lose her. All I have to do is repair the problem. Really tiring...
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quiksilver
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Oct 12 2006, 07:21 PM
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Oct 12 2006, 08:10 PM) Recently quarrel with my gal. Last week quarrel, today quarrel again. Might get break up anytime.  all i can say is...everybody fights. but if the frequency of quarrels are getting more n more often....then it might be getting to the worse...break-up. What u can do if u really wanna stay in the relationship is talk about it. Clear out the situation. Whats happening. Find out why a lot of fights.Seek for the source. Tolerate. But dont get emotional. Be logical. Find out solutions.Not leave them to deal with later...it will only be a bigger problem later. Are u guys on LDR or the usual relationship? Good Luck
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quiksilver
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Oct 12 2006, 07:23 PM
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QUOTE(7chai @ Oct 12 2006, 07:59 PM) say "mummy daddy I love u all" but I bet u wont say that lol.  I do.All the time. haha. I dont mind. Why shud we? I dont wanna look back one day...when my parents not around anymore....and lost that chance to tell them i love them. U shud call ur parents and tell them u love them liao.
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7chai
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Oct 12 2006, 07:23 PM
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Oct 12 2006, 07:15 PM) Yup. You are right. I am bored and tired of this relationship already. But I just couldn't lose her. All I have to do is repair the problem. Really tiring...  Its tiring. I guess it really is. Sometimes think happen cannot change, coz its oledi a facts. But you may try change the way, the style or maybe the pattern. It migh bring different chemistry. I guess u still love her. Its time to make a change.
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7chai
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Oct 12 2006, 07:24 PM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Oct 12 2006, 07:23 PM) I do.All the time. haha. I dont mind. Why shud we? I dont wanna look back one day...when my parents not around anymore....and lost that chance to tell them i love them. U shud call ur parents and tell them u love them liao.  aiseh...my parents know i love them. I no need say also they can feel edi. lol nowdays everything is base on feel geh, even with family lol
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quiksilver
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Oct 12 2006, 07:29 PM
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QUOTE(7chai @ Oct 12 2006, 08:24 PM) aiseh...my parents know i love them. I no need say also they can feel edi. lol nowdays everything is base on feel geh, even with family lol  haha... of coz.... my parents know i love them oso. i know they love me oso. But it never stops us from telling each other we love them. My gf knows i love her oso. Telling u Love them doesnt hurt anyone...just make somebody's world brighter. Anyway....wasnt it YOUR idea to tell my parens i llove them? lol
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7chai
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Oct 12 2006, 07:31 PM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Oct 12 2006, 07:29 PM) haha... of coz.... my parents know i love them oso. i know they love me oso. But it never stops us from telling each other we love them. My gf knows i love her oso. Telling u Love them doesnt hurt anyone...just make somebody's world brighter. Anyway....wasnt it YOUR idea to tell my parens i llove them? lol  becoz u and ur family not stay together mar. So u shud call them and tell them "I love u" lor.
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max_cjs0101
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Oct 12 2006, 08:56 PM
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Tarp hater and detector
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Oct 12 2006, 07:15 PM) Yup. You are right. I am bored and tired of this relationship already. But I just couldn't lose her. All I have to do is repair the problem. Really tiring...  It sure is tiring at 1st but effort pays.Good luck.I've been through very tough times before..
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max_cjs0101
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Oct 12 2006, 08:59 PM
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Tarp hater and detector
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Oct 12 2006, 03:08 PM) haha!! actually... i think u guys shud already know... Esp Miyoko...i think she knows what kind of guy i am liao... I am that mushy type actually.... Im just afraid if im too mushy.... More than her! im a libra, and she is aries....thats y... and i think im quite funny oso. lol. But if i mushy all the time....funny all the time...im afraid she get bored... Maybe i shud try to be the insensitive type sometimes? miyoko sure knows ppl..she's pro ma. Anyway,im a mushy guy too..haha..
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