I have a worrysome or confusing decision to make since it's talking about LDR.
It's about me and my ex Thai gf.

I know it's totally not recommended to try your luck online.Long story about our past also (in fact we were in and out of a relationship twice, and twice she backed out because from what I understand, she is afraid of going deeper into commitment)

I talked to her today, as her pet-bro, and I told her I am planning to goto Bangkok for holiday and to meet up some friends.
And she replied "Do you want to stay with me?"

I asked her "You really want to stay with me?" and she said "Yes,you're my brother, it's not a problem "

Later in the conversation she said to me this:
"if i like you when you in Bangkok i will hold you to be one for me, ok?"
(Constructed as: "If I like you, when you are in Bangkok, I will take you as my bf")

The big question: Should I go back to her, for good? Would she go back to me for real?

I have more 'clues' to this puzzling chat, but I figured this one hints out loud.

This post has been edited by pcdoctor_my: Oct 10 2006, 12:15 PM

I met her online for the first time last year when I first started as a member of a Thai friends-making site. She was a adopted child in the family and recently her step-father divorced with her step-mother,so it really hit a great impact on her.

I loved her because I wanted to take care of her and I know that she is in this bad situation. It was also a great pain trying to convince her that the relationship will go fine.


This post has been edited by pcdoctor_my: Oct 12 2006, 08:15 PM