...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 2:::...., The Fellowship of LDR
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 Oct 11 2006, 05:46 PM
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Oct 11 2006, 05:54 PM) Today bad bad.. smoking again good to hear that ur out of the hospital. Keluar hospital liao ma  what? smoking? again??? haha.... thanx for contributing to the haze. this is my thread...people talk about ways to stop smoking... ive stopped for quite some time now... http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=350549&st=0 anyway...take care! miyoko no news meh? |
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Oct 11 2006, 07:40 PM
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wah..suiteng smokes 1 ar?Wei,dun smoke much la..
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Oct 11 2006, 07:56 PM
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Sowie lor... see my avatar also know I hopeless liao...
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Oct 11 2006, 08:44 PM
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Try to stop it loh, hmm, yea at least try to. Start with reducing the amount of cigs per day.
Anyway, Im gonna go apply for a part-time job at the Popular bookstore to distract myself from thinking that much. This post has been edited by jdreamer: Oct 11 2006, 09:38 PM |
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Oct 11 2006, 08:49 PM
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Ya la..Can reduce slowly 1 ma..
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Oct 11 2006, 10:37 PM
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QUOTE(max_cjs0101 @ Oct 11 2006, 09:49 PM) Ya la..Can reduce slowly 1 ma.. yeah...im trying to stop too... now have stop ald... |
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Oct 12 2006, 09:06 AM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Oct 11 2006, 11:53 AM) Wah... hello guys. sorry for MIA. i was sick yesterday Where's everybody? Suiteng how are u? Jdreamer, what are u up to? Miyoko, hope u are doing fine? Firewire? Guys?  now recovering. jdreamer, glad to hear that you are moving on well. all the best, yeah.suiteng, smoking is no good, especially when you have asthma. you wouldnt want jorineb to be worried about you, right? must take care oh. |
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Oct 12 2006, 09:13 AM
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QUOTE(pcdoctor_my @ Oct 10 2006, 11:19 AM) I have a worrysome or confusing decision to make since it's talking about LDR. hmm... maybe a little bit more of the background story between both you and her will help us to give our advice. anyway, i think you should follow your heart. well, your intention is to go Bangkok for holiday, dont let it spoil your holiday. when you are there, find your answer. it doesnt have to be only her doing the decision. what i mean is, even if she found that she wanna be with you, but you think that you dont wanna proceed on, you dont have to just follow to her decision just because she wants to. hope you get my hint.It's about me and my ex Thai gf. I know it's totally not recommended to try your luck online.Long story about our past also (in fact we were in and out of a relationship twice, and twice she backed out because from what I understand, she is afraid of going deeper into commitment) I talked to her today, as her pet-bro, and I told her I am planning to goto Bangkok for holiday and to meet up some friends. And she replied "Do you want to stay with me?" I asked her "You really want to stay with me?" and she said "Yes,you're my brother, it's not a problem " Later in the conversation she said to me this: "if i like you when you in Bangkok i will hold you to be one for me, ok?" (Constructed as: "If I like you, when you are in Bangkok, I will take you as my bf") The big question: Should I go back to her, for good? Would she go back to me for real? I have more 'clues' to this puzzling chat, but I figured this one hints out loud. |
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Oct 12 2006, 09:14 AM
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sorry sorry, double posts. well, things with my dear is ok liao. we had a talk yesterday. glad that things is ok.
This post has been edited by miyoko: Oct 12 2006, 09:23 AM |
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Oct 12 2006, 11:05 AM
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Oct 12 2006, 09:06 AM) hello guys. sorry for MIA. i was sick yesterday hope you recover soon... now recovering. jdreamer, glad to hear that you are moving on well. all the best, yeah.suiteng, smoking is no good, especially when you have asthma. you wouldnt want jorineb to be worried about you, right? must take care oh. |
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Oct 12 2006, 11:14 AM
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Oct 12 2006, 10:06 AM) hello guys. sorry for MIA. i was sick yesterday hope u get well too. now recovering. jdreamer, glad to hear that you are moving on well. all the best, yeah.suiteng, smoking is no good, especially when you have asthma. you wouldnt want jorineb to be worried about you, right? must take care oh. Im oso recovering from some cold. I dont know why but since im a little boy, i always get sick when my birthday is coming. Every year. It is kinda strange. Just wanna ask u guys, how often shud i call my gf? if u have any opinions. im worried i call her too much. or too less. |
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Oct 12 2006, 11:40 AM
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how often?? then average la!!!! aiyaa..twice a week.. if she complaint or anything u call her everyday la coz u know she wan ur attention. that easy.
people start complaining when they not satisfied with sumting!!!! |
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Oct 12 2006, 11:44 AM
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QUOTE(shook @ Oct 12 2006, 12:40 PM) how often?? then average la!!!! aiyaa..twice a week.. if she complaint or anything u call her everyday la coz u know she wan ur attention. that easy. actually i call her almost everyday...people start complaining when they not satisfied with sumting!!!! im worried she gets bored. the thing is i miss her so much....but if she gets bored...i rather not call her... |
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Oct 12 2006, 12:03 PM
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better u ask her.. she like it or not... be honest in ur relationship.. then how about dating?? how often?? less dating mean more calling.. hehehe
erm.. mybe juzt once a day. if every hours mean u r annoying!!! she got work to do.. This post has been edited by shook: Oct 12 2006, 12:05 PM |
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Oct 12 2006, 12:24 PM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Oct 12 2006, 11:14 AM) hope u get well too. i dont know how to answer your question. hehehe... actually, you should ask your gf and ask her how she feels with your callings. if she's ok, then just be it lorr... dont worry, just ask her and explain to her that you scared that you'll be disturbing her with too many phone calls. well, basically, once a day is acceptable lah...Im oso recovering from some cold. I dont know why but since im a little boy, i always get sick when my birthday is coming. Every year. It is kinda strange. Just wanna ask u guys, how often shud i call my gf? if u have any opinions. im worried i call her too much. or too less. |
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Oct 12 2006, 12:36 PM
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QUOTE(shook @ Oct 12 2006, 01:03 PM) better u ask her.. she like it or not... be honest in ur relationship.. then how about dating?? how often?? less dating mean more calling.. hehehe ok then....erm.. mybe juzt once a day. if every hours mean u r annoying!!! she got work to do.. dating? NO...this is LDR thread liao.... we are far-apart. QUOTE(miyoko @ Oct 12 2006, 01:24 PM) i dont know how to answer your question. hehehe... actually, you should ask your gf and ask her how she feels with your callings. if she's ok, then just be it lorr... dont worry, just ask her and explain to her that you scared that you'll be disturbing her with too many phone calls. well, basically, once a day is acceptable lah... oic...more than that is disturbing eh? huhu...i get it. Thanx u guys. |
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Oct 12 2006, 02:54 PM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Oct 12 2006, 11:44 AM) actually i call her almost everyday... try to put some jokes in the conversation and talk mushy stuff lor..im worried she gets bored. the thing is i miss her so much....but if she gets bored...i rather not call her... |
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Oct 12 2006, 03:08 PM
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QUOTE(max_cjs0101 @ Oct 12 2006, 03:54 PM) try to put some jokes in the conversation and talk mushy stuff lor.. haha!!actually... i think u guys shud already know... Esp Miyoko...i think she knows what kind of guy i am liao... I am that mushy type actually.... Im just afraid if im too mushy.... More than her! im a libra, and she is aries....thats y... and i think im quite funny oso. lol. But if i mushy all the time....funny all the time...im afraid she get bored... Maybe i shud try to be the insensitive type sometimes? |
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Oct 12 2006, 03:56 PM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Oct 12 2006, 03:08 PM) haha!! my advice is, just be yourself. your gf loves you for who you are. actually... i think u guys shud already know... Esp Miyoko...i think she knows what kind of guy i am liao... I am that mushy type actually.... Im just afraid if im too mushy.... More than her! im a libra, and she is aries....thats y... and i think im quite funny oso. lol. But if i mushy all the time....funny all the time...im afraid she get bored... Maybe i shud try to be the insensitive type sometimes? yeah, you gave me an impression that you are those mushy type of guy. never fail to express out your feelings. this kind of guy is usually sensitive. however, looking from the way you put some of your reply, especially to jdreamer, i also feel that there are some sense of maturity in the way you handles problems. as for being funny, that i dont know lah. |
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Oct 12 2006, 04:00 PM
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U mean, me having some sense of maturity in the way I handle problems?
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